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how long does it take you to masturbate?

I was just wondering how long it takes everyone that masturbates to make themself come.

I usually try to take at least 5 minutes, but i get overwhelmed sometimes. it is sooner with a vibrator.

I would like guys and girls to answer, im very curious...;)

hmm it can vary depending on my mood and if im tired and what not... as little as 3-4 minutes (not very often though) to as long as 20-30 mins, but an average of 10-12 maybe?

i dont have the greatest control in that sense.. its actually that i have a more difficult time to orgasm, so sometimes id like to go faster for some reasons and i cant lol..

I'm a guy, and normally it's not long. Maybe 5 minutes. If I have plenty of time and privacy and I'm feeling relaxed, I can stretch it out to 20-30 minutes.

It's so great when you're partner's handling you because they *don't* know how to push all the right buttons as well as you, so it takes you a lot longer to reach orgasm, and it feels much better when you do.

[QUOTE=lakimada]as long as i want to it all depends on my mood sometimes i take 5 minutes other times i take a few hours or maybe even longer.[/QUOTE]

Exactly. This w

[QUOTE=lakimada]as long as i want to it all depends on my mood sometimes i take 5 minutes other times i take a few hours or maybe even longer.[/QUOTE]

Exactly. This would be my answer as well.

Sorry for the double post.

*wanders off growling about this wonderful new forum*

as long as i want to it all depends on my mood sometimes i take 5 minutes other times i take a few hours or maybe even longer.

awww dont be so grouchy obey...:)

I just timed a Quickie and using lube it took just seconds over two minutes. It takes longer without benefit of the slipperiness. That said, I also agree with lakimada and oberon.

It takes as long as it takes depending upon the mood and distractions. Quickies are fine but drawing things out can be more rewarding. How 'bout 15-20 minutes a few times throughout the day, longer when nothing else is scheduled?

I can orgasm in less than 5 minutes and shoot a huge load...............it's nice to prolong it though and relish the feeling!

:D LOL, Jm... I was only going to post "Exactly" and the board told me I had to post at least ten characters. So, I changed it to the reply I finally posted but it told me I had to wait at least 30 seconds between posts. THEN, you can see that it cut my reply before the end... GRRRRR... I hope I get used to this new board WITHOUT throwing my computer out the window.

Hey Oberon........I couldn't think of the word......thanks. "Edging"......... very hot and sexy thing........especially standing in front of the bathroom mirror! lol

[QUOTE=fenceguy]...it's nice to prolong it though and relish the feeling![/QUOTE]

Excellent. I think I've heard this referred to as "edging" and that's a pretty good description. It IS very nice to get to the "almost there" point and maintain that for a while. :)

It depends really, sometimes I can't come at all if there's just too much overstimulation or it's straight up penetrative sex. I can come in as little as 30seconds if I'm really turned on but that's so rare. Usually between about 4 minutes and an hour. The longer drawn out ones are best because I find I reach a plataeu and that lasts for ages when I'm on the very edge and it feels great but it then takes a big longer to finally come. Depends what I'm doing as well to however many parts of me hehe.

STANDING?

Let's see, "Edging" is also where you are on the verge of having knees buckle and go crashing to the floor when trying to trigger an orgasm. I hope there is carpeting or a bathmat under you!

LOL this is totally off-topic but reading those last few messages reminded me of when i was a teenager living at home with my parents the only room with a lock on it was the bathroom so i would sometimes lie down on the bathroom mat and masturbate if i wanted to make absolute sure that i would have privacy cuz my mom was the type who would just walk in at any time no matter what lol.... like i said totally off topic but a weird childhood thing to remember... im sure im not the only one who had to do perculiar things as a kid... :)
also masturbated standing up in the bathroom... not so sure now id be able to come so easy standing up now as an adult ive gotten used to doing it in the comfort of a bed most of the time lol....

Ive taken over an hour (stopped for a few seconds a couple of times), but after a while it starts to feel sore.
It depends on when the last time I did it was and how bad my urges are...
I can do it in 2 minutes some times...others I can last for about 5-10.

[QUOTE=Friden]Ive taken over an hour [/QUOTE]

:eek: wow nice one. lol i think the longest amount of time for me is like 6 minutes but normally 2, depends on if i have help from other things.
also varies if my boyfriends there
i remmeber i tried one time to get almost to climax and then stop, and go slow to make it last longer but that didnt last.

depending on how well my imagination's working, i'd say 10-15 minutes. how do you other girls masturbate? i usually use a finger or vibrator on my clit, and if i need extra stimulation i use a dildo on my g-spot. and i always lie on my back, legs bent....

If my goal is to just cum, I can finish the job in 5 minutes. If I want to take my time and enjoy myself, I usually go for around 35-45 minutes.

heh, thats nothing...

if i want to come quick, about 3 minutes or less.

if i want to take my time, once (i was home alone ALL day) i masturbated for 2 hours and 35 minutes.

you can bet that felt AMAZING. like a lady having 3 g-spot orgasm's (or what ever they are called) AT ONCE.

then sometimes i can keep going after having an orgasm...and have another one on the same trip! (once i hit 3 in a row, non stop masturbating ;) :D)

This thread has 690 views and only 20 posts.

I find that amusing. :p

lol, maybe guests looking want to check and see if they are masturbating about the average 'quickie' time, or the average 'pleasure trip' time.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]I just timed a Quickie and using lube it took just seconds over two minutes. It takes longer without benefit of the slipperiness. That said, I also agree with lakimada and oberon.

It takes as long as it takes depending upon the mood and distractions. Quickies are fine but drawing things out can be more rewarding. How 'bout 15-20 minutes a few times throughout the day, longer when nothing else is scheduled?[/QUOTE]
I've never timed it, but I imagine I could get off pretty quick (a few minutes) given the right circumstances.

