What's up guys...Well, my boyfriend is coming back from college for the weekend. 3 more days!!!!! :D I was thinking of some new and kinky things to surprise him with when he got here and I remembered that I wanted to try anal on him a long time ago. He was always totally against it, saying that it would make him less of a man, but it's like a fantasy of mine to do it to him with a dildo that I have. Anyone know of any ways to kind of convince him that it'll be good once he tries it? *I like it but it really hurts in the beginning*I kinda wanna do it subtly so maybe he'll let me try but idunno...any tips???? ???
Tue, 08/26/2003 - 22:03
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How To Get Him To Do It
i dont think there is a subtle way to use a dildo on someone's ass.
just like you'll read on here about guys wanting theres girls to do anal w/ them, dont force the issue. if he's not cool w/ it then let it go.
have you at least tried some other types of anal play w/ him like fingering or something? i would definetly suggest getting past that point first b4 asking to use a dildo on him.
hope this helps ;)
Definetly try some other type of anal play first... If you just say "let me stick a dildo up your ass!" he probably won't be to interested, but if you tried fingering, say while giving him a hand/blowjob, he may discover that he loves it
i think mike is right, try first with a less agresive and more subtle approach. The b/j with anal fingering sounds like a great idea, just as him if he would like a prostate massage, and explain to him how it's done. If he agrees to the experiment and enjoy it, maybe he'll be more open (lol
) in the future to try further experimentation.
Hehe, well thanks guys for the advice. but I've tried to do the bj and anal play thing. I can be going at it and doing a great job, he's enjoying it, and as soon as my finger gets near his ass he freaks out. I don't just jump to it either. I start by gently rubbing him everywhere and slowly leading my hand down there. any ideas?
well if he's not down w/ you even touching his anal area then i doubt you will ever get him to let you use a dildo on him.
like i said b4...if you guys have talked about it and he's stated that he doesn't want to then dont pressure him.
some people are comfortable w/ it...some are not.
I do understand your b/f hesitation, for many men, the anus is a one way street.
If he's not interested, he's not interested. Men have just as much of a right to say no as women do.