Now im no newcomer when it comes to sex, however i do have a question for everyone. Every time i have sex with my g/f we have to lube up, because shes just not wet enough, and quite often during sex. I want to know if this is a problem with my g/f not being horny enough or if it happens to everyone?... i would like to know if everyone has to do, or if not, how others do it???
Thu, 11/13/2003 - 05:23
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How Wet is Wet
i usually dont have trouble getting real wet but then after 10-15 minutes of intercourse i start to dry out some.
also, ive noticed this happens more when the fan is on high..lol
just little things like that that you dont seem to notice have an effect.
also, it could depend on her time of the month or maybe medications she's on.
even OTC sinus meds that are used to dry up the sinuses dry up everything else... including the mouth and any other orfice.
well, my g/f and i never need any extra lub, even when we jump in to full sex without any foreplay, she gets wet very very fast.
But i guess some women may have more trouble than others in getting wet, or maybe you just need more foreplay. That usually works. My advice is that you should go for some foreplay, then some more, than oral sex for at least 15 min, and then sex. Also talk to her, maybe something else is bothering her, like the place where u guys have sex, or the position you are using, you know, maybe there is something you can do to help her feel better during sex.
c ya