so me and my boyfriend are both each others first and he is quite large. Alot of the time after sex i am extreamly sore and if i go to the bathroom it stings really badly but it doesnt always happen just 90 percent of the time. i know i didnt catch anything from him considering we were each others firsts. what could it be tho...please help...i would really like to enjoy sex with out having to worrie about hurting afterward
Mon, 08/20/2007 - 06:48
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Hurts after sex - OUCH - help me
hmm w8 a while b4 havin sex again? talk to a doc?
In the early stages of our sex lives some women do become sore. That part of you has not been functioning before. When size is a great issue, use plenty of lube. Also, use polyurethan condoms rather than latex. They are smoother at a microscopic level.
The stinging may be because you may have torn a bit during sex. Just make sure after going to do your business you clean yourself (wash with warm water and such) Just to make sure it doesnt get infected. Also(as this has happened to me before) Zincofax (stuff they use on babies for rashes) and help the healing and keep away the sting a bit.
My vagina entrance will sting a little sometimes if I pee right after sex... it's just because the skin was rubbed raw a little.
Make sure you are wet enough either naturally or w/ added lube.
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;191232]My vagina entrance will sting a little sometimes if I pee right after sex... it's just because the skin was rubbed raw a little.
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same here...i just assumed it was normal, since it goes away fairly soon after.
Vagisil is a life saver in this cases.
[QUOTE=Brandye;191120]In the early stages of our sex lives some women do become sore. That part of you has not been functioning before.[QUOTE]
we have been haveing sex for about a year in march
well i know i hurt for about the first 5 times we had sex then it was great. but it was about the 8th, 9th and 10th time i get really bad cramps for the first few minutes but would slowly wear off.
just give the sex time and soon you will be loving it :)
Being sore has to do with using the tissue; friction causes some harshness and voiding adds insult to injury. The areas heal very fast & if you do not have sex daily then you may notice more of a soreness. This is part of life as a female, it happens, not a big deal unless you are experiencing pain.
[QUOTE=Brandye;191120] Also, use polyurethan condoms rather than latex. They are smoother at a microscopic level.[/QUOTE]
My husband and I just tried polyurethan condoms last night because we saw that Trojan brand has them now, and it all but solved my irritation after having sex. I know it's not uncommon for women to be allergic to latex, but another problem I had been having was the lube we were using. Any kind of KY will make me irritated, but using Astroglide helps. So you may want to try some new things like that to see if any of it helps.
yea i agree about the ky persephone. For a while we were using the warming ky and it burned. Like hurt bad to use it. we dont use condems cause he always pulls out and and goes on my tummy.