i had sex twice...and both times it hurt like hell...the first time i bled the second time i didnt...
oh and the first time i heard and felt a pop when he went inside me...was that my hymen?
also ..when i have sex...i do something thats almost a reflex...when it hurts i kinda clinch myself and he says it hurts him cuz it pinches his penis....how can i stop that?
Wed, 11/22/2006 - 18:43
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how many times till it wont hurt n e more?!?!
That pop probably was your hymen.
It may be several more times before you can have sex without any pain at all. That's just the way the female parts work - they're not used to being penetrated like that (and perhaps some remnants of your hymen are still being torn/messed with, etc.).
You can help out by making sure you have enough foreplay and arousal before you attempt penetration, and/or sufficient amounts of lube (AstroGlide, KY, etc.) to use as well.
As for the reflex, there's not really much you can do there except try to train yourself not to clinch. That will go away of course once you can have sex without the painful part of it.
well i haven't sex yet but that do scare me a little i have to say