[QUOTE=THQMA5;155952]Not just done it what was it like as im new and got a "rep" for oral but i aint got round to sex can you guy/girls give me hints for it it does happen i can make sure i can have anoother "rep".
also what is the best way to get a girl?[/QUOTE]

I was 13 when i first had sex how. are you still a virgin? how old are you

17 when i lost mine.

14 When I lost mine, wasn't the greatest, it was always spur of the moment for the thought of being caught by parents lol

What do you mean an oral "rep". You are a guy, generally bad reps dont go around about guys other than being a player or something... If you have sex with someone you like, don't brag about it to your friends for one, you don't have to tell anyone. It is something between you and your partner and should cherrish it, not treat it as a new toy.

I was 17, my gf was few months younger and we were both virgins. I think a frustrating experience for both of us and really sad this was the case. Only one piece of advice : wait til you both feel it's right, and you dont have to rush through - take time to "discover" together and each other...

I was 16, & it wasnt that great. In fact, I dont remember cumming from my first time. I just had to put my cock away & go home as the bus was due. It was with the most sexually boring girl ive ever been with :(

I was one of the fortunate few who did not have to worry about catching a bus or being walked in on by my parents or a room mate. I was 18 when I first had sex and it was generally good. My boyfriend came and I wasn't in a world of pain because he is great with his hands (if you know what I mean.)

I was happy that I did it when I did because I think that we were both really comfortable with ourselves by then and it made it that much nicer.:)

If I was this guys girlfriend I would tell him what to go do with himself tell me sonny what is more important to you being happy with a girl you TRULY love or just getting a good reputation which normally is not good if your curious to know. A girl is not going to be terrificly interested in a guy that cares only on how many he scores as that means you a bang and walk away from her very nice chum just make sure you never get one pregnant

[QUOTE=Newtolove;156518]If I was this guys girlfriend I would tell him what to go do with himself tell me sonny what is more important to you being happy with a girl you TRULY love or just getting a good reputation which normally is not good if your curious to know. A girl is not going to be terrificly interested in a guy that cares only on how many he scores as that means you a bang and walk away from her very nice chum just make sure you never get one pregnant[/QUOTE]

Amen. It's not about the sex.

you may find tomas that many girls fall for the more quite kind of guy because he is more reliable of course if you just want to bang every slut in school then good luck they should know what is in store for them if you have this "rep" as they too have a rep and that will get you another rep if reps are all your after

I was 15... It was realy good......

I was 15 wen i had sex....
It was d 1st of August dis yr...!! It was rly gud XxXxX

[QUOTE=Makki100;156671]I was 15 wen i had sex....
It was d 1st of August dis yr...!! It was rly gud XxXxX[/QUOTE]

No offense, but if you're writing like that, chances are you're not exactly ready to be burdened with the possibilities of the adverse effects of having sex :\.

16 here. Lost it a few weeks ago. Waited eleven months. :)

It was beautiful :). And I'm so glad I gave it to the guy I did, because I'm pretty sure if I'd given it to anyone else I would have regretted it.

i was 17 wen i first done it

I was 11 and he was about 15, I'd say. Mind you, I was 5'9" when I was 11 so do not be imagining some little girl here.

So long as you are responsible and in control of your sexuality there's nothing wrong with being an ethical slut - the term applies to either sex.
Condoms and birth control are mandatory. If she says no, she means no. And neither of you ever talk. If you wish to behave as adults then you had better be adult.

[QUOTE=blackrosesred;156679]No offense, but if you're writing like that, chances are you're not exactly ready to be burdened with the possibilities of the adverse effects of having sex :\.

16 here. Lost it a few weeks ago. Waited eleven months. :)

It was beautiful :). And I'm so glad I gave it to the guy I did, because I'm pretty sure if I'd given it to anyone else I would have regretted it.[/QUOTE]

yea quite right if you can spell please do so proporly if you poor speling is your nomal spelling get yourself an education most girls arn't interested in idiots.

evilevilkitten, why don't you know how old the guy was ? sounds a bit on the spur of the moemnt with a stranger to me mind you don't give tomas any crazy ideas

I was 17, it was really lovely :) it hurt quite a lot but my boyfriend was so comforting he made me feel better...I feel so lucky that I had a great first time, so many people I know weren't so lucky and I tell my boyfriend as much as I can how greatful I am for him for being so great!

It was a week before my 18th birthday :)

Being a guy that seems quite late. I wasn't into sex until I fell in love with my girlfriend, then it just happened.

I was realy scared but got into it after a while, I still remember how strange it felt yet at the same time how good it felt :D

I was 15 1/2. It was really nice, and didn't hurt at all. I am definitley glad I "lost it" with someone I cared about, was comfortable with, and trusted.

