I am just curious of different things to try when giving head? I was thinking of maybe putting ice cubes in my mouth while doing it, would this be pleasureable or no?!:) :confused:
Thu, 08/09/2007 - 01:39
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How to Spice up giving head?
That's it for me! I am sure other's have some thoughts...I also found accidentally if you just gargled with Listerine before hopping in bed...not a good thing! LOL
any other suggestions?!
Very few men I found like it, from my experience it makes them go limp...LOL! Try a mint in your mouth...
so would something warm be better, cause i purchased this tuff from a sex toy party where u put it on their dick and then blow on it, and it gets warm....
guessing that'd be better!
You bought "Motion lotion"? That works better!
As long as there are no teeth involved, your guy probably won't be missing anything.
[QUOTE=sera300;189690]That's it for me! I am sure other's have some thoughts...I also found accidentally if you just gargled with Listerine before hopping in bed...not a good thing! LOL[/QUOTE]
haha! my guy likes that!
i noticed that once he kissed me after rinsing with listerine and it made my lips tingle...so i wanted to try giving him oral with it :)
although, i didnt use actual mouthwash for the blowjob...i used one of those listerine flash strips
i have found that 'pop rocks' or 'moon dust' works great. just make sure there's not any big pieces in it before you put it in your mouth -those could hurt him when they pop. also you'll need to clean him up before intercourse - you don't wanna get any sugar in there.
hmmm i've tried kissing with pop rocks before but i didn't really like the idea of having a sticky sugary mess :(
Spice up getting head?? shirley you jest!! for MOST guys, just getting head and having the partner havng a smile on their face is totally Bonus!!...not very many "extras' need apply! IMHO
ice cubes=bad idea. reason is simple. the cold can chill the penis and reduce the sensations, even make it numb. not to mention it gets in the way. id rather my girl just put more of my dick in her mouth instead of filling it with ice.
same goes for pop rocks. sorry, not fun. its like getting a blowjob from a firecracker.
here's some tips to spice it up:
-talk to him before you do it. sound eager. rub your hand over his dick through his pants, and tell him how much you can't wait to suck it. anticipation increases pleasure.
-when you do get to the blowjob, remember to constantly smile and make eye contact. let him know how much you enjoy it. do it with words too.
-talk about him cumming. a guy hearing his girl talk about where she wants his cum while sucking his dick means you'll be dealing the cum issue pretty soon ;)
basically, its not about gimmicks. you dont need them. be yourself, be really into it. thats what'll get him going
[QUOTE=bustybabe1845;189680]I am just curious of different things to try when giving head? I was thinking of maybe putting ice cubes in my mouth while doing it, would this be pleasureable or no?!:) :confused:[/QUOTE]
1.) begin with a hand job. Learn how to mimic how he does it.
2.) follow this with oral stimulation
3.) when he is about to climax, combine the two for what I refer to as the "dynamic duo".
As for oral stimulation ideas, here is what I suggest:
1.) before giving head and while using your hand, rub along the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin running from the cleft to the top of the shaft on the underside of the penis).
2.) learn where his other hot spots are located. One or more will be randomly distributed around the Corona rim.
3.) Lubricate the palm of your hand and then cup it slightly in order to rub all around the Glans as if polishing a doorknob.
4.) Lubricate your hand and the shaft of his penis and then lightly graze over the skin instead of gripping it and moving the skin within your grasp up and down along the shaft. The very light brushing touch will do much to peak his response.
5.) Moving on to oral, lick or lap the Frenulum.
6.) lick or lap the surface of the Glans, Corona, and along the length of the shaft.**
7.) Make sure your lips cover your teeth
8.) As above using your moist lips. (Saliva works OK as a lube)
9.) Combine your lips and tongue along with in and out movements within your mouth in creative ways
10.) Repeat those actions that he particularly responds favorably to.
11.) Combine oral and hand stimulation at the end when he tells you or indicates that a climax is about to happen. Be creative with your hand movements both rotating and stroking while doing oral.
** The same rotating or circular motions work wonders when done with your tongue, also!
tease and lick around the head, go up and dpwn the sides of the penis with your lips but spend most time with lips sealed around penis and try rubing the top of the penis head on the roof of your mouth as you go up and down