I'm learning the art of self pleasuring right now. I think of course it could help my sex life to know how to orgasm on my own.
So, i've realized that i get A LOT of pleasure out of my ass. I'm a woman by the way. But rubbing around the anal hole, thrusting in and out of it superficially really quick or fast and inserting it and thrusting in and out fast, and inserting it and squeezing my ass hole really fast and strong is REALLY pleasurable- i guess i have almost orgasms this way- the feeling is addictive- i've started doing it every day for the feelings.
So, my problem or question isn't about my ass of course. It's why i can't get strong sensations or orgasms from my vagina? I've done practically EVERYTHING to my clitoris, inner labia, hole and feeling around inside of it. I know how the inside of my vagina feels, i've rubbed my clitoris, squeezed it between my fingers, stroked it lightly, rubbed around my vaginal hole, stretched the hole with fingers, thrusted into my vagina in a variety of ways, superficially like with my anus, my finger inserted a little, medium length, all the way, i've rubbed inside it following the mound that i guess is the g spot and everything i can think of! and my vagina is not strong when i try to squeeze my fingers with it, not nearly as strong as my ass, it's so weak. I've racked my brain, bought a masturbation ebook, and i don't know what i can do to get feelings out of my vagina or clitoris. I'm happy with anal orgasms but something seems strange that i'm a woman and my clitoris and vagina aren't sensitive. What am i doing wrong? What should i do to get an orgasm out of my vagina?
I really have no answer for you...it works both ways for me. BUT I have noticed a few posters on this site (one is luvmywifesass--spelling?) they swear their female partners prefer anal. Maybe search some of the anal threads & look for these it might give you some answers.
Thanks Sera300! do you think those anal threads could have information about getting pleasure from the vagina?
I've read Doc's post, i've got the idea of rubbing on top of my vagina in the area of my clitoris or hole through clothes. And i can touch other areas through clothes as masturbation foreplay! So, i'm gonna experiment with that, so far the first try was ok... anymore ideas are appreciated. I'll write if and when i can squeeze an orgasm out from my front! :)
I don't remember any of those posts discussing vaginal orgasm just their female partner preferring anal to vaginal (I assume for the reasons you discuss). Have you tried to find your g-spot? I have found clitoral stimulation is good for foreplay but I have always found the orgasm is very weak compared to an orgasm from vaginal penetration, g-spot stimulation, and anal. I guess I am fortunate that I can easily orgasm from vag. penetration but the strongest are during g-spot stim or anal.
The anal opening is packed with nerves perhaps you have a higher sensitivity? Many women have major turn ons from having their breast stimulated. Mine are disconnected for me, it does nothing for me at all other then being a turn on watching him touch. The point? Perhaps certain areas of your body are more sensitive then other areas.
True Sera300- i certainly appreciate i can get pleasure from anywhere on my body, even if it's anal. I'll certainly enjoy the anal sex probably. And learning more techniques that are addictive will be great too. I think i'll read around the forum like you suggest! I've been here a lot reading before and copied a lot of information from stickies but i guess i have to try harder than the normal woman to get an orgasm from my front. I thought the g spot was the mound but i read it's soft and spongy the size of a quarter. I guess i gotta go feeling around inside again to locate it!
Ready Brandyes post of percentages of women who orgasm and how! You will find you are normal! I am not with in the norm percentage range for women! Read the posts on g-spots...it's pretty easy to find and give that one a try!!! Best of luck! :)
Thanks Sera300! :) Will do!
I think i had my first vaginal orgasm. I was pressing my clitoris like a button really fast and then a wave washed over me. Then i did it again and seconds later an involuntary wave washed over me again and i yelled slightly involuntarily and lost control of my bodily movements for a couple seconds. The orgasm wasn't very "pleasurable" but at least i know how it feels for an orgasm to happen and to cause involuntary feelings or wash over you. Success!
I found my g spot, Sera300. i always wondered what the bumpy thing was at the beginning of going into my vagina. I didn't like it because it hurt when i tried to put my finger inside going accross the bumps before i reached some smoothness- unless i'm very wet already. but i realized those bumps were the g spot- a bumpy, spongy area the size of a quarter at the entrance of the vagina. I'll try an orgasm from it soon. I think the way i'm getting orgasms is to do whatever movements i do "really fast" or "quick". That seems to cause orgasms and pleasurable feelings really fast and quick in me as well!
However, what's so great about involuntary movements? I don't want to lose control of my body like that! I thought pleasure was supposed to accompany that! Is there a way to have an orgasm without losing control of your body? Please, men, can you help me out with your experience? and ladies too?
You better start with learning what you have and where it is. The vagina is an internal organ and impossible for most women to see their own. It is a very unusual woman who can stroke her own G-Spot. The position and angles are such that that rarely works.
Many of us derive pleasure from anal stimulation even if, like me, anal intercourse is off limits. The anal sphincters, in most women, are the strongest muscles involved in orgasm. They are powerful muscles and massaging or poking at them builds up tension as in other muscles (including the uterus). The orgasm is a release of this tension and the more and stronger the muscles involved, the stronger the orgasm.
Thank you Brandye! I thought i found my g spot, though. hmm... more experimenting.
well brandye DID technically say that MOST girls cant reach it... so i suppose it is technically possible that you did indeed find your g-spot...
but tell me how it all turns out?
i love it when there is something inside me going crazy and my clit getting rubbed or sucked as hard as my man can do
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