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How many young guys are into older women?

Has anyone seen "The Graduate"?If not it's a film about a middle aged woman "Mrs Robinson(Anne Bancroft)who seduces a much younger man(Dustin Hoffman)I am in my 40's and wondering how many younger men out there want to get it on with an older more experienced woman,for real or in fantasies:p

Venom "Don't judge a book by it's cover"."Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

> wondering how many younger men out there want to get it on with an older more experienced woman,for real or in fantasies

"More experienced"? Do you mean more knowledgeable or do you mean someone who has had sex a few more years? The latter does not mean she is "experienced" having acquired a lot of how-to information.

Please read this two-part article:
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:

ThanksDD2 I have read what you suggested.It makes perfect sense to me now.btw by experience i meant knowlege and skill combined

Well at 49 I still consider myself young, but not as young as used to be. I always preferred older women for their intellectual and emotional maturity as well as their sexual experience. When I was in my twenties I had several partners in their late thirties. Now of course I think women in their forties and fifties are marvelous and have evn been thinking about women in their sixties.

I'm not a fan of older females, just the ones who are like a few years younger and far as i go is same age as me or a year older.
I just have had too many bad experiences with females who are older then a year.
Some of my mates and other guys i have spoken to dont like the idea either

Younger men/older women

[QUOTE=CLVR-HNDS_GUY;259643]I'm not a fan of older females, just the ones who are like a few years younger and far as i go is same age as me or a year older.
I just have had too many bad experiences with females who are older then a year.
Some of my mates and other guys i have spoken to dont like the idea either[/QUOTE]:confused:just wondering what bad experiences have you had with older women.I have had a few bad experiences with younger guys and older guys too.My husband who i've been separated from for 9yrs is same age as me and we are definitely not compatible(total opposites)A few bad eggs don't ruin the dozen as far as i'm concerned anyway.I'm not judging you though i asked for all opinions good or bad and you are quite entitled to yours.

;):p

I don't think age matters. It's all about being compatible. People have personal characteristics, go through experiences, may be mature on one side and remain childlike on the other, gain and lose things, have expectations, wishes and dreams; that's what makes us what we are. People simply do not develop the same. They do not reach the same stations in life at the same pace. This is the reason why there are "old souls" and "young spirits". We continue to develop through our relationships and at times this may result in drifting apart or becoming even more close.

You may have certain expectations about your relationship. That could be sexual, like your thread states. A friend of mine told me when he was young, he had a relationship with an older woman. But their reasons were purely sexual. He was young an eager to learn and discover, she was older and loved his young and fresh nature. A match in that arena, but that was all.

I myself am in a relationship with an older man. And that relationship has always been about having a special bond and deep connection, way more than simply physical. Even my mom wasn't surprised about his age at the time. Most my friends are older than me. And actually; that has always been that way... Which I do not say to be arrogant, cause really: it makes things rather complicated and isn't fun... When I was younger I hardly had any friends, cause I really didn't connect with people my age. And people older always seemed to be so "cautious" about having a simple friendship with me. Or they'd suddenly stay away as soon as they found out my age...

This all cleared up during university; in which agedifferences increases up to 10 years. And lightened up while having a job; in which everyone is considered equal and treats eachother as such. And as you're all living in the same "working class" of society; friends across all ages is considered normal. This really makes life so much easier! :)

So, boys and girls, men and women, don't simply judge a book by it's cover, or it's age for that matter! ;)

I couldn't agree with you more RedRoses,i was thinking more about the sexual aspect but as you say there really are other things to consider.My husband as mentioned above is same age as me(only 2 weeks younger)but is so much more immature,and due to circumstances in my life beyond my control(sexual abuse as a child)i matured at an earlier age.We are still married but unable to live in the same house together, although we do still have a sexual relationship.You are right about old souls,i know some young people who have definitely been on earth before,and as i was recently told by someone younger than me age is just numbers anyway

Bad experiences like being bossed around or just forcing themselves onto you and getting annoyed since you don't feel the same way about them.
I had one older female who was invited for a bbq and end telling some of my aunties and older cousins " hope he kisses me later today". It was a family bbq for a cousins child birthday i think it was for.
The other thing i have found is older females don't always want kids with already having one or some. Which is one thing i would like to do sometime in the future soon.
Personality and how you do get along is a key factor in with any friendship / relationship with anyone.

