depends.. avg sex time for both partners sits around 10 mins.
girls may or may not get bored after this time... me n my gf think the longer the better and can last up to 45 minutes with her orgasming at least once..
but then again thats us.. some people like it short and sweet... really depends on the couple..
i would say your time is fine mate. dont really have much to worry about.
More you relax generally longer u will last but this is not 100% effective.
Cosmopolitan magazine either this month or last said the average foreplay lasts between 7 - 12 minutes and the average intercourse session lasts between 5 and 10 minutes.
In my opinion, foreplay should take a good half hour at the very least. My girlfriend and I stay in bed for as long as we can (2 hours most times) just making out, playing with each other, and getting REALLY warmed up so that we are ready for intercourse when it comes later on.
vper is just showing off :P
yes we go for ages and we love it long......it really depends on the person. me and vper have sex like once a day even when i have my period. we are real nympho's heh.
7-8 mins by yourself?! Damn once I'm hard it only takes me like under a minute (with porn anyways). I don't know if this is a result of whacking it too much and knowing how to get the job done quick, or if it's just me lol. As for a girl doing the work, it takes longer usually since they're slower (no offense lol). And sex wise for first times I've heard it's good to pull out, finger some, and go back in. I would also like to know if that's true, I'm a virgin heh.
> These men you here about lasting 30 minutes, are probably trying to make it last longer by going slower, taking breaks
If you want the journey to last longer, either travel slower and/or pause along the route.
> Damn once I'm hard it only takes me like under a minute (with porn anyways). I don't know if this is a result of whacking it too much and knowing how to get the job done quick, or if it's just me
It's all in knowing how--and, not doing it too frequently. Of course knowing you is part of the equation, also, and when a woman learns how you do it and can mimic your movements she too can speed the process up if desired.
I've heard that if you always masturbate fast, then you will get used to coming quickly, and when you actually have sex you won't last as long. Try going slower occasionally, drag it out to 15 minutes or so. And don't put as much pressure on, your hands can put heaps more than a woman's vagina can.
Less than 10 minutes for intercourse is fairly average though.
Well - I could make myself cum when masturbating in 1-3 minutes if I wanted to. However, when I do I usually take about half an hour and try to enjoy the experience. I find that taking it slow is more gratifying.
Also, I've learned to be vocal when masturbating (not yelling, mind you). It'll make it easier to be open when you actually have a partner - I love it when my partner responds to my movements with sound, and I'm sure she appreciates it from me.
hm 7-12 mins foreplay ? whats the fun of that ? that should be at least a relaxing halh hour if not longer I could spend hours in bed with the girl cuddling and pleasuring her in various ways, as for intercourse well gotta get there yet but masturbating I last some time
It really depends on so many things that normal, as in so many things in sex, is an irrelevant term.
Stress, heat or cold, age, time of the day, visual and audio stimulations, so many things can alter the scenario as to be impossible to determine a time-frame where masturbation to orgasm duration is calculated. In average, it is assumed between 5-10 minutes, but again, mind the assumed. A teenage will be less, thrid age, a lot more; relaxed less, stressed might even not reach it.
So... who cares? Don't worry about that mate! :D :D :D
Just Remember. Unload The Weapon Before You Go To Work. Should Buy You A Few Extra Minutes. If You're A Virgin Then Just Have Fun And Dont Worry About How You Do. You'll Enjoy It A Lot Better
how long you last depends on MANY variables...
Most people last around 5-10 minutes... so in my opinion youre alright
These men you here about lasting 30 minutes, are probably trying to make it last longer by going slower, taking breaks, etc.
So i repeat myself... Youre just fine in my opinion... Im no expert, but Ive a feeling that they will agree with me
depends.. avg sex time for both partners sits around 10 mins.
girls may or may not get bored after this time... me n my gf think the longer the better and can last up to 45 minutes with her orgasming at least once..
but then again thats us.. some people like it short and sweet... really depends on the couple..
i would say your time is fine mate. dont really have much to worry about.