The best way to get a girl? Be nice to her, be interested in her. I don't think you should be so concerned about just "getting a girl." It's not just about the sex. In order for sex to be really good (in my opinion) it should be with someone you are comfortable with, love, and trust. I'm not saying to wait until marriage or anything, but I think you'll be a lot happier if you have sex with a girl who you actually respect and care about rather than someone at a party. I know, it's hard. I always assumed I would just have sex with some guy at a party. But, I started going out with my boyfriend, we fell in love, we became best friends, we had sex... and I'm so glad it worked out that way. Sex is an integral part of our relationship, but it's just a part of our relationship. We are understanding with each other, and that allows us to be adventurous and try new things. We can talk openly about sex and that allows us to explore our desires and fantasies.

So... I think you'll have a lot better of a first time if it's with someone you like. I DO believe that sex doesn't have to be about love, it can just be lust, but I think it'll be better if it's caring.

Another bonus of sex within a relationship: you won't be comfortable with a girl at a party. You won't be able to discuss sex honestly and talk about what you want to try. If you have a girlfriend, you'll have a great friend, PLUS you'll have a sexy girl of your own to whisper in your ear and ask if she can make your fantasies come true.

As for what to do your first time: RELAX! Light some candles, play some music. Enjoy.

i was 14 when i lost mine~ 5 years ago, and remember it like it was yesterday

i was 14 my first time

Don't give Tomas any crazy ideas? Like what? That sex is great? Pleasure is good for you? That guy knew what he was about. He said the first time would not be all that good due to the hymen. He was correct. He also said that after that sex would be better. He was correct about that as well.

I agree that he should not talk. But other than that, the guy wants to please women - there is no better attitude for a male to have. He is not thinking only of himself.

Dear Tomas, just relax and do not rush penetration. You both should be happy, relaxed and aroused. Make her comfortable. Be slow and gentle. Do not worry about orgasms just yet. It won't happen; not the first time. Then rest for a bit. And do it again - almost as slowly as before but this time you have to get her to orgasm. Caress her G-Spot with the head of your penis. Gently but frequently until she orgasms. Her nipples will harden involuntarily.
After that snuggling and bearhugs with laughter will cement the deal.

hehe this young man is after a reputation therefore he wants to talk far and wide, the only reason he wants a good reputation is so that more girls will come to him and HE will get mote pleasure. obviously the more pleasure you give a woman the more you will recieve you are right about that but what you do with a girl remains between her and you. Don't worry if you were good she will tell her friends and you will get all the girls you want but don't go broadcasting yourself or you will be left with a hard wanting willy in the morning.

by the way evilevilkitten we normally refer to animals as male and female although the human race too is an animal it is much nicer to use the words man - boy do you refer to yourself as a female ? ok I know your attitude is not too romantic but nobody gets pleasure out of biology

I am 15 and I havent done it, and im proud, Its just because i respect the woman i love, that is all.

newtoLove - we ALL get pleasure out of biology this is not rocket science we're talking about here!

He's not quite a man and not quite a boy - so he's male. Can you see now?

Females trade notes as part of a 'be safe' campaign. If his last girlfriend was injured or unhaappy for some significant reason, other females might like to know - just to be safe.

Usually, when preparing for a date, males do not worry about ending up dead in a ditch somewhere whereas for females the threat is very real so watching out for eachother is a good thing.

i was 16 when i lost mine

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;157180]Don't give Tomas any crazy ideas? Like what? That sex is great? Pleasure is good for you? That guy knew what he was about. He said the first time would not be all that good due to the hymen. He was correct. He also said that after that sex would be better. He was correct about that as well.[/QUOTE]

This isn't necessarily true. I know that for SOME girls, sex is not good the first time. However, I experienced NO pain, and I know this is true of many other girls. The key is to be comfortable, work up to sex slowly, and relax. Sex will get better with time, but it doesn't have to be bad the first time. In fact, it can be quite fun. I liked the first time so much that when we both recovered, I asked if we could try again. :)

True but I was speaking of my first time. Not that it was all that bad. And since the second time happened shortly thereafter, well - tis all good!

[QUOTE=THQMA5;157223]No i only want the one that is right for me i dont want any girl that is with me just for pleasure.
Its not my fault that it got out i didnt tell any one i never new im that good, you no what girls are at my age they tell there friends secrets like that and i dont mind i just pretend that i dont no.[/QUOTE]

once again you show you imaturity and have now reversed all that you said in your question you either misworded the question or have changed you mind still you will meet someone soon enough you don't need a rep to get one girl and certainly not a rep of the sort you want you need a rep of being a nice intelligent young man or male whatever you prefer

Wow you all were so young when you lost your virginity. Im 19 and still a virgin, damn proud I might add!

Expressionless - and why are you proud?