I was 13 and she was 15. We skipped school and went too my friends house. To be honest I wish I would have waited. It really sucked and it took me some time to have sex again. But now that in 29 (jesus I'm that old) me and my wife have sex almost every day.... Go Wifey.......
i was WAY too young. i was almost 13. no, im not a slut. i was stupid, and you really should wait till your with the right person, or liike me, youll regret it.
i know it sounds stupid, but its smart to wait.
being a virgin is SO not a bad thing.
22, and wouldn't change a thing about it. I lost it to the person I wanted to and he didn't run off afterwards. He's still around actually. Can't go wrong with that.
I was 18... I'm still 18 actually... I'm still with the guy I lost my virginity too [my boyfriend]. I don't regret it at all, I love him so much. Besides, if it hadn't been with him, it probably would have been some random hookup in college. Anyway, I don't wish it was any different, I loved it. We ended up having sex on a golf car [yeah...] on top of a hill that overlooked the entire valley and city... it was so amazing... we keep saying that not too many people can say that they lost their virginity in front of all of their city, hehe.
Lost mine when I was 14, I was dating my girlfriend for a year and a half. I wish we would have waited, it was too soon, pretty much ruined our relationship sorta a few months after.
17, still 17 and me and my gf are quite serious and are talking about marriage and our futures... she lost hers earlier but really regrets it substancially.
I was 17, do not regret one bit doing it with my then girlfriend. I do regret my "lack of experience" and maturity at the time though and not making it a "dream experience" for her - we talked about it 15 years later, each of us happily married to other partners, discussing without rancour whatsoever but with the honesty of old friends who had since survived worst. But maaaaaaan I loved her, that burning feeling!
i'm 18 and i lost it when i was 18 to the guy who i totally love....except we're not really together since i went away to college we decided to "just be friends" and our relationship now i guess is "friends w/ benefits who love each other" its really complicated but i couldn't imagine losing it to anyone but him.
I'm 18, almost 19, haven't lost it yet. I'm waiting until I get married or at least engaged. However given all the stories I hear about first-time sex, I'm planning on working up to where my girly bits can comfortably accomodate someone before actually having sex, so in the sense of breaking the hymen I hope to lose it to myself, haha.
I'm 18 and I just lost it to my husband. I'm sooo glad I waited. It was well worth it. I actually just visited this site to learn new stuff we can try!
Hi My Name Is Tiffany Im 17 And I Liked It I Like The Way He Didn't Hert Me
When My Honey Had Sex With Me I Gave It To Him To Show How Much I Love Him My Im With A Older Person Thin I,am He's Sweet But Now I Can't Stop I Want Him To Do It Over And Over
Hi there i was 18. i wish i would have waitted untill i was with the guy i am with now. we will be married next aept. but oh well. i think its great if people wait till they are married. i wish i did. or waited untill i got engaged . hehe
Hay I'm 17 too. I lost my virginity just a few weeks ago. My girlfriend lost her's 2 years ago. She is 17 also. She has been my best friend for 3 years now. We have only been dating for 2 months, but I feel comfortable with her. Go at your own pace. It's ok to take it slow.
[QUOTE=xcutezix;154632]Hi i'm 17 and have not yet had sex, i was just wondering how old you all was and whether you wish it had been different? thankyou x[/QUOTE]
define "Sex"
lol
I mean, I was 13 or 14 when I started fooling around with the girl two doors down(she was a year younger) and that was kissing and touching and general kid "Aren't we being grown-up?" stuff, but I didn't "lose it" until I was almost 19. It was OK, I was too fast(aren't we ALL the first few times?) and that was pretty much it...
AS for wanting it to be different? Not really. It was what it was. It's gotten a LOT better in the 20 years since then and now it can be great...
I have a question... i've known this girl for a long time... since we were born, we are best friends and know each other really well. I am 16, junior in high school and she is 15, freshman in high school. She has been mentioning having sex for the last couple of times i've seen her (we live far away from each other). And i saw her last night and she said that she really wanted to lose her virginity to me.