[QUOTE=CLVR-HNDS_GUY;259659]Bad experiences like being bossed around or just forcing themselves onto you and getting annoyed since you don't feel the same way about them.
I had one older female who was invited for a bbq and end telling some of my aunties and older cousins " hope he kisses me later today". It was a family bbq for a cousins child birthday i think it was for.
The other thing i have found is older females don't always want kids with already having one or some. Which is one thing i would like to do sometime in the future soon.
Personality and how you do get along is a key factor in with any friendship / relationship with anyone.[/QUOTE]Oh i agree with you on all of these issues.I would not want to force anyone into having a relationship with me,and i find what that lady at bbq said to be very crass (i would probably hope you would kiss me too-but would not broadcast it to your whole family)Also i would feel bad if guy wanted children and i could not conceive(i would not want to deny him this)Like you i think two people should be compatible if they are to enter into a relationship and age differences should be considered amongst other things

[QUOTE=CLVR-HNDS_GUY;259659]Bad experiences like being bossed around or just forcing themselves onto you and getting annoyed since you don't feel the same way about them.
I had one older female who was invited for a bbq and end telling some of my aunties and older cousins " hope he kisses me later today". It was a family bbq for a cousins child birthday i think it was for.
The other thing i have found is older females don't always want kids with already having one or some. Which is one thing i would like to do sometime in the future soon.
Personality and how you do get along is a key factor in with any friendship / relationship with anyone.[/QUOTE]Oh i agree with you on all of these issues.I would not want to force anyone into having a relationship with me,and i find what that lady at bbq said to be very crass (i would probably hope you would kiss me too-but would not broadcast it to your whole family)Also i would feel bad if guy wanted children and i could not conceive(i would not want to deny him this)Like you i think two people should be compatible if they are to enter into a relationship and age differences should be considered amongst other things

to tell the truth I would but depends on the woman. I think it always depends!

Oh you flatter me.I just seem to attract a lot more younger men than those of my own age or older.Even in my late teens early 20's this was the case.I guess now i would be called a "cougar"

so it seems! lol but yeah i would love to write you but ur msn its acting right lol sorry and yes some people just pay attention to having good sex

Yeah it is fantasized about by many young men including myself. I have never tried it and probably won't but it's appealing because older women looking for younger men have confidence, know what they want, are likely on average to be better at sex than girls my age. Obviously the ones young boys fantasize about are attractive and don't look too old.

I'm currently in a relationship/engaged to an "older" (52) woman and I couldn't be happier (I'm 34)!!! We're scheduled to be married on May 21, 2011!!

:D:D

when I started here, I posted about my freind and the relationship that was growing...she's older than I, a leading edge boomer, while me, a trailing edger.

our relationship is...interesting...intellectual discussions solving all the worlds problems...using complete sentances (something I see lacking in kids today)...and when needed, her experience has helped me through some serious stesses while enlighten her to my scifi geekyness...and the sex part...patient and undemanding...something that I have a difficult time with because I'm not used to anyone being concerned about my needs and feelings..my needs?feeling?WTF?! hard to wrap my mind aroung that.

dont know how long this can last, since I'll be moving out of town soon because of work, (she knows it) and the intellectually trained part agrees it's necessary, but the girly part...tha'ts another story.

