How long does it take to climax when masturbating?
It takes that long or longer. The actual answer is: "It all depends". On what?
It depends primarily on how well your partner can mimic the stroking, rhythms, and pressures that you have developed and come to rely upon over time that are unique and specific to you. Say what???
From the first time we learn to take matters into our own hand as a post pubescent teen, we quickly develop a way of masturbating that is unique to each one of us. We all understand the basic mechanics of how to stroke a penis and finger a clitoris; however, each of us does have a variation to the theme and it is this "Fine Art" that must be learned by our partner. We do not give orgasms away. Each one of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can do is to help each other attain one. If we miss the mark, either the orgasm will not happen, or, it will be less than expected.
The other comments, above, are all valid, I'm just adding to what has already been said. So, when it comes to hand jobs, we must guide each others hand with our own several times until we learn to mimic our partner's technique. Now--oral. Oral stimulation can lead to an orgasm, although, as you have experienced, not always. Why, because as fantastic as the sensations are, they are not specifically what we need to reach the trigger point of an orgasm and coast beyond. The sensations from oral in all liklihood will be stronger than what we receive by hand but if the two of you are on a different "track", you will not reach the desired destination. So, what is the answer?
What I refer to as the "dynamic duo". Combine both oral and hand stimulations and have the best of both forms--plus, an orgasm!
Learn where each other's hotspots are located. The A#1 hotspot for guys is the Frenulum. There is one and perhaps more than one alternate distributed around the Corona Rim. How long does it take to climax? It takes as long as it takes.
How long does it take to climax when masturbating?
It takes that long or longer. The actual answer is: "It all depends". On what?
It depends primarily on how well your partner can mimic the stroking, rhythms, and pressures that you have developed and come to rely upon over time that are unique and specific to you. Say what???
From the first time we learn to take matters into our own hand as a post pubescent teen, we quickly develop a way of masturbating that is unique to each one of us. We all understand the basic mechanics of how to stroke a penis and finger a clitoris; however, each of us does have a variation to the theme and it is this "Fine Art" that must be learned by our partner. We do not give orgasms away. Each one of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can do is to help each other attain one. If we miss the mark, either the orgasm will not happen, or, it will be less than expected.
The other comments, above, are all valid, I'm just adding to what has already been said. So, when it comes to hand jobs, we must guide each others hand with our own several times until we learn to mimic our partner's technique. Now--oral. Oral stimulation can lead to an orgasm, although, as you have experienced, not always. Why, because as fantastic as the sensations are, they are not specifically what we need to reach the trigger point of an orgasm and coast beyond. The sensations from oral in all liklihood will be stronger than what we receive by hand but if the two of you are on a different "track", you will not reach the desired destination. So, what is the answer?
What I refer to as the "dynamic duo". Combine both oral and hand stimulations and have the best of both forms--plus, an orgasm!
Learn where each other's hotspots are located. The A#1 hotspot for guys is the Frenulum. There is one and perhaps more than one alternate distributed around the Corona Rim. How long does it take to climax? It takes as long as it takes.
what are they supposed to do when a guy goes up a girls shirt
I answered this for you by PM.