no not really
if its illegal then it usually isn't right. i mean you are underage and yes 5 years isn't a big age gap when you are 20 and he's 25 but at 15 it is.
i mean you wouldn't do something w/ a boy who's 10 right?
same principle.
besides what does a 20 year old have in common w/ a 15 year old. he's probably just looking to get laid.
but thats just my opinion.
Your question is a bit bland. You need to tell us if you love each other, how long you've been together, do you hang out alot? Is he a scrummy dude with a small dick who just wanders around looking for teens?
no, he's a very sweet guy. We aren't together, like dating really, He's just someone that I want to mess around with, I guess if you could put it that way. I'm a virgin, he's experienced, I knowhe could help me out. I trust him, I don't love him, but he's a nice guy.
bravo to everyone in this thread. They're all right.15 yr old girls are niave and from the sounds of it, you're giving into his wanting to get into your pants. you're going to get hurt, young girls get their heads involved.
Sweetheart, you should at least wait until you are over 18 for a man who is considerably older than yourself to take advantage of your body. At least he won't go to prison.
When I was 15 I was dating a 23 year old man. At the time I didn't really think there was anything wrong with that. I said I am mature for my age. Well my mother found out that we had sex and she tried pressing charges on him. I wouldn't admit to it, so the police couldn't do anything, but I got in a ton of trouble. After a couple months I found out what a snake he was and broke it off. Now that I am a mother, and an adult, I feel that a relationship with an adult and a teen is WRONG. I can't imagine my daughter dating a 23 year old when she is 15, and I would never date a boy that much younger than me. Save yourself the risk and stay away.
1. It is absolutely illegal and he could be arrested, charged, and jailed as a sex offender, child molester and rapist. If you like him, are you accepting of this outcome?
2. You're "a virgin, he's experienced, I know he could help (you) out." Honey, he's not looking to help you out with anything. He's in it for himself PERIOD.
3. "I trust him, I don't love him, but he's a nice guy." HE'S A NICE GUY?!!! No 20-year old nice guy would even entertain the notion of bedding an underage "friend."
Don't try to justify this with a "I'm mature for my age" statement. The simple fact that you're considering this as an option indicates that you're simply a 15-year old who wants to experience sex for the first time.
Sorry to come down on you so hard cheeta, but you're heading down a dangerous path. If you want to screw up your life, screw it up with someone your age.
First of all it is illigal and plus you don't needa be doin anything with a 20 year old anyway. If you do do anything i would wait until you are ready anyway. Just think if your parents find out about this person they will lock him up cuz it is illegal.
Go wiseman on the last part.
You need someone your age. He doesn't love you. It is a hard truth for a hard world.
no not really
if its illegal then it usually isn't right. i mean you are underage and yes 5 years isn't a big age gap when you are 20 and he's 25 but at 15 it is.
i mean you wouldn't do something w/ a boy who's 10 right?
same principle.
besides what does a 20 year old have in common w/ a 15 year old. he's probably just looking to get laid.
but thats just my opinion.
Your question is a bit bland. You need to tell us if you love each other, how long you've been together, do you hang out alot? Is he a scrummy dude with a small dick who just wanders around looking for teens?
Drew
it depends on the situation.. I like demonbuttercups point of view... would u date a 10 yr old?
no, he's a very sweet guy. We aren't together, like dating really, He's just someone that I want to mess around with, I guess if you could put it that way. I'm a virgin, he's experienced, I knowhe could help me out. I trust him, I don't love him, but he's a nice guy.
Demon is spot on. At 15 and 20 your interests are not compatible. At 20 and 25, that may change. At 25 and 30, it is not an issue.
There will be a Chick Chat posting later today on "Am I ready/" Wait a couple hours and read that.
MY ADVICE! DO NOT PURSUE THIS RELATIONSHIP!
I know it makes YOU feel cool because your friends see and "older" man who's interested in you...but it is WRONG and ILLEGAL!
And, belive it or not, he's taking advantage of you!
bravo to everyone in this thread. They're all right.15 yr old girls are niave and from the sounds of it, you're giving into his wanting to get into your pants. you're going to get hurt, young girls get their heads involved.
Sweetheart, you should at least wait until you are over 18 for a man who is considerably older than yourself to take advantage of your body. At least he won't go to prison.
When I was 15 I was dating a 23 year old man. At the time I didn't really think there was anything wrong with that. I said I am mature for my age. Well my mother found out that we had sex and she tried pressing charges on him. I wouldn't admit to it, so the police couldn't do anything, but I got in a ton of trouble. After a couple months I found out what a snake he was and broke it off. Now that I am a mother, and an adult, I feel that a relationship with an adult and a teen is WRONG. I can't imagine my daughter dating a 23 year old when she is 15, and I would never date a boy that much younger than me. Save yourself the risk and stay away.
teknics response excluded, all good answers.
1. It is absolutely illegal and he could be arrested, charged, and jailed as a sex offender, child molester and rapist. If you like him, are you accepting of this outcome?
2. You're "a virgin, he's experienced, I know he could help (you) out." Honey, he's not looking to help you out with anything. He's in it for himself PERIOD.
3. "I trust him, I don't love him, but he's a nice guy." HE'S A NICE GUY?!!! No 20-year old nice guy would even entertain the notion of bedding an underage "friend."
Don't try to justify this with a "I'm mature for my age" statement. The simple fact that you're considering this as an option indicates that you're simply a 15-year old who wants to experience sex for the first time.
Sorry to come down on you so hard cheeta, but you're heading down a dangerous path. If you want to screw up your life, screw it up with someone your age.
First of all it is illigal and plus you don't needa be doin anything with a 20 year old anyway. If you do do anything i would wait until you are ready anyway. Just think if your parents find out about this person they will lock him up cuz it is illegal.
Go wiseman on the last part.
You need someone your age. He doesn't love you. It is a hard truth for a hard world.