Congratulations to you and your fiancee Tony.I posed question because i have recently begun chatting online to a man 14 years younger than me(29)again i am 43.He is Australian too and wishes to meet me,we exchanged phone numbers and have been regularly been txting each other everyday.We have spoken on telephone and find we get along ok and have similar interests.We have even masturbated over the phone for each other and we both look forward to doing it again.I'm certainly am not expecting engagement ring,we have agreed to meet,talk and perhaps other things may happen too.If anything was to develop after this meeting between us well that would be most pleasant,if not i hope that we can still be friends.We have both been hurt before in relationships,and i just want him to know if he is reading this that i don't want to push the boundaries as far as his comfort zone goes.If he wants to take it slow and not rush things then i am perfectly fine with that.I am happy to be just getting to know each other for the time being.Only concern is that he is 8 years younger than my youngest brother.I may be a "cougar" but "cradle snatcher?"COINCIDENCE:He shares same name as my son and my daughters boyfriend,and his birthday ir exactly a week,before my youngest sons birthday.What the??!!......,..spooky isn't it.LOL

I like older woman, there is just something about a mature body and mind.

hi

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;259611]Has anyone seen "The Graduate"?If not it's a film about a middle aged woman "Mrs Robinson(Anne Bancroft)who seduces a much younger man(Dustin Hoffman)I am in my 40's and wondering how many younger men out there want to get it on with an older more experienced woman,for real or in fantasies:p[/QUOTE]

i like older woman cuz expert in sex and dont said plz no stop always want sex

Well guys i just received a lovely message from my 29yr old companion.It seems that he's not interested in begining a relationship with me after all and we haven't even met face to face yet.It seems that he just wants someone to chat to and be friends without the added extra benefits.I am a little confused in his change of attitude towards me but at least he was honest enough to tell me why he feels this way unlike most other men i've know who wouldn't even bother to tell me anything at all

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;259932]Well guys i just received a lovely message from my 29yr old companion.It seems that he's not interested in begining a relationship with me after all and we haven't even met face to face yet.It seems that he just wants someone to chat to and be friends without the added extra benefits.I am a little confused in his change of attitude towards me but at least he was honest enough to tell me why he feels this way unlike most other men i've know who wouldn't even bother to tell me anything at all[/QUOTE]

there's plenty if fish...(as the saying goes)
I'm sure you'll find someone...

too bad there's half a planet between us.. ;)
:D

There's plenty of fish!

Yes Greyshadow,there are plenty of fish in the sea,but always seem to catch the wrong ones.They're extremely undersized (below 28)because anything greater than a 15 yr age difference for me in a relationship would make me feel like i was taking the baby out of the cradle,unless of course we were extremely compatible and on the same emotional level.I have that now with a lovely 25 yr old man,who is also unfortunately on the wrong side of the planet.We are completely compatible in all things,and he is far more mature in many way than his age would imply.We feel that we have known and understood each other for our whole lives,even though we have only spoken via email for the past 2 months.I feel that he is my soulmate as i have never in my life felt so close to any man before,and i've only emailed him,and seen his photograph which he thinks i would not like as he considers himself to be not so handsome,but i practically swoon over.The rest of the catch are only fit to be thrown back only to be used as bait for the next cast.Oh Greyshadow where oh where is my perfect catch.Is he too slippery for me to hold when i reel him in.OR have i already caught him but fate and destiny dictate that we have an impossible hope of ever meeting and consolodating a union that to me would be the BIGGEST AND BEST CATCH OF MY LIFE!!

Raunchy, and don't forget you're quite a catch for some lucky man out there! Sometimes you just need to give yourself that pet on the shoulder, singing: "There are so many fish in the sea, but it feels so empty without me!" Heard this quote in a song once. Although rest of it was rather foul language, this quote may stick :)

Keep up the good work finding yourself a good man! It could be a guy you unexpectedly bump into at the supermarket. I wouldn't know if the internet is the place to find him, but who knows? I've seen both happy couples and unhappy not-couples coming from there... Best thing appears to be to meet someone under safe circumstances to see what they're really like. Whatever you do; I'd urge you to not go back to that awful ex-husband of yours! You really deserve better! Be it younger or not ;)