My question is that i have read so far that the people that lost their virginity at 15 regret it... i don't want her to feel that way. Should i wait or do it because she said she wants to?
CBuck03 - some regret it and some don't regret it. I couldn't wait to get rid of my virginity! It is such a handicap! I have no regrets about it! Life is so much more fun without it!
well i was 18 snd it was with my current boyfriend, im so glad i waited, most of my friends had done it when we were 16 or younger, it used to bother me that i hadnt, but then when it happened i knew it was right to wait.
I was 19 and I have no regrets. Mostly because I had strong feelings for him at the time and secondly, as someone else put it, I saw virginity as a burden.
Though, physically excruciating, emotionally it was perfect. He knew what he was doing, being older and experienced. He was very tender, kept looking at my face to see how I was doing. Asked me how I was feeling and if I wanted to continue. Afterwards, he just held me tight and fondled me. In short, he made me feel special and loved.
Though we're not together anymore, I do thank him secretly for starting me off on the right foot. It's probably because of him I find sex so enjoyable now and feel comfortable with myself.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;157264]CBuck03 - some regret it and some don't regret it. I couldn't wait to get rid of my virginity! It is such a handicap! I have no regrets about it! Life is so much more fun without it![/QUOTE]
It was a handicap at 11 ? (so you said in another post you baffle me ever more
i was 15 and even though it wasn't great, it wasn't bad either. and as for regretting it, not a chance. i was curious and am glad that my boyfriend (who i am still dating a year later) was willing to help. lol.
I am 20 and lost my virginity last month. We were both virgins and it was extremely awkward and uncomfortable. If I did not love him I don't think I could've gone through with it. I have no regrets.
I lost mine about 5 days ago and i'm 16. I've been seeing the guy since xmas, but it's not official. Only a few people know - so we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. And i have a pretty blasé attitude towards relationships aswell - so i don't expect it to carry on that much longer (i'm surprrised we've gone over a month already).
I don't regret it though. I chose to lose it to him cos I'm comfortable with him. He said he was a virgin, (and it's pretty easy to believe after doing it :p ) but it wouldn't really make a difference. We've been good friends since the begining of last year and I've been ready for a long time It was the right thing for me. :D
19, I had just gotten out of a long term relationship (she wanted to wait, I loved her so I went along with it). Anyways after she broke up with me, i got drunk and high at this party and slept with some girl I’d met that night! So to try and reason that it was worth it, i slept with her a bunch more times because she'd taken a real shine to me. I really didn't care about her so that ended quickly.
Then a little while later I started a relationship with a girl I’d known for a little while (current girl friend) and well, while I’d had sex before, and this is going to sound SO corny, with her, it was the first time I’d made love, and that’s what’s really important. I mean my first time I was coming down from a stiff buzz, and had just polished off a further half bottle of wine (not a lot for me, I’m a heavy drink) she had sitting around so I lasted for a solid half hour, not your typical guys first time.
Anyways the point I’m getting at is, i regret not sleeping with my long term girlfriend, and really the first love of my life, but it was her choice and i never pressured her and i'm proud of that. Then i had some drunk sex, that was kinda stupid but good, and then when I finally made love, it was real, and nice and not awkward cause i knew, sorta what i was doing, and what to expect.
So no i don't regret it, and you guys shouldn't either, sex is just sex, the first time you make love, now thats the one you'll really remember. Sorry that was so long.
[QUOTE=CBuck03;157260]I have a question... i've known this girl for a long time... since we were born, we are best friends and know each other really well. I am 16, junior in high school and she is 15, freshman in high school. She has been mentioning having sex for the last couple of times i've seen her (we live far away from each other). And i saw her last night and she said that she really wanted to lose her virginity to me.