However, I've had sessions last over an hour. It takes a ****load of patience, but I guarantee you it's well worth the effort. It's almost kind of like tantric masturbation. You just do a tiny bit of stimulation (i.e. one finger rubbing the glans) and just keep doing that, and resist the temptation to finish up quickly.

i love doin that. sometimes i dont even pay attention to my penis (heh, funny, since thats where it all happens) but ill be doin something else, and have one or two (1, 2) fingers roaming around my shaft/head, all while staying perfectly hard.

then after about 30min, i start to notice results, and then i start pacing.....

dont you just hate temptation?

2 minute the shortest 1 hour the longest but it does not feel that good after an hour kindof painful

recovery time 2minute go at it again. but not as good as the first time...

lol, if you jack off (using the classic hand on shaft, up and down, you know what i mean) for an hour, id expect pain...

but if you rub your head a little, and mix rubbing your shaft around into the mix...you could get longer masturbation time.

[QUOTE=champloo]i love doin that. sometimes i dont even pay attention to my penis (heh, funny, since thats where it all happens) but ill be doin something else, and have one or two (1, 2) fingers roaming around my shaft/head, all while staying perfectly hard.

then after about 30min, i start to notice results, and then i start pacing.....

dont you just hate temptation?[/QUOTE]
Yes, I hate the temptation to hurry up. What you need is some sort of motivation to keep yourself quiet. For example, sharing a room wth someone who is <10 feet away from you and possibly awake, but wanting to get off before you go to sleep anyways. When I was a bit younger and didn't produce much ejaculate, masturbating in bed was way more fun. Now, it's wet, messy, and leaves stains. The problem is that when you do it once, you'll never be able to recreate it. Because you'll always be expecting this huge orgasm (read: orgasm so powerful you start moaning in Latin), and it never quite lives up to what you thought it would be because your brain becomes desensitized to dopamine and what have you. Such is what happened when I first started masturbating. That first time was absolutely incredible, especially since I had no clue what was about to happen, but was more than pleased with the results. Then, because I knew what was about to happen, it just plain didn't feel as good. Oh, to be young again.

yes, but providing new variations always keeps me guessing.

I can go both ways, if I'm really really in need of getting off, I can probably accomplish that in about two minutes. However, if I really want to build up, I can go for around thirty minutes before things start to get raw or the arm starts to cramp. I can only use the one arm too, because I am apparently worthless with my left arm.

lol, im left handed, so i masturbate with my left :p

[QUOTE=champloo]lol, im left handed, so i masturbate with my left :p[/QUOTE]

I've heard the arguments on both sides, and I've seen the evidence, and still I remain unconvinced that it's even physically possible to masturbate with the left arm.;)

lol, i dont how its possible with the right arm!

ive tried, but all i did was slap my right arm against my right thigh and my penis against my left.

not very pleasent.

from (rare) 2 minute sessions to half an hour (female). Can go to one or to hours though, easily.

[QUOTE=lakimada]as long as i want to it all depends on my mood sometimes i take 5 minutes other times i take a few hours or maybe even longer.[/QUOTE]

Same thing with me! most of the time like 10 mins

It can take me 5 minutes or 30 minutes. But I try to pace myself most of the time

with a vibrator i can cum within a few mins...

but i like to prolong the orgasm for like 20 - 30 mins

the longer i last the greater the orgasm.

man im usually screaming by the end of it

Sometimes I can come in a few minutes(guy), if I'm really having a good fantasy where I can't control myself, but I've literally spent hours enjoying it before I allow myself to finally come. After that much time, the orgasm is extremely strong.

(Guy), usually I take about 12mins or so. If I have time and noone is at home I can go for 30mins or more, being my max 1hour at it. If I really want it, I know how to come in almost a minute or less , really depends on the mood and what I want.

:D [color=green]MAY = Masturbation Month[/color] :D

http://www.masturbate-a-thon.com/

I'm catholic:D :D :D

i can take anything from 1 minute to 45 minutes, depends on my mood

If I really want to enjoy it, I may lay back and slowly rub my clit for hours. If I'm really into a fantasy about a guy f*cking me, I'll insert a couple of fingers and really give it to myself, and I can't help but orgasm in a couple of minutes. If I'm really in a hurry, I'll just unzip my blue jeans and pull them down a little while I'm still standing up, and rub my clit very fast until I orgasm-I can do that as quickly as 20 seconds.

GUY when i fisrt started I could get off in 10 seconds now a few minutes. 30 seconds if I'm in the mood and out of time.

GUY when i fisrt started I could get off in 10 seconds now a few minutes. 30 seconds if I'm in the mood and out of time.

GUY when i fisrt started I could get off in 10 seconds now a few minutes. 30 seconds if I'm in the mood and out of time.

Hmm,

I rarley masturbate..At most once every fortnight(2weeks) And it takes me a long time, Usually about a half hour to an hour..

hm yea me too more recently if I want to prolongdepend on how I stimulate (ha need to lay hand on some condoms)

It takes 30 to 60 min. for me depends on the porn i'm looking at . A few times it took me longer but i think it is my age .

im a guy 5 minutes is my shortest ever time it was when i was most "turned on" and my longest when i prolonged it was around an hour when i wanted to just enjoy it and make it last, average time is 20-30 mins but it all depends on the stimuli

As a guy it would appear that Newtolove is the only one telling a 100% truth . Really it depends on the situation and the relevant stimuli. As a guy, taking things into your own hands (so to say) you can pretty much "control" the climax, from less then a minute to hours, it really depends on what the intended outcome is. With the right mood and stimuli you could masturbate and cum multiple times whilst watching porn you enjoy.

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