More you relax generally longer u will last but this is not 100% effective.
Cosmopolitan magazine either this month or last said the average foreplay lasts between 7 - 12 minutes and the average intercourse session lasts between 5 and 10 minutes.
In my opinion, foreplay should take a good half hour at the very least. My girlfriend and I stay in bed for as long as we can (2 hours most times) just making out, playing with each other, and getting REALLY warmed up so that we are ready for intercourse when it comes later on.
Those stats from Cosmo are disappointing!
[QUOTE=sera300;173487]Those stats from Cosmo are disappointing![/QUOTE]
Haha, no kidding. Actually, they make me feel like a machine.:cool:
[quote=wetwilly;173819]Haha, no kidding. Actually, they make me feel like a machine.:cool:[/quote]
Yeap, but it does not look too promising for me from a woman's point of view :)
[QUOTE=wetwilly;173819]Haha, no kidding. Actually, they make me feel like a machine.:cool:[/QUOTE]
lol. yep... i tell u what... if they knew my stats or most other people stats they would have girls hanging off them.. lol
vper is just showing off :P
yes we go for ages and we love it long......it really depends on the person. me and vper have sex like once a day even when i have my period. we are real nympho's heh.
7-8 mins by yourself?! Damn once I'm hard it only takes me like under a minute (with porn anyways). I don't know if this is a result of whacking it too much and knowing how to get the job done quick, or if it's just me lol. As for a girl doing the work, it takes longer usually since they're slower (no offense lol). And sex wise for first times I've heard it's good to pull out, finger some, and go back in. I would also like to know if that's true, I'm a virgin heh.
> These men you here about lasting 30 minutes, are probably trying to make it last longer by going slower, taking breaks
If you want the journey to last longer, either travel slower and/or pause along the route.
> Damn once I'm hard it only takes me like under a minute (with porn anyways). I don't know if this is a result of whacking it too much and knowing how to get the job done quick, or if it's just me
It's all in knowing how--and, not doing it too frequently. Of course knowing you is part of the equation, also, and when a woman learns how you do it and can mimic your movements she too can speed the process up if desired.
I've heard that if you always masturbate fast, then you will get used to coming quickly, and when you actually have sex you won't last as long. Try going slower occasionally, drag it out to 15 minutes or so. And don't put as much pressure on, your hands can put heaps more than a woman's vagina can.
Less than 10 minutes for intercourse is fairly average though.
Well - I could make myself cum when masturbating in 1-3 minutes if I wanted to. However, when I do I usually take about half an hour and try to enjoy the experience. I find that taking it slow is more gratifying.
Also, I've learned to be vocal when masturbating (not yelling, mind you). It'll make it easier to be open when you actually have a partner - I love it when my partner responds to my movements with sound, and I'm sure she appreciates it from me.
hm 7-12 mins foreplay ? whats the fun of that ? that should be at least a relaxing halh hour if not longer I could spend hours in bed with the girl cuddling and pleasuring her in various ways, as for intercourse well gotta get there yet but masturbating I last some time
It really depends on so many things that normal, as in so many things in sex, is an irrelevant term.
Stress, heat or cold, age, time of the day, visual and audio stimulations, so many things can alter the scenario as to be impossible to determine a time-frame where masturbation to orgasm duration is calculated. In average, it is assumed between 5-10 minutes, but again, mind the assumed. A teenage will be less, thrid age, a lot more; relaxed less, stressed might even not reach it.
So... who cares? Don't worry about that mate! :D :D :D
Just Remember. Unload The Weapon Before You Go To Work. Should Buy You A Few Extra Minutes. If You're A Virgin Then Just Have Fun And Dont Worry About How You Do. You'll Enjoy It A Lot Better
[QUOTE=kpodo;178224] If You're A Virgin Then Just Have Fun And Dont Worry About How You Do. You'll Enjoy It A Lot Better[/QUOTE]
The best bit of advice I've heard on first times up till now