it takes my guy, with a handjob anything from 10-20 mins, depending how long it been and how much lube.
with blow job, if its the first contact he's had with me in about a day, its usually 10 mins. all guys are different.
Well me and my boyfriend arent ready for sex and we were just messing around and he got really hard and I started rubbing him with my hand through his jeans and that lasted like not even five minutes but then I felt bad for teasing hm so I gave him a handjob and he came in like two minutes and we didnt use any lube. Is that normal?
I agree that using a lube is an option or an alternative; however, key to either approach is for him to show her how he strokes his penis and then to guide her hand several times until she learns to mimic his technique.
The use of lubrication changes how he responds and how she can stroke. Use of a lube means she can squeeze harder without fear of chafing the skin. It also means she can use the lightest touch in order to impart a completely different set of feelings and responses.
Saliva works as a lubricant, although, it is not very long lasting and has to be refreshed rather frequently. In a pinch, it is fine. A real lube is slipperier.
I just find it heightens the experience psychologically if it's an oral/hand job combo. Regular lubes in my opinion are just too messy and shorten the experience.
Cumming that quick from a handjob can be normal, othertimes it take much more time. Some type of lube is usually good, but not necessary some of the time. Back when I was dating I had some good times having my gf rub me through my pants at first. I never did cum from that. When she started to slip her hand down my pants, I usually had enough natural lubricant for a hand job. I could usually only last 10 minutes before it would spurt. That was fun playing around back then.
Thresher is right. Now it is usually a combination of oral and hands. My wife likes it when I stroke myself while she has her mouth on my penis and we work together. I also like her stroking with her hand and doing oral. It takes much more time now than back in the dating age. But now we get to do it all so it is very good.
Then should of had sex afterwards,that's what my boyfriend and I do,after he comes the first time he can go all night
so there is an advantage of a quick cum especially if like to have sex
all the time, So don't be disappointed in yourself, you're lucky because your is
not conplaining, my bf is the same way
Well after giving my boyfriend a blowjob... I had a sore in my mouth and I know that is caused by herpes but he got tested for all of it... aids, herpes you name he got tested, and all of it came back negitive... what is my sore in my moth from then?
It's different. Even with me, for instance, I sometimes cum all at once or over three or four shots - it depends. Also, I can sometimes cum in like 2 minutes from a hand job or sometimes never - same with head. It's all in the lead up, how horny I am.
I think the largest load of cum I ever shot was after watching some porno and not having had sex for at least a week before - it was like a fire hose on my gal pal!
it takes my guy, with a handjob anything from 10-20 mins, depending how long it been and how much lube.
with blow job, if its the first contact he's had with me in about a day, its usually 10 mins. all guys are different.
Well me and my boyfriend arent ready for sex and we were just messing around and he got really hard and I started rubbing him with my hand through his jeans and that lasted like not even five minutes but then I felt bad for teasing hm so I gave him a handjob and he came in like two minutes and we didnt use any lube. Is that normal?
Yes PunkRebel it's normal.
yeah its normal.
just a warning though.. be sure to use lube, caus i didnt and my boyf skin got real irrated after a while and became sore.
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
You don't need a lube if you do it right....however if you/he insists, just take it in your mouth or spit on it first.
I agree that using a lube is an option or an alternative; however, key to either approach is for him to show her how he strokes his penis and then to guide her hand several times until she learns to mimic his technique.
The use of lubrication changes how he responds and how she can stroke. Use of a lube means she can squeeze harder without fear of chafing the skin. It also means she can use the lightest touch in order to impart a completely different set of feelings and responses.
Saliva works as a lubricant, although, it is not very long lasting and has to be refreshed rather frequently. In a pinch, it is fine. A real lube is slipperier.
I just find it heightens the experience psychologically if it's an oral/hand job combo. Regular lubes in my opinion are just too messy and shorten the experience.
Cumming that quick from a handjob can be normal, othertimes it take much more time. Some type of lube is usually good, but not necessary some of the time. Back when I was dating I had some good times having my gf rub me through my pants at first. I never did cum from that. When she started to slip her hand down my pants, I usually had enough natural lubricant for a hand job. I could usually only last 10 minutes before it would spurt. That was fun playing around back then.
Thresher is right. Now it is usually a combination of oral and hands. My wife likes it when I stroke myself while she has her mouth on my penis and we work together. I also like her stroking with her hand and doing oral. It takes much more time now than back in the dating age. But now we get to do it all so it is very good.
Well when a guy cums how does it come out?? Like all at once, or little by little??
In spurts over maybe 10-20 seconds....
Then should of had sex afterwards,that's what my boyfriend and I do,after he comes the first time he can go all night
so there is an advantage of a quick cum especially if like to have sex
all the time, So don't be disappointed in yourself, you're lucky because your is
not conplaining, my bf is the same way
Well after giving my boyfriend a blowjob... I had a sore in my mouth and I know that is caused by herpes but he got tested for all of it... aids, herpes you name he got tested, and all of it came back negitive... what is my sore in my moth from then?
Probably a canker sore...
It's different. Even with me, for instance, I sometimes cum all at once or over three or four shots - it depends. Also, I can sometimes cum in like 2 minutes from a hand job or sometimes never - same with head. It's all in the lead up, how horny I am.
I think the largest load of cum I ever shot was after watching some porno and not having had sex for at least a week before - it was like a fire hose on my gal pal!