hey there, been in a relationship for a while now, and am very comfortable with my boyfriend. ive been in a few relationships and he is the only one that has made me orgasm. tho i get very self aware, due to the fact that when i ejaculate my boyfriend gets grossed out by the fact that it is salty and smells heavily like urine. i always empty my bladder b4 hand. and i dont feel that that much urine can come out, especially since i had urinated 10 minutes prior. is this normal or am i really a whizzing fountain?:confused:
Mon, 05/18/2009 - 04:50
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huh
From your description you are in fact ejaculating, not urinating. The two fluids are different. Your ejaculate comes from rudimentary glans with the same origin as the prostate.
BTW, we do not give orgasms away. Each of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can hope for is to help our partner achieve his/hers. That you are successful in enjoying orgasms with this boyfriend probably means that you are giving him some verbal or probably non-verbal feedback on how you are responding to what he is doing and for what you need now/next.
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I would tell him that when men orgasm our ejaculate isn't the greatest smelling either but its not an issue for you!
I disagree with Doc. If it smells heavily of urine, it is urine. The ejaculatory fluid from the Skene's glands does not smell like urine. Most authoritative descriptions of female ejaculation state that it does not smell like urine.
Some women do urinate a bit when experiencing orgasm but that is usally in very small amounts.
You may need to consult a doctor.
You should also consider why this guy has been the only one capable of assisting you reach orgasm - since YOU are really the only person who can "give" yourself an orgasm. What's the matter? Don't you enjoy orgasms?
hmmm i dont feel that i am urinating i mean i dont think a big sploosh of urine builds up 10 mins after going to the washroom, and it feels amazing i just feel really embarrassed about the smell. maybe diet is a factor?!? and perhaps the reason that i have only reached orgasms with my current love is because i wasnt comfortable with the other men i have been with. thx for the input.
DIET HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.
I do wish people would forget that fallacy.
You most likely have an infection somewhere lingering about causing the odor.
Hence my recommendation you go see a doctor about it.
Diet can cause your urine to smell thats for sure asparagus is one of the worst! :D
Do you have a scientific study to back it up?
Well when I eat asparagus then pee it smells like asparagus. Thats all the proof I need!
a very un-demanding sort of person