About robing the cradle; as long as we're talking adults here, which we are, there really is only a personal dilemma, sometimes with a society/family difficulty. My bf faced a personal dilemma too in the beginning of our relationship. He had cuddled me after dinner and told me how he was falling in love with me. This loving warmth totally took me by surprise! I considered him a friend with whom I shared special connection, not a potential relationship. I just needed a day or 2 to tell him that I'd be happy to give it a try! Took him about a week or 2 to really consider if he'd be doing something wrong. To me: him so thoroughly considering this all and clearly struggling with it, was proof that he is a good man with honorable intentions. It was only after I told him this that he finally allowed himself to put his guard down and sink into this relationship. His family liked me from the start and colleagues and friends have always been enthusiastic about us :)

RG, I'm just a bit older than you...have had that same feelings (but for a girl) in my past... and yes girls, guys do have the same feeling, I too ache for that missing peice in my life, that someone to give it all a reason to get out of bed inthe mornings for, that bolstering something with whom we can weather any storm...<oh, I wax-poetic..gasp!>

I can't give advice, I can relate to shared experiences and choices made in both cold reason and hot emotion and empathize, I've been the shoulder to cry on for freinds in need, a sounding board for thoughts, but in person I always had to pull myself up, forge ahead and soldier on through the ache, pain, longing and that ever present and permeating loneliness that seeps into the soul like a cold fog.

I'm afraid it's made me cynical and stoic.

yeah as long as she isn't granny looking. then heck yea

The old saying "age is only a number" comes to mind. I have gone out with girls 2 years older and 4 years younger (when they get to high school of course). So yeah I like older women. The Van Halen song "Hot for Teacher" comes to mind now.

Well since i posed this question i've had dozens (yes it's true)of younger men from their early teens(sorry boys)to 30 message me. I've made a few new friends and yes there is even a possible relationship on the horizon with a man 20yrs my junior.Mrs Robinson eat your heart out.I've never been this popular in all my dreams or fantasies,and this is for real.Not bad for an old (young at heart,romantic,passionate)43yr old:D:p;)

Older women have that vibe that seems to draw a lot of young men in. It could be from the look to the speech.

I love older women, they know what they want and when they want it!!

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;259611]Has anyone seen "The Graduate"?If not it's a film about a middle aged woman "Mrs Robinson(Anne Bancroft)who seduces a much younger man(Dustin Hoffman)I am in my 40's and wondering how many younger men out there want to get it on with an older more experienced woman,for real or in fantasies:p[/QUOTE]

I want them all; Big, small, young, tall, hot or not, smiles a lot, old and grey, I'll have my way, because I love'em all!

Are you single jjurgy?If not,do you know someone who would want to hook up with me for some internet/cyber sex

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260684]Are you single jjurgy?If not,do you know someone who would want to hook up with me for some internet/cyber sex[/QUOTE]

Yes I'm single...

Message me if you want to chat

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260703]Message me if you want to chat[/QUOTE]

threesome? :cool:

GRRRRRRR ;)

Yes you can message me too if you want Greyshadow

I actually love older women over young girls as I am of the opinion being experienced they know how to make a good session

I'm 35 and would love a 45 year old

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260684]Are you single jjurgy?If not,do you know someone who would want to hook up with me for some internet/cyber sex[/QUOTE]

I would love t get each other off with a littl cyber sex

oh well this is not a hook up site and my days with younger men are over for the time being.I may have found myself a slightly older man 4years who can take care of my every need and desire.So boys if it go's the way i am hoping i will not be messaging or receiving messages from any guy other than those who are my good platonic friends and of course my special man.And if that happens raunchy will be leaving the building ,but will be closer than you think

Hmmm

Gr8 hmmmm. I am pleased

40 year old guys

I am a 40 year old male. If I was a woman I would be considered a cougar. For us guys we have it difficult. A woman seems to be able to attract guys young and old regardless if she is younger or older. Guys that are young can try and pick up young or old but once they hit late 30's or 40's they become "old" or "creepy". Now the above is just my prejudged opinion but is it true? Are there just enough younger women that are into older men (not because they are wealthy)? Would a 40 year old woman find me attractive just as she would someone younger?

