wow sounds liek you have quite the horse for a boyfriend. anyways all i can sudjest is just try him out first and if you can handel the pain great but if not then masturbate with gradualy bigger and thicker items untill your comfortable enough knowing you can take something as big as him then go back to him and try again and if it fits with a bearable amount of pain then just keep using him untill it stretches you out enough. hope that helps.

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You should just use a lot of lube and have him enter slowly and gently to begin. Just let him go in inch by inch and see how much of it you can handle and just learn from it and see how it turns out. If you really need help then have him start with some fingering with about 2 or 3 fingers, probably 3 and just see what you can take

I don't know!!
I would be scared LOL
How do you even give oral?
Very carefully?

Yeah what the above has said...make sure you are plenty warmed up...extra lube if needed...and avoid positions that make for extra deep penetration.
Try spooning, but doggy might hurt.
Good luck!

Just go slow...try missionary position & keeping your legs down and bent at the knees. It works. The larger men know they have to take it easy & slow. Oral works, you have to use part of your hand in unison with your mouth. LOL!

Huh... don't you mean 2 hands Sera? :D

Just need one! Mouth and one hand to do the action, the other to cup the scrotum! LOL! Works like a charm (good control over the gag reflex)!:p

[quote=eastsidebytch;184297]lol exactly wut was said below, use a had and tha mouth :p[/quote]

Works like a charm! LOL!;)

you should try with him gently sliding into you to see where he will reach your cervix. each time he moves in and out of you and when you are well lubricated, you should be able to take more of him in you. Of course there will be a limit as to how much of him you could fit in you. Try it gently and slowly ....you will find that you will enjoy him

Or just DON'T have intercourse with him! He's only a bf, not like he's your hubby or even fiancee for God's sake. Just b/c yer datin' doesn't mean you need to do it. Sheesh. PLUS he could permanently stretch you out and you'd be damaged for life. Who wants that...from someone who ISN'T your life partner? Please. Just have fun. Fun doesn't mean he has to have his penis in your vagina. Plenty of other stuff as was mentioned above. Good for you for catching on. Sorry don't mean to sound harsh, just concerned about your well-being.

[quote=FelixLovesKitty;184433] PLUS he could permanently stretch you out and you'd be damaged for life.
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I can promise you really this does not happen! All "down below" returns to a normal state! LOL!

well... depends if the guy doesn't get out of control. Streched maybe not, but... damaged? Maybe...

[quote=alban lusitanae;184448]well... depends if the guy doesn't get out of control. Streched maybe not, but... damaged? Maybe...[/quote]
Men who well-endowed as such, uhmmm, know they have to be a bit easier with their partner. I have come across about 4 in my life, one was a spouse, the other a fiance, and they know they have to take it easy. In fact, most have a complaint--with women they generally cannot fit it all in, LOL! I wish those here who wish they were larger would realize it does have it's limitations! My ex used to say even in the men's room other men would make comments to him! Once I bought him a pair of volleyball shorts, he said (without trying them on); I can not wear them! I was a bit offended, thought they wold look nice, to prove his point, he put them on...he hung out the leg!!! It was pretty obscene! I still laugh about these little things!!!

You know Sera, I wish we could talk to some of those guys and make an educational video for the kids :D would help a lot, you know?

[quote=alban lusitanae;184452]You know Sera, I wish we could talk to some of those guys and make an educational video for the kids :D would help a lot, you know?[/quote]

I think their idea of an educational video is porn! It kills me! They all want these large "members" but in ways are asking for a curse! LOL! Be prepared to wear long shorts, long bathing suits, being the brunt of jokes, limited sex positions, and TRUE embarrassment if you get out of the pool with a hard on! LOL! Looks like a tent! And you can scare the hell out of many women!

And they all want this why???

to have a stupid sense of male ego that they are the biggest in town? That they still don't know it's not the way?

I don't know...

[quote=alban lusitanae;184475]to have a stupid sense of male ego that they are the biggest in town? That they still don't know it's not the way?

I don't know...[/quote]

Maybe just to please themselves??? LOL!

