So I wanna know how to give good oral to a girl like if there's a technique or something. I've given oral once before, which was my first time having sex altogether, and she seemed to really like it but I'm always looking for ways to step it up a notch so feel free to let me know. Girls advice would be prefered seeing as they know what they want but if guys wanna send me some insight that's cool too. Thanks.
Tue, 03/03/2009 - 22:08
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How to give good oral to a girl, technique???
should answer your questions.... http://www.sexinfo101.com/cunnilingussecrets.shtml
There is no simple answer; rather, it is a complex set of instructions and these have been described in a major way with articles listed in the Index. What I mean by this is that there is more to making love than do A, B, then C. While this is a major part of a great make out session, there is also setting the romantic stage beforehand, and making love to her mind. "Sex" and this does not mean "intercourse" is in the mind; therefore, there is much to learn and understand about having a great make out session, first, before ever getting to the Foreplay aspect of it all.
I recommend reading ALL of the articles listed in the Index, particularly those that pertain to making out, kissing, and all that. Next, read those articles written by EvilEvilKitten (EEK). Two that address the specifics of your question are:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
The KIVIN Method of performing Cunnilingus, answered by Brandye, EEK, and Dancingdoc2
This includes an excellent video tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of integrating anal stimulation and oral stimulation, bringing this exercise to a new level!
In addition, your partner must be orgasmic. This means that she has learned to masturbate and is able to achieve orgasms regularly and consistently. If she has not made the transition, making out will very likely be pleasant, yet she will not climax. Please read the articles by Brandye concerning the femal orgasms. There are three or four that discuss the various aspects of them.
Communication is very very important. When stimulating our partner it is like the blind leading the blind without receiving feedback on how s/he is responding to our caresses. When a person masturbates we benefit from an internal feedback that governs what we do when and allowing us to modulate our movements. This is missing when we turn the reins over to our partner, so, a substitution is needed. This is verbal and/or non-verbal communications. This is described in one of the articles you should be reading.
I may have made this sound terribly difficult and complicated, although, in reality it really is not. What I am saying is that you need to add to your knowledge base of sex education info and then put it all into practice.
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