Does a 40 year old guy have any chance

Does a 40 year old guy have any chance of dating younger women not just for money or the "sugar daddy" thing?

[QUOTE=unx3;263073]I am a 40 year old male. If I was a woman I would be considered a cougar. For us guys we have it difficult. A woman seems to be able to attract guys young and old regardless if she is younger or older. Guys that are young can try and pick up young or old but once they hit late 30's or 40's they become "old" or "creepy". Now the above is just my prejudged opinion but is it true? Are there just enough younger women that are into older men (not because they are wealthy)? Would a 40 year old woman find me attractive just as she would someone younger?[/QUOTE]I'm 44 unx,so you are slightly younger than me,but yes i would date someone my age or older,if we were attracted to each other and shared similar interests.I have had some interest from much younger men 20-25 years younger than myself.They like the idea of being with a more experienced and knowlegable woman.I'm sure there are plenty of younger women out there who like to be with older men for similar reasons.I personally tend to be more attracted to older men,and it is more because i believe that they are alot more caring and considerate.I'm not saying younger men aren't and there are also many younger men who are very mature for their age,and do treat women with respect and care.

[QUOTE=unx3;263073]I am a 40 year old male. If I was a woman I would be considered a cougar. For us guys we have it difficult. A woman seems to be able to attract guys young and old regardless if she is younger or older. Guys that are young can try and pick up young or old but once they hit late 30's or 40's they become "old" or "creepy". Now the above is just my prejudged opinion but is it true? Are there just enough younger women that are into older men (not because they are wealthy)? Would a 40 year old woman find me attractive just as she would someone younger?

Does a 40 year old guy have any chance of dating younger women not just for money or the "sugar daddy" thing?[/QUOTE]
Why not?

Character could be compared to a good wine; improving with age. Not to mention some men age beautifully. Just think George Clooney or Sean Connery. You don't have to be a moviestar; just a regular man-next-door.

As for dating; the question would be what attracts you and what you want to get out of dating. And what she is attracted to and wants to get out of it. What is the purpose of dating: finding a relationship, fun-times, sex, boosting your ego, etc?

And I guess the less "serious" intentions, the more likely she wants you to pay up for all the goodies she wants and gives you her goodies in return. There's no getting around it; women have a lot of men to pick from and that makes it easier for her to make demands.

I myself am attracted to a beautiful personality. In this I believe that age is irrelevant; people go through different phases at different paces. Some go through more experience than others earlier in life. There are old souls and young spirits. And when there are two people that match eachother, that are on the same "page", than this could become an interesting friendship or even love.

most definatley its up there in my top 10 fantasy list, skill and experience bring it on, my wife is 28 and i am 33 but her sexual interest is nil, nothing, not interested and when we do have sex its a case of her on her back and thats as far as it goes, i definatley need some fun, skill and experience shown to me

case of her maybe

Many a good tune can be played on an old fiddle! lol.

I have always been attracted to older women. It is a fantasy of mine. The closest I ever got was cybering with a friend of mine. (I was 19 she was 40ish) quite amazing. Idk if it was her experience or just that it was her "knack" but she definitely had a way with words and opened me up to dirty talk and expressing my fantasies. (lost my virginity to a very "old school" girl so I was chastised for many of my fantasies and after attempting to talk dirty was given the cold shoulder in bed for a while....left me very shy)

I would have to say that is probably what made me so outgoing in bed. And her advice has definitely help make sure all my partners were happy.

I would have no problem as long as I feel attracted to her.

I would

I love women of all ages. I especially love cougars and milfs. Women over 30 are very pleasant, they know what they want and how to get it. I am interested in older women than myself. Email me, lol :D There is one thing all women must have though, Values and morals.

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