My question is that i have read so far that the people that lost their virginity at 15 regret it... i don't want her to feel that way. Should i wait or do it because she said she wants to?[/QUOTE]
Crack the virgin in, it's not every day you get an invitation to bust a virgin open.
[QUOTE=thetease13;154676]22, and wouldn't change a thing about it. I lost it to the person I wanted to and he didn't run off afterwards. He's still around actually. Can't go wrong with that.[/QUOTE]
i just started having sex just 2 months ago and WITH the right person. I'm 20
21 for me. should have waited till I was 22 (currently) because the girl I'm with now deserves it more than the one who got it. like someone said earlier.. live and learn.
18, I dont regret it. It was wih my boyfriend (21) who I love and trust completley I couldnt have done it with someone i barely knew! And have been with for half a year at least.
I was 13 and she was 15. We skipped school and went too my friends house. To be honest I wish I would have waited. It really sucked and it took me some time to have sex again. But now that in 29 (jesus I'm that old) me and my wife have sex almost every day.... Go Wifey.......
I was 15 and it was ok. I was with the same guy for 4 years after that.
To be honest though I should have waited.
17 i was when i lost my virginity, i wish i would have lost it to my current girlfriend though.
I was 16, & I lost it to a christian bitch. It's good to know that my 1st sexual experience was frowned upon by her "god" hahahahaa.
16 years old, it was perfect, i'd been with my girlfriend for more than a year at that point...
15, and regret it, was drunk and banged some random chick at a party. Wish I would have waited and lost it with someone I care about.
i was WAY too young. i was almost 13. no, im not a slut. i was stupid, and you really should wait till your with the right person, or liike me, youll regret it.
i know it sounds stupid, but its smart to wait.
being a virgin is SO not a bad thing.
22, and wouldn't change a thing about it. I lost it to the person I wanted to and he didn't run off afterwards. He's still around actually. Can't go wrong with that.
I was 18... I'm still 18 actually... I'm still with the guy I lost my virginity too [my boyfriend]. I don't regret it at all, I love him so much. Besides, if it hadn't been with him, it probably would have been some random hookup in college. Anyway, I don't wish it was any different, I loved it. We ended up having sex on a golf car [yeah...] on top of a hill that overlooked the entire valley and city... it was so amazing... we keep saying that not too many people can say that they lost their virginity in front of all of their city, hehe.
Lost mine when I was 14, I was dating my girlfriend for a year and a half. I wish we would have waited, it was too soon, pretty much ruined our relationship sorta a few months after.
Lost mine at 19, to a woman I've been with for 28+ years! :D
She lost hers at 17 or 18, I think. If you were to ask her, she would have waited!
I was 32,waited for the right woman which is my wife.She did the same.I'm glad I waited.
17, still 17 and me and my gf are quite serious and are talking about marriage and our futures... she lost hers earlier but really regrets it substancially.
I was 17, do not regret one bit doing it with my then girlfriend. I do regret my "lack of experience" and maturity at the time though and not making it a "dream experience" for her - we talked about it 15 years later, each of us happily married to other partners, discussing without rancour whatsoever but with the honesty of old friends who had since survived worst. But maaaaaaan I loved her, that burning feeling!
i'm 18 and i lost it when i was 18 to the guy who i totally love....except we're not really together since i went away to college we decided to "just be friends" and our relationship now i guess is "friends w/ benefits who love each other" its really complicated but i couldn't imagine losing it to anyone but him.
> but i couldn't imagine losing it to anyone but him.
...and therein lies one of the reason why older women say they wish they had waited.
i am 19 and still virgin ,no sex without marrige
I was 15, at the time we loved each other but now I'm pretty sure having sex so early ended up dooming the relationship.
I haven't decided if it was worth it or not
I'm 18, almost 19, haven't lost it yet. I'm waiting until I get married or at least engaged. However given all the stories I hear about first-time sex, I'm planning on working up to where my girly bits can comfortably accomodate someone before actually having sex, so in the sense of breaking the hymen I hope to lose it to myself, haha.
