A well running marriage is a partnership. It takes two "yeses" for something to transpire and one "no" not to have something happen. There will often be differences of opinion or differences in degree; therefore, what you must learn is that negotiation is the best way to solve disagreements or differences of opinion in order to find a compromise that both of you can become excited about.
Very often one partner will have a different degree of drive than the other, so compromise is found through the art of negotiation. One definition of the word "negotiation" is that is a way for each person to get as much of what they want without giving up things that are important to them. I recommend you negotiate and compromise when necessary with all aspects of your relationship.
There is no quantifiable answer. It truly does depend upon the needs of each, daily schedules, and, what the two of you work out and agree upon. Your lovemaking schedule should also leave room for flexibility so you can meet special needsl.
There is an old proverb that, "You can put a penny in a jar everytime during the first year and take a shilling out each time for the rest of your life and you will never empty the jar."
I am a newly wed and have been with my husband now for 7 years and we have sex 3 to 4 times a week. not for making babies either cuz I am fixed have 2 already. I enjoy having sex that many times a week and need to like it for the sex drive he has lol. Love it personally.
As far as marriage is concerned , Sex is not the only thing. But it is also a long awaited activity. In first week, definetly, people have more sex but for healthy married life later, go to your natural rythem. Talk about her, her preferences, regarding sex and regarding living together. For married life, it is important to know each other. [SIZE="4">So along with exploring others body, also explore his/her mind/ heart.[/SIZE]
Normally on first night, sex is just one or two, but after a day or two , it can go to 5-6 times a day or more. But after a week , you are back to normal and perhaps till rest of your life. Thats why sex is not the only thing as far as marriage is concerned.
how ever many times a week that they would like to, sometimes you may have give it up when they dont feel like it, but each one should try to make an effort to satisfy the their partner
During the first 3 years...at least 3-4 times/week. By the fourth year usually once. Year five we were down to once or twice/month; despite my wanting/offering/begging for more. The fifth year we had sex maybe six or seven times all year and were divorced yearly in the 6th year.
He was more interested in being in the garage working on hot rods with buddies. To many nights of going to bed by myself.
the other aspect here is how old are the newlyweds
I would imagine a couple in their young 20s may have sex as many as 5-7 times a week in the honeymoon phase of the relationship, where as a couple in thier 50s or 60s who are in a second or third marriage may only have sex a couple of times a week
well will some one expert answer me
There is no single correct answer for this one. It depends on the people.
A well running marriage is a partnership. It takes two "yeses" for something to transpire and one "no" not to have something happen. There will often be differences of opinion or differences in degree; therefore, what you must learn is that negotiation is the best way to solve disagreements or differences of opinion in order to find a compromise that both of you can become excited about.
Very often one partner will have a different degree of drive than the other, so compromise is found through the art of negotiation. One definition of the word "negotiation" is that is a way for each person to get as much of what they want without giving up things that are important to them. I recommend you negotiate and compromise when necessary with all aspects of your relationship.
There is no quantifiable answer. It truly does depend upon the needs of each, daily schedules, and, what the two of you work out and agree upon. Your lovemaking schedule should also leave room for flexibility so you can meet special needsl.
There is an old proverb that, "You can put a penny in a jar everytime during the first year and take a shilling out each time for the rest of your life and you will never empty the jar."
Depends If You Want To Have Sex Just For Sex Or ...sex For Making A Baby.
I am a newly wed and have been with my husband now for 7 years and we have sex 3 to 4 times a week. not for making babies either cuz I am fixed have 2 already. I enjoy having sex that many times a week and need to like it for the sex drive he has lol. Love it personally.
As much that you what to do
As far as marriage is concerned , Sex is not the only thing. But it is also a long awaited activity. In first week, definetly, people have more sex but for healthy married life later, go to your natural rythem. Talk about her, her preferences, regarding sex and regarding living together. For married life, it is important to know each other. [SIZE="4">So along with exploring others body, also explore his/her mind/ heart.[/SIZE]
Normally on first night, sex is just one or two, but after a day or two , it can go to 5-6 times a day or more. But after a week , you are back to normal and perhaps till rest of your life. Thats why sex is not the only thing as far as marriage is concerned.
3 to 4, sometime more sometimes less
how ever many times a week that they would like to, sometimes you may have give it up when they dont feel like it, but each one should try to make an effort to satisfy the their partner
During the first 3 years...at least 3-4 times/week. By the fourth year usually once. Year five we were down to once or twice/month; despite my wanting/offering/begging for more. The fifth year we had sex maybe six or seven times all year and were divorced yearly in the 6th year.
He was more interested in being in the garage working on hot rods with buddies. To many nights of going to bed by myself.
How about first month of the marriage ?? Comments (might recall your past / first experiences :) )
the other aspect here is how old are the newlyweds
I would imagine a couple in their young 20s may have sex as many as 5-7 times a week in the honeymoon phase of the relationship, where as a couple in thier 50s or 60s who are in a second or third marriage may only have sex a couple of times a week