Don't worry about how do I use it, worry about does it feel good. If you pound like a jackhammer, it ain't gonna feel good for the both of you., unless your about to cum, that's diferent. Take your time and enjoy it. That's how you can use it better.
Depends on the woman's mood...she may want it slow and sensual until the last few moments one day and then hard and jackhammer the next all the way through (or at least I'm like that lol).
Um, I don't know if this has any bearing, but sometimes my boyfriend moves from side to side when he's on top (I don't know why he does but it semi feels good). Also, you can change depth of penetration. You can go fast with short strokes for a while and then switch to slow, deep strokes. I promise you if you surprise her with the latter, she'll love ya!
Sometimes my girlfriend likes it slow and likes me to almost tickle her g-spot or somedays fast and hard almost to where it hurts or have it hurt alittle.
Sometimes I like it to the point where it hurts...it's nice. power issues, maybe. I don't know.
As for how you use it...you can't really be instructed, since it's different for all women. Try things you think will fel good for one or both of you, and ask your partner what they would like to try. If they say no though, they mean no.
Don't worry about how do I use it, worry about does it feel good. If you pound like a jackhammer, it ain't gonna feel good for the both of you., unless your about to cum, that's diferent. Take your time and enjoy it. That's how you can use it better.
Depends on the woman's mood...she may want it slow and sensual until the last few moments one day and then hard and jackhammer the next all the way through (or at least I'm like that lol).
Um, I don't know if this has any bearing, but sometimes my boyfriend moves from side to side when he's on top (I don't know why he does but it semi feels good). Also, you can change depth of penetration. You can go fast with short strokes for a while and then switch to slow, deep strokes. I promise you if you surprise her with the latter, she'll love ya!
Sometimes my girlfriend likes it slow and likes me to almost tickle her g-spot or somedays fast and hard almost to where it hurts or have it hurt alittle.
Sometimes I like it to the point where it hurts...it's nice. power issues, maybe. I don't know.
As for how you use it...you can't really be instructed, since it's different for all women. Try things you think will fel good for one or both of you, and ask your partner what they would like to try. If they say no though, they mean no.