[QUOTE]Once I bought him a pair of volleyball shorts, he said (without trying them on); I can not wear them! I was a bit offended, thought they wold look nice, to prove his point, he put them on...he hung out the leg!!! It was pretty obscene! I still laugh about these little things!!!
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LOL
that's hilarious!!
Just curious...how big was he?? LOL if this chick's dude is 13inches?!? I can't even imagine...That's like twice the size of my b/f's and his is just right.

i dont understand the "i need a bigger penis" thing. im 7 inches (hence the name) and never had any complaints.

[quote=demonbuttercup;184508]LOL
that's hilarious!!
Just curious...how big was he?? LOL if this chick's dude is 13inches?!? I can't even imagine...That's like twice the size of my b/f's and his is just right.[/quote]

He never measured nor did I! My ex-husband was 10" and my ex-fiance was substantially larger. When erect, it was either straight out or dipped down! It was funny b/c in his jeans (flaccid) it was down his leg! And with an erection it would peak out the top of his waist band! It's a good thing the first time we slept together, I had a few glasses of champagne, when I removed his pants it was a very big surprise! LOL! He could not even walk around in boxer shorts in the house since he hung out of them too and briefs just did not work! I am not poking fun at him nor the situation, it was just really funny! LOL! Doggie style well, that was a real killer...we did not do it for reasons, probably why I hate the position!

This is why I know women return to our normal state & do not stay stretched!!!

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it's all ABOUT SIZE here isn't it!!...ROFLMAO

Dang lol
substantially larger??!? lol
That would be annoying that you couldn't even wear boxers w/out having it hanging out! lol
And having to have it like stuffed down the pants leg.

I guess it kind of goes the same w/ women who wished they had bigger breasts. There is a girl at my work and her's were like G's or something another... bigger than double Ds. And she was considering reduction b/c of the shoulder/back pain and the fact she could never find tops or bras that fit right. When she got prego I told her she couldn't afford to get any bigger! LOL

You can sometimes have TOO much of a good thing :)

Another good advice:

Sometimes it can be frustration for you boyfriend because he can't just "take" you, but has to be careful all the time if you can't have all of him inside of you at once.

What we do is that we wrap a scarf around the base of his penis. Not too thight though!
The scarf will shorten the length of his penis so you won't get it all in and still he can take you hard. Experiment with the size of the scarf and how much you have to wrap around it.

It's not very romantic, but it's working! ;)

[QUOTE=sera300;184443]I can promise you really this does not happen! All "down below" returns to a normal state! LOL![/QUOTE]

LOL. Thanks for the clarification...I was just worried about this poor girl! I'm probably above-average size but nowhere near 13" and thinking about this girl and 13" just gave me some pause! :eek: I still say hold off on the intercourse at what looks like this young age for her...until later... :D

My boyfriend is pretty big too (not quite 13" but his 10" is enough for me). A few things though. First, do what everyone has suggested. Have him go slow and make sure you are plenty wet (use lube if you have to). Secondly, positioning is everything. I find that doggystyle or any position involving deep penetration will be uncomfortable but the easiest one for me is when im on top. It gives me the control of how fast, how hard, and how deep. However, not to make you worry but, I have been having sex with my boyfriend for almost a year now and it still hurts me most of the time. If, in time, you don't stretch to accomodate his size then go to your ob-gyn and ask for a lidocaine gel. My gyno prescribed it to me and if you put a little on the hymen and around the opening about 10-15 minutes before you guys have sex, it will make it a little more tolerable.

[QUOTE=eastsidebytch;184930]lol i can have sex with him if i want to. i do not need to b lectured or told lies about being perminatly stretched out. by the way, im not really young. im 20 and fully capable of making that decision.[/QUOTE]

1. You didn't say you were 20. From the tone in your posts, you sounded more like 14. Whatever.

2. Re-read my post. Esp the last line: Sorry don't mean to sound harsh, just concerned about your well-being.

Nobody is lecturing you or telling lies. The stretch thing was cleared up, and acknowledged. Did you notice how the person clearing that up didn't take offense or act condescending? People posted to this thread to help you. A little maturity on your part might get you more respect.

Hmm, I'm not sure that I believe this. Does any guy have 13"? Is it possible to be that large? I'm not even sure John Holmes was that size!