Many women actually get into masturbation almost by accident. Something happens that feels good and they seek to replicate that. No real need to wait for an empty house, masturbation is easily done under the covers as one goes to bed. Do a dearch on female masturbation techniques and you will find many sites. Clitical.com is especially focused on helping young women get started.

Never heard of cybating but from the word structure it would appear to be a variation of cybersex - getting online or the phone with someone and sharing the experience.

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> im a fourteen year old girl and I plan to try masturbation tomorrow for the first time while I'm alone in the house and I'm a little clueless as to where to start and honestly I'm a little nervous... Anyone have any ideas where I can start?

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Boy or girl, Mother Nature gives us all the sensitive nerve endings in our skin, a pleasure center in our brain, yet does not connect the two together!

Boys pretty much learn to masturbate matter of factly right out of puberty. Hormones drive us to explore and experiment and to quickly learn how, not so for girls.

Girls may or may not learn to masturbate during the teen years or beyond. Although acutely interested in sex, the drive to masturbate is more of a conscious effort than it is for boys. Girls require more practice, yet the pay off is in being able to enjoy a variety of different sensations and orgasms and in quicker succession.

Please read this how-to article:
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?

Here is additional information:
The Anatomy of the Female "O"

Why Women's Orgasms?

> what's cybating?

"Cyberbating"? Someone used this for the first time a few days ago. My guess? Masturbating while in contact with a "partner" over the internet.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?