try asking her?

Tell her....its not rocket science its a blow job

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. In addition, if you click on the site's Home Page, you will find even more information.

I recommend that the two of you read every article in the Index, either together or separately, then discuss what you have learned, then add the information to what each of you already knows. If you wish to become a world-class lover, this is the place to begin.

Relationships are partnerships. As such making love is also a partnership. Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other. Please read the article on communication and feedback. Next, read the article on "Implied Consent". As mentioned, above, if one or the other of you wants something, something different, or a change, you have to talk to each other. Sit down at a neutral time when the two of you are not about to make out and discuss what you want and if necessary how to do it.

> Anyone have any suggestions for ways to get my gf when she's blowing me to do different things like like the shaft, play with the balls ect.

Move and place her hand, mouth, lips, where you want them. Guide her in what to do. Show her how to do this, that, or, the other, then take her hand if necessary and move it in the manner desired until she learns how to mimic your technique. This may take more than one session.

Give her feedback on how you are responding to her caresses and for what you need now/next/different. Because this is a partnership, explore and learn together.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?