Ok well its just something that is fustrating me and her so much.... When I give her oral sex she enjoys it alot but she cant seem to orgasm and this is what she tells me exactly. " It feels so so good and gets to a point where I start to have alot of build up like I am going to have an orgasm but then when it gets to this point it just fades away... " I told her to just let loose and not think about nothing and she says she is just letting her mind go.... I have tried this 4x already and she has told me she has never had an orgasm in her whole life but no 1 has never came even as close as I have to make her have this feeling im making her have! So if some1 can please give me advice on whats happening it would be great ty!
Mon, 01/28/2008 - 06:43
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Huge problem with her and her orgasm!!!
Read Around The Boards....try Searching Around...this Question Has Been Asked Quite A Few Times!!!
1. She has never had an orgasm.
2. You have done this four times.
What do you expect? Instant development of sexual response does not happen. Unlike the male orgasm which is almost automatic, the female orgasm is partly learned. She needs to learn how to masturbate to orgasm to find out what constitutes "close" and learn what she is looking for.
Have you read through the Board Notices section including the Index? If not, please read this plus the Posting Guidelines.
Here are some articles for you regarding your concern.
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
Female Sexual Response
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
The Index lists many other helpful and insightful articles that you may certainly benefit from.