Can anyone provide me with any tips or information on how to last longer (ejaculation wise). Is there anything you can take to make it last longer?
Thanks everyone for any input
Tue, 03/30/2004 - 23:44
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how to last longer?
thanks for the suggestions and comment
wear tight condoms....
Demonbuttercup hit on exactly what I meant. Try different things to get her close before the actual orgasm. Oral sex, a toy, fingering. Mix any and all of those with intercourse. You go for a few minutes, then switch to oral sex- or any one of a number of things. Then when you are BOTH ready, finish with intercourse.
well my b/f does on occasion is usually he has no trouble lasting long enough to get me off.
there are those occasions where no matter what i do i just can't seem to get off. or it takes me FOREVER! more frustrating for me i think. lol
so we have a dildo and if he's getting close or just tired he'll use it on me for several minutes so he can rest and at the same time keep me going. then when i feel im starting to get close he'll jump back in and finish me off. the dildo in no way feels as good as he does but it does the job.
also, it might help if she rubbed her clit or got a vibrator. for me, if it was just penetration it would take me forever but after awhile i grab my vibe and im over the top in like 2 minutes. plus an orgasm w/ a vibrator on the clit and him penetrating is out of this world!
Thanks everyone for the links and replies. I've read those links and found some nice info.
Basically, I don't believe 10-15 minutes is enough. The reason being is b/c when im having sex you can tell on her expressions that she's enjoying it and all but when I cum she says no, I want more or don't stop but I have to. So I don't want this happening anymore, I don't think she's enjoying sex in such a short duration and want to please her.
BTW my g/f has also never cumed before, and I don't know why. So I was thinking that it's probably me doing a bad job and probably b/c the 10-15 minutes isn't enough for her...so this is the main reason why I worry so much b/c im a failure
and who knows if she goes elsewhere...but I highly doubt it.
Okay, I think I see the problem now. It's mis-information. As long as you take the time to satisfy your partner- in other words, make sure she's reaches orgasm too- then ten or fifteen is perfectly acceptable. The time span usually increases with age, but as thetease13 pointed out, youth has the advantage of being able to go again much more quickly. As long as everyone is being satisfied, quit worrying about a time frame, and just have fun.
here's one
lasting longer
another one
hey, as long as you can last more than once, i don't think too many people are going to complain.
don't you usually last longer the second time anyways?
yea, girls complain their guy comes too quickly, but most of them only do it once and never go for a second round. they complain he came too quickly and then rolled over and went to sleep.
so in short, if you can last more than once and you don't roll over and go to sleep afterwards, i'm not seeing much of a problem.
I'd like to know why this is so important and why it's such a problem.
Sex is supposed to be fun. Putting all your energy into holding back doesn't sound like much fun.
Lasting 10-15 minutes "on top" sounds reasonable. If we were talking about a few strokes or seconds, that would be different.
thanks, i'll check out some more articles but it looks like none says anything about lasting longer.
When im on top, I don't last very long, like 10-15 minutes, that's all. I tried using those extended pleasure condoms ones and they don't help at all, they make my dick a bit soft too, their not too great.
Is there anyway to keep my dick harder and last a lot longer?
I tried one of those creams they sell at sex stores to make u last longer and I put it on, it made my dick very numb, and it was burning the living crap out of me, so after like 10 minutes I couldn't take it anymore and washed it off.
Maybe there's something else out there? I also heard it's in the mind too, if you think about it, you'll cum faster.
Any other tips or advice on anything I can do or take to last longer?
thanks again
Okay, I know we have covered this topic, but I can't find it anywhere, so I'll hit some of the highlights.
I'm going to assume you are a young guy, so masturbation before you are going to have sex sometimes helps you last longer. I'm going to hope you are using a condom, but if you aren't that helps cut down sensitivity and helps you last. And finally there are desensitizing creams and lotions to help- some you can even find by the condoms in the grocery store.
Try looking around on here in New to Sex and maybe Pleasing Him. As I said, I know there have been quite a few questions on this topic.
If none of these work or aren't specific to you, then come back and ask again. We'll try to find the exact right thing for you.