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How to get her to squirt? Need some help here...

Can every girl squirt?.........if so how can i get her to do it?

So a search on this site; asked & answered many times.

good question how do you get them to squirt i aient managed that one yet...

if you reveiw ths site it tells you what to do and gives you alot of good info.

This was something that was also playing in my mind and thanks to the comprehensive resources in this forum which fetched me the answer. I do consider myself in the learning stage even when it comes to the normal sex positions but my wife always is eager to stretch a little bit more. She likes experimenting too much to which I am rather skeptic. I simply do not want to proceed unless I am sure which reduces the risks if any, this place in one way can be referred to as the ideal tutorial for all the novices.

Nice comments, josh, thanks.

Those of us around for a long while appreciate feedback - especially this kind!

[QUOTE=joshmein;198338]This was something that was also playing in my mind and thanks to the comprehensive resources in this forum which fetched me the answer. I do consider myself in the learning stage even when it comes to the normal sex positions but my wife always is eager to stretch a little bit more. She likes experimenting too much to which I am rather skeptic. I simply do not want to proceed unless I am sure which reduces the risks if any, this place in one way can be referred to as the ideal tutorial for all the novices.[/QUOTE]
I go along with these comments. this sure is a great place and we are blessed with some good professionals. God bless 'em!!!

Hi Alan.

That's a good video, from a much longer tutorial which is about an hour or more long. What you're not seeing is the fact that the first 45 minutes are spent explaining how he totally relaxes her through full body massage (just look at the oil all over her skin) and many of the techniques described on this forum as body worship. He says again and again that you can't just leap in and copy that technique if you want to consistently help a woman ejaculate. It's the final step in a LONG process of sensual and verbal pleasuring. That's also why he can use a rougher approach, she is very ready for it by then.

I think from memory he brings her to orgasm again after the one featured, and she can't speak for about four minutes - it's quite something.

Again, I echo alan's warning - this is as explicit as they come (so to speak), so only click on the 'Squirting Tutorial' link in the post above this if you don't mind that. Also remember he's made that as a tutorial, you would normally do this much more intimately than shown.

Thanks for the context to the video. what is the video that it is part of?

Wow, I just watched this video and my wife made me instantly try it on her. She didn't squirt but she had an orgasm in under 2 minutes. She didn't like it as rough as what is in this video, so I used a more rhythmic motion to start. I also stopped right after she had the orgasm, so maybe she would have squirted if I had gone on a little longer like in the video. I have to say I was a little intimidated to try this, but it turned out to be really simple for both of us. This video shows it all, so if that makes you uncomfortable, then don't click.

Squirting Tutorial

Oral sex works for me everytine! focus on clit stimlutation

Stimulating the Clit and G-Spot, using just the right pressure and the right speed, pay attention to her and you will feel when she is ready ... a girlfriend of mine who was married for over 35 years and never had an orgasm, we got together a couple years ago and not only did she orgasm, but had a gushing orgasm... and we have worked on that since then and she has had multiple gushers... it's like playing a violin.. only much more fun....

It's hard for a female unless she's very comfortable with her partner and her body. I had multiple partners before my current boyfriend, and I felt as though I had a satisfactory knowledge of myself and my sexual wants and needs. But through my relationship with him, I learned that I was capable of female ejaculation. It only happened when I "learned to let go." If you've never ejaculated before, you think it's urine, and you just hold back and never "let go."

Trust is the most important thing, I think. Even more than technique. Women have sex in their minds.

so its not urine?? i've always been afraid to let go.. i've felt the need to let out some pressure.. but i never wanted to.. i thought maybe it was because i had to go to the potty

Well, if you emptied your bladder before you began having sex, there is a big possibility it's not urine, but something more wonderful and fantastic!

F.Y.I not all women squirt...supposedly i've heard that every woman could..but i just don't think so. Not all of our bodies are made the same...plus I don't think thats the ultimate goal. To please her, period, is great. Whatever comes of that is just a bonus!

my boyfriend seems to lik the idea of me "squrting" but for some reason i cant do it. i did once but i dont know how it happened really. i know he liks it and i really wanna do it for him eveytime he wants it...what do i do?

