Hi, I'm new here & I have a question for the girls.
Basically, I started seeing this girl just over a month ago, we've had lots of sex but never anything too interesting because we both didn't know what what our boundaries were. As in, what each other wouldn't do.
We talked about what we wanna do to each other, she told me she wants me to cum on her ass & lick it off. I'm up for that. But I didnt tell her I wanna bust one off all over her face.
My question is, how likely is it for a girl to give you hassle about spurting on her face? I really wanna do it, & i think she's a filthy bitch, but i dont wanna piss her off or anything. She knows I wanna kiss her while she has cum in her mouth, but its not exactly the same as busting my man fat on her face is it?
How would you advise i go about this without directly asking her? It's kinda embarrassing asking directly.
Maybe I could shoot on her lips then rub it all over with my tongue?
Who knows.
Thanks in advance for replies.
Sirene.
Ask her. That is not a pleasant surprise. Trust me.
Who's titties are those in your av?
ROFLMAO!!...just brilliant!!
Well they are very nice
Thought for the day:
Discretion is the better part of valor.
Interpretation: Just because you have the balls to do (or say) something that doesn't mean you should.
Think of the forceful expulsion of semen landing on her face akin to Chinese water torture. Even if you dribble, it just ain't cooth.
Bathe beforehand if either of you expect to engage in oral sex to include anal play.
> we've had lots of sex but never anything too interesting because we both didn't know what our boundaries were. As in, what each other wouldn't do.
Talking is good. Communication is the cornerstone to having a successful relationship and that includes a romantic relationhip and all that that entails. From what you say, you have started discussions and are learning instead of guessing or wondering.
In addition, a woman sets the limits for how far the two of you can go when making out. She is also free to extend the boundary at any time. So, how does a guy know when he has gone as far as she is willing? Simple. The procedure is known as using "Implied Consent". Consent to make out is implied so you do not have to ask. When you have gone as far as she is willing she will either tell you to stop or she will stop you by taking your hand, etc. Now, this is where it gets interesting: How do you know when she has extended how far the two of you can now go? Easy. Using the technique of Implied Consent, you just keep making out and when you get to the point where she used to call a hault, you will find she doesn't this time. She silently grants consent to continue on until you reach the new limit. And, so it goes, onward and upward. Now, you may have self imposed limits, also, and if so, that's fine, too. What Implied Consent does is to permit the two of you to freely explore within a range of comfort without having to constantly ask for approval or if one of you would like to do this or that.
> How would you advise i go about this without directly asking her? It's kinda embarrassing asking directly.
Asked and answered. The better part of valor suggests that you do not spurt on her face. Although, as with ejaculating in her mouth, ultimately she has the final say and this should be discussed.
If i try do something the 1st time, & she moves my hand away or whatever, when I try it later the 2nd time she might not move it away cos she might think im forcing her into it. She might think "why is he trying this again? I signified to him last time I didn't want it".
Your advice is good though.
We can't shower before anal play, it's like a spur of the moment thing, or at least we want it to be. We don't plan those things.
We talked last week about me licking the cum off her *******, & i know it would turn her on doing that, but i cant ask her to get a shower before lol. Maybe a bit deeper into the relationship she will. Or maybe she will wash anyway when she wants me to do it, she might demand i do it while we're ****ing, which would turn us both on her telling me to do it.
Anyway, thanks.
IF you two are able to talk about the other things you want to do to each other then why do you find it difficult asking her this. The worse thing she can say is no but at least then you know. IF you find it that difficult to ask her why dont you leave suacy messages in places you know she will find them, leave a few messages and just sneak that one in then the ball is in her court as to what she wants to do about it.
We just got drunk and she told me to cum on her so i wanked on her face lol. We both loved it, no probs anymore :)
Life is so simple.