I'm 18 and I just lost it to my husband. I'm sooo glad I waited. It was well worth it. I actually just visited this site to learn new stuff we can try!
Hi My Name Is Tiffany Im 17 And I Liked It I Like The Way He Didn't Hert Me
When My Honey Had Sex With Me I Gave It To Him To Show How Much I Love Him My Im With A Older Person Thin I,am He's Sweet But Now I Can't Stop I Want Him To Do It Over And Over
Hi there i was 18. i wish i would have waitted untill i was with the guy i am with now. we will be married next aept. but oh well. i think its great if people wait till they are married. i wish i did. or waited untill i got engaged . hehe
I was 15, with someone i didnt know too well.We're good mates now bt i think it wld hav been better if i waited.
I was 17. We're still together, and talking about getting engaged!
It was perfect.
i was 15 and it was wayyyyy to soon
Hay I'm 17 too. I lost my virginity just a few weeks ago. My girlfriend lost her's 2 years ago. She is 17 also. She has been my best friend for 3 years now. We have only been dating for 2 months, but I feel comfortable with her. Go at your own pace. It's ok to take it slow.
[QUOTE=xcutezix;154632]Hi i'm 17 and have not yet had sex, i was just wondering how old you all was and whether you wish it had been different? thankyou x[/QUOTE]
define "Sex"
lol
I mean, I was 13 or 14 when I started fooling around with the girl two doors down(she was a year younger) and that was kissing and touching and general kid "Aren't we being grown-up?" stuff, but I didn't "lose it" until I was almost 19. It was OK, I was too fast(aren't we ALL the first few times?) and that was pretty much it...
AS for wanting it to be different? Not really. It was what it was. It's gotten a LOT better in the 20 years since then and now it can be great...
I have a question... i've known this girl for a long time... since we were born, we are best friends and know each other really well. I am 16, junior in high school and she is 15, freshman in high school. She has been mentioning having sex for the last couple of times i've seen her (we live far away from each other). And i saw her last night and she said that she really wanted to lose her virginity to me.
My question is that i have read so far that the people that lost their virginity at 15 regret it... i don't want her to feel that way. Should i wait or do it because she said she wants to?
CBuck03 - some regret it and some don't regret it. I couldn't wait to get rid of my virginity! It is such a handicap! I have no regrets about it! Life is so much more fun without it!
well i was 18 snd it was with my current boyfriend, im so glad i waited, most of my friends had done it when we were 16 or younger, it used to bother me that i hadnt, but then when it happened i knew it was right to wait.
I was 19 and I have no regrets. Mostly because I had strong feelings for him at the time and secondly, as someone else put it, I saw virginity as a burden.
Though, physically excruciating, emotionally it was perfect. He knew what he was doing, being older and experienced. He was very tender, kept looking at my face to see how I was doing. Asked me how I was feeling and if I wanted to continue. Afterwards, he just held me tight and fondled me. In short, he made me feel special and loved.
Though we're not together anymore, I do thank him secretly for starting me off on the right foot. It's probably because of him I find sex so enjoyable now and feel comfortable with myself.
I lost mine this morning around 2:00am... :) and I'm 18... don't regret it at all!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;157264]CBuck03 - some regret it and some don't regret it. I couldn't wait to get rid of my virginity! It is such a handicap! I have no regrets about it! Life is so much more fun without it![/QUOTE]
It was a handicap at 11 ? (so you said in another post you baffle me ever more
i was either 12 or 13....not consented and i regret it...but now im dealing with it.
i was 15 and even though it wasn't great, it wasn't bad either. and as for regretting it, not a chance. i was curious and am glad that my boyfriend (who i am still dating a year later) was willing to help. lol.
I am 20 and lost my virginity last month. We were both virgins and it was extremely awkward and uncomfortable. If I did not love him I don't think I could've gone through with it. I have no regrets.
14 & no regrets...