Umm...just relax bitter thats really all you can do...be perfectly calm, relax your whole body get really wet and have him hit the g spot

when i feel like he's hittin it i feel as if i have to pee, is that suppose to happen? and i think i cant really get into it because he be trying so hard, its uncomfotable somethimes. how do i let him kno what i like without him feeling like im being rude?

Yes it is usually a big indicator that you are hitting the spot ;)

How can you do it without being rude? simple...just tell him a few things...while in the moment...oh yea just like that omg dont stop etc etc...

Or the easiest (and most mature) sit him down have a heart to heart and if he gets pissy well smack him upside the head...lol...

lol..kool
i always tell him i have to go to the bathroom and he gets up and let me go, but i never pee
i ahve tried talking to him but i think it goes in one ear and out the othe, i feel like cheating sometimes but i cant do that to him, how do I spice it up a lil more?

tie him to the bed and say this is how and why and what were doing....

i dont wanna bruise his ego =(

Well then he isnt a man...cuz if he cant take a bit of criticism, or even advice then he isnt worth the time...

Not everyone woman can do it to the extent you hear about. For some it's barely a teaspoon. The feeling of having to go pee is not always an indicator as it could be your guy's penis putting pressure on your bladder.

One way to help be certain is try clitoral stimulation instead and make sure your empty your bladder completely before you start. As a precaution you might warn him of what you're trying to do and have some towels or waterproof coverings to help limit the mess.

Why do you all debate this? There's a 'sticky post' on the subject.
Bittersweet - forget about his ego..men do not understand hints - period. If you want/like/dislike/need something - just TELL HIM.

This guy demonstrates his technique on how to get a woman to squirt with a cantaloupe. It's a long video and they ramble a bit but he gets to the cantaloupe part towards the end:

http://www.sex-lift.com/watch/ba1c09b3695e0cb6cde7/Orgasm-Techniques---S...

I showed this to my wife and she seemed pretty intimidated by his demo.

OMG! Just use your hands or the head of your penis. It really isn't "rocket science"!

A cantaloupe! egad! And they think ejaculate leaves a mess?!?!

Had to view the pictures...I think it looks more like a search and find mission...perhaps the video was attempting to locate an ovary or rupture her bladder. You can not make a woman squirt...Looks sort of rough to get such a result...:eek:

You don't MAKE a woman ejaculate, but you can "assist".

Some women ejaculate most of the time; some, some of the time; and, most, none of the time. The male has next to nothing to do with it. Some of us are squirters and some not.

Damn. I knew you'd ask that. I tried digging it out and couldn't find it. If I do I'll post up the details.

I wouldn't say that most are not capable. I'd say most do not know they can. As to being rough - no. You have to adjust your technique to the woman in question. As much as men might want to use their hands to stimulate the G-Spot, and this is the best way to assist if she's never ejacualted before, using the head of your penis on her G-Spot is much more fun.

Is it normal to get the peeing sensation even after she has come 5 or 6 or more times? This is all in about an hour - 1 and a half hours and I am just wondering if we are stopping too soon and miss out on the "finale" ;-)

For some women, yes, and you may be stopping too soon.

Finally got her to squirt. My wife and I have been trying for months now. I even ordered a book and video on the net about the subject. Even after the video my wife still was very hestitant to "LET GO", she always said that she had that PEE sensation. However, about a week ago she finally "LET GO" and was able to squirt, not once but twice. The second time it got all over the bed sheet.

For those who think it's pee, it didn't have that "PEE" odor to it, and it was clear fluid. Also, my wife always relieves herself before our adventures.

This is a pretty neat forum, I found it while doing research on "SQUIRTING", LOL! go figure

Best I have been told by men...there is a mildly sweet taste.:)

Glad the community has been able to help you out. Grats