Hi, I've been thinking about seeing an escort/sexworker for many years now, I have 3rd degree burns down my right side, I'm 26 and got the burns at 17 when training to be a mechanic. Now I never had sex before the accident but was intimate once with a girl friend, but no sex:( . Because of the burns now I feel like my only chance of having sex for the first time is to see a sexworker before I'm 30. I was 21 when I thought about a sexworker so it's been like 5 years just thinking about it and no action, I'm really eating myself up because I can't get any action lol I can't switch off my sexual desires as some think you can. There are many sexworkers but only a handfull specialize in people with specialneeds so my choise is very limited. We would meet at a hotel close to me, but this is what I can't decide: How long do I pay for 30min or 1hour+ ? I would like time to feel comfortable with her first but don't want to feel awkward if it's too long, also extra time is expensive. I was thinking that she could dress as a nurse and me been her patient sort of thing. Once it's over and done with I will feel relieved in more ways than one.
Thu, 11/13/2008 - 14:40
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How long is too long (time wise)
The key is in your last sentence. You want "to get it over with." So, you pay thirty nminyes or an hour or whatever. The goal is not the time but the event.
This is not to condone using professional women but I have referred situations not dissimilar from yours.
You need to only balance the cost against the relief. Forget the time. And those women who do "specialize" are usually quite considerate and understanding.
[QUOTE=Brandye;228739]The key is in your last sentence. You want "to get it over with." So, you pay thirty nminyes or an hour or whatever. The goal is not the time but the event.
This is not to condone using professional women but I have referred situations not dissimilar from yours.
You need to only balance the cost against the relief. Forget the time. And those women who do "specialize" are usually quite considerate and understanding.[/QUOTE]
Yes What you say is true, but those wonderful women tend to be older than my mother, but I'm not really complaining as I just want to experience the opposite sex as i've become alianated from them. I do have anxietys and what not because of the burns, so it's all a bit daunting. In the UK I can only find two of these professional women, and I will make my requests to them and see what they think. Thanks
[quote=tommytucker2008;228746]Yes What you say is true, but those wonderful women tend to be older than my mother, but I'm not really complaining as I just want to experience the opposite sex as i've become alianated from them. I do have anxietys and what not because of the burns, so it's all a bit daunting. In the UK I can only find two of these professional women, and I will make my requests to them and see what they think. Thanks[/quote]
I found this site from one of our posters, "London Escorts"...this is used as her signature so here is a link:
http://www.escortemporium.co.uk/
[QUOTE=sera300;228748]I found this site from one of our posters, "London Escorts"...this is used as her signature so here is a link:
http://www.escortemporium.co.uk/[/QUOTE]
I did contact a escort service in leeds, this I didnt mention before, and I gave her my card details (stupid) and she took the payment we arranged but then she started to threaten me if I contacted her again, and I lost a lot of money, but I was easy led at the time. I think I may save up for one of these realdolls
http://www.realdoll.com/ and forget about the real thing as they only cause me torment. Anyone know what a realdoll is like and are they any good for sex? It must be for the price.
[quote=tommytucker2008;228753]I did contact a escort service in leeds, this I didnt mention before, and I gave her my card details (stupid) and she took the payment we arranged but then she started to threaten me if I contacted her again, and I lost a lot of money, but I was easy led at the time. I think I may save up for one of these realdolls
http://www.realdoll.com/ and forget about the real thing as they only cause me torment. Anyone know what a realdoll is like and are they any good for sex? It must be for the price.[/quote] I would doubt a doll would do anything which is similar to real life & human interaction. Contact "Wet Suit One"...he knows the ropes of the business & it's his preferred choice; to pay for sex.
I would think a mannequin would not seem real; why not just go on a site and buy a flesh light or an imitation of Jenna's genitalia? There is no real way a mannequin can be as life like as a whole person...so why not stick to the parts you want???
Dude,
Don't and do mean DO NOT wait until you're in your 30's. Find a woman you're attracted to, call her up, advise her of your circumstances and condition (trust me, as long as you're clean and considerate, they won't care too much about your physical condition), set up a meeting (a hotel or your home or her incall location). Put the cash in an envelope (and don't be c**t and short her, if anything pay her more). Sit back, relax and get laid.
Heck, do it three times in one night so you get used to it. It's good business and money well spent (especially if you've never been laid before. It's remarkable how warm a woman is on the inside. Very nice! :D)
Be sure to check out the laws in your area. I suggest a half hour chat with a criminal lawyer. In most countries that I have heard of, and especially on the continent, prostitution in some way shape or form is legal. In my neck of the woods, there's a few hoops and loops you gotta jump through, but it's wholly doable and not illegal (as long as you set up the transaction correctly).
And for God's sake, pay for an hour. Only a wham bam thank you ma'am type pays for half an hour. She's a woman for our saviour lord Jesus Chirst's sake! You do like women don't you? That means you want to hold her and kiss her and hug her and feel her and be comfortable around her right? Dang it man, take 2 hours and do it right. Chat about the weather, bring a bottle of wine and screw the livin' bejeezus out of her. Let her screw the livin' bejeezus out of you. TWICE!!!
Not that's worth spending money on! Half an hour. Cripes! Save up some dough and do it right!
When you go to the opera do you plan to go to the worst seats in the house? Jeez man, you're going to get to do it right the first time once. GO for two hours, be really really really clean (i.e. clean your a$$ at least five times), have a decent bottle of plonk (no more than $20.00 or 10 pounds she's not a houseguest after all), talk to her about your favourite movie, your favourite lingerie and your favourite book and f**K like you'll only get to do it once. I don't care what disabilities you have or how you look, she'll take care of you.
Got that? Good!
:D
wet_suit out!
Also Dude, got to a punter's board and find out who's a reputable service provider!
Good lord man! Did you just fall out of the tree yesterday? DO you go to a mechanic without a reference? Would you just hire any doctor to fondle your short and curlies and take care of your twig and berries! NO!
If some woman is going to swallow your gonads, lick your stick and luv u long time, get one that comes highly recommended!!! Not just any girlie girl from the phone book will do! You need a pro, so find a pro. I know there are punter review sites on the web for you limeys, so find the info, get the recommendations and carry on with your sexual adventure.
Geez, it this really that hard?
I guess it was as it took me more than 30 years to do it. Stupid stupid stupid me.... SIgh.... My wasted youth... Sigh...
I think I'll go and be depressed now...
Then I'll call one of my favourite ladies... and I'll scream with delight while she tickles my dingleberry, cleans my pipes and wets my whistle!!!
WOO HAAA!!!
:D
You know, I'm happy to see that you fine ladies of this upstanding message board are willing to grant this poor bloke the moral right to getting his rocks off with a real live woman in a manner that he is able to achieve on his own.
Do you know how much society is simply against a man enjoying some sexual pleasure? It is truly unreal. There nothing and I mean nothing, more despised than male sexual desire. It ails me to hear it drone on day after day after day after day. Thanks for being considerate to his man's needs and desires.