I lost mine when i was 17
and of course how typical i blindly fell in love her even though she was still really in love with her ex.
i was terrible in bed and so was she, she lied and said she was a virgin but wasnt.
I look back and its crazy how badly i didnt have a clue about women and sex.
its fun to look back and see how much i have grown and learned about women. especially the things i have learned about the emotional dynamics
now im 24 and all of the feels like a lifetime ago.
I lost mine about 5 days ago and i'm 16. I've been seeing the guy since xmas, but it's not official. Only a few people know - so we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. And i have a pretty blasé attitude towards relationships aswell - so i don't expect it to carry on that much longer (i'm surprrised we've gone over a month already).
I don't regret it though. I chose to lose it to him cos I'm comfortable with him. He said he was a virgin, (and it's pretty easy to believe after doing it :p ) but it wouldn't really make a difference. We've been good friends since the begining of last year and I've been ready for a long time It was the right thing for me. :D
Old enough to get the job done, but not experienced enough to do it well. Oh well, live and learn :)
19, I had just gotten out of a long term relationship (she wanted to wait, I loved her so I went along with it). Anyways after she broke up with me, i got drunk and high at this party and slept with some girl I’d met that night! So to try and reason that it was worth it, i slept with her a bunch more times because she'd taken a real shine to me. I really didn't care about her so that ended quickly.
Then a little while later I started a relationship with a girl I’d known for a little while (current girl friend) and well, while I’d had sex before, and this is going to sound SO corny, with her, it was the first time I’d made love, and that’s what’s really important. I mean my first time I was coming down from a stiff buzz, and had just polished off a further half bottle of wine (not a lot for me, I’m a heavy drink) she had sitting around so I lasted for a solid half hour, not your typical guys first time.
Anyways the point I’m getting at is, i regret not sleeping with my long term girlfriend, and really the first love of my life, but it was her choice and i never pressured her and i'm proud of that. Then i had some drunk sex, that was kinda stupid but good, and then when I finally made love, it was real, and nice and not awkward cause i knew, sorta what i was doing, and what to expect.
So no i don't regret it, and you guys shouldn't either, sex is just sex, the first time you make love, now thats the one you'll really remember. Sorry that was so long.
[QUOTE=CBuck03;157260]I have a question... i've known this girl for a long time... since we were born, we are best friends and know each other really well. I am 16, junior in high school and she is 15, freshman in high school. She has been mentioning having sex for the last couple of times i've seen her (we live far away from each other). And i saw her last night and she said that she really wanted to lose her virginity to me.
My question is that i have read so far that the people that lost their virginity at 15 regret it... i don't want her to feel that way. Should i wait or do it because she said she wants to?[/QUOTE]
Crack the virgin in, it's not every day you get an invitation to bust a virgin open.
Bad attitude, Sirene. You done 'crack virgins in', or 'bust them open'. I hope that was just a joke in bad taste.
[QUOTE=thetease13;154676]22, and wouldn't change a thing about it. I lost it to the person I wanted to and he didn't run off afterwards. He's still around actually. Can't go wrong with that.[/QUOTE]
i just started having sex just 2 months ago and WITH the right person. I'm 20
I lost mine when I was 18. I'm 21 now and still with the guy I lost it too. I'm glad I waited for the right guy to come along.
21 for me. should have waited till I was 22 (currently) because the girl I'm with now deserves it more than the one who got it. like someone said earlier.. live and learn.
[QUOTE=cyclefreak;168581]Bad attitude, Sirene. You done 'crack virgins in', or 'bust them open'. I hope that was just a joke in bad taste.[/QUOTE]
lmao. Ah, reactions like that makes being crude worth it.
Baaaaaaaaaahhahahahahah...that was hilarious!!
18, I dont regret it. It was wih my boyfriend (21) who I love and trust completley I couldnt have done it with someone i barely knew! And have been with for half a year at least.
He waited for me. :D
I was 14 and lost it to my best friend. We should've waited, but I don't regret who it was with.
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