i don't think its something you ask for...if she wants to do it she'll do it in her own time. if she's not too keen on the idea the worst thing you can do is ask or force her into it. just give it time.
If you give her oral sex on a regular basis (I say regular basis because a lot of women complain that since they started to give their BF blowjobs, he's totally stop returning the favor), she'll get to a point where she'll want to give it to you.
I beleive it's really important that she's not forced into it since that would certainly limit the fun you'll ever get from it. And by fun I mean all the extraordinary sensations a girl can give to her bf when she feels like pleasing him.
[QUOTE=Serious_69;180115]The problem is shes never done it before, and makes it seem like she never will, and got mad last time I said "I cant belive youve never done it, cause everybody has" And im making progress cause when we kiss or whatever, ill put her hand on my crotch and shell actually keep it there for some time unlike before. And I always give her oral but never get anything back, and I tell her that but she has reply. Tips boys and girls?[/QUOTE]
That's a tad rude my friend. " can't believe you've never done it ". That would compare, in a rather fair way, to her saying " can't believe your penis is that thin ".
And actually putting her hand on your crotch is everything but communication.
I truly understand your burning desire to get a blowjob but you should reconsider your approach.
Also you should understand that she has never done it, which would translate to : it's a learning experience for her. If you're only aptitude in sharing that learning experience is be pushy, again, you should reconsider your approach.
Anyway, some ladies don't (and won't) like to give blowjob, that's a fact.
Dude - the way you've been treating her sexually is all wrong.
If she doesn't want to do it, then she won't.
If she's at a different level of sexual maturity than you, and doesn't seem to be moving on, then take a hike. No sense in pushing her ahead; plus, it won't be as good if she doesn't ease into it.
Or, you could try to get her really aroused so that she just wants to do it.
If she wanted to she would, if she expressed interest she would try. Read the various posts here from men (on this site) who are in long term relationships or married to women who will not. Doubt she will change her mindset in the near future.
[QUOTE=Serious_69;180115]The problem is shes never done it before, and makes it seem like she never will, and got mad last time I said "I cant belive youve never done it, cause everybody has"... And I always give her oral but never get anything back, and I tell her that but she has reply. [/QUOTE]
You undoubtedly mean well, however, your approach on both counts is way way off base, not to mention callous, inconsiderate, and rude. Next, you want to make her feel insecure, and bad, by rubbing her nose in this fact. Is this all about you and getting your rocks off or does she even register on your radar screen? In my never to be so humble opinion, you need to develop some politeness, humbleness, topped off with communication skills. You'll learn although it may take another girlfriend or two.
How do you know "everybody has". This isn't even close to being accurate. "Everybody" you know may have--if you can believe them. People coming up through the ranks haven't. There is a first time for "everybody" and apparently she has yet to reach this point with you or anybody else.
Stop the arrogance, hurt, and annoyance, and develop some compassion. A relationship is a partnership. Explore, discover, and learn together and not make this about making her feel bad.
Her timetable for doing things may be different than yours. Also, much of what she has an interest in doing or a willingness to do is predicated upon how she feels about herself, and what trust she has in you and in the relationship as a whole.
I think I am with a woman who simply won't do it. When I couldn't get hard my first time I suggested she try it since she couldn't get me hard with her hand, but she said something along the lines of "I really doubt that will work." I haven't brought it up since then, and have went down on her a couple times, but have never had the favor returned. Maybe she thinks that since she made me cum once while giving me a handjob that it was good enough to never want a blowjob :(
Ugh I hate when people start threads... don't like what they get as responses...and delete their posts.... only way I know what was going on was the Doc quoted that one part.
But if I had wrote what he wrote.. I'd probably not want other people to read it either. That's just being a jerk to tell someone that.
And we wonder why kids are having sex/oral at a young age...b/c of jerks like this guy. I can't remember how old the OP was or his g/f was... high school I'd imagine.
Anyhow, like Doc said... how can you assume "everyone else has"... people talk sh*t when they are in HS...and say they've done everything.
Now this poor girl will probably think she has to blow the entire football team just to have a guy like her...and since every other girl in school already did it.
Now let's get back to the original question: HOW TO GET A BLOWJOB?
I find it works best if you find out the PRICE first!...Like uhhhh errrr ummm...how much do you charge for a blow job??...this breaks the ice,and you know exactly where you stand...or if you are making out...you could ask...does that cost extra???:)
I don't think I've ever heard of a man not liking or wanting to get a blow job.
She'll do it when/if she wants to.
Hand jobs? I've always been asked for more as it's 'not enough'
i don't think its something you ask for...if she wants to do it she'll do it in her own time. if she's not too keen on the idea the worst thing you can do is ask or force her into it. just give it time.
I think the best way to get it is to give first.
If you give her oral sex on a regular basis (I say regular basis because a lot of women complain that since they started to give their BF blowjobs, he's totally stop returning the favor), she'll get to a point where she'll want to give it to you.
I beleive it's really important that she's not forced into it since that would certainly limit the fun you'll ever get from it. And by fun I mean all the extraordinary sensations a girl can give to her bf when she feels like pleasing him.
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[QUOTE=Serious_69;180115]The problem is shes never done it before, and makes it seem like she never will, and got mad last time I said "I cant belive youve never done it, cause everybody has" And im making progress cause when we kiss or whatever, ill put her hand on my crotch and shell actually keep it there for some time unlike before. And I always give her oral but never get anything back, and I tell her that but she has reply. Tips boys and girls?[/QUOTE]
That's a tad rude my friend. " can't believe you've never done it ". That would compare, in a rather fair way, to her saying " can't believe your penis is that thin ".
And actually putting her hand on your crotch is everything but communication.
I truly understand your burning desire to get a blowjob but you should reconsider your approach.
Also you should understand that she has never done it, which would translate to : it's a learning experience for her. If you're only aptitude in sharing that learning experience is be pushy, again, you should reconsider your approach.
Anyway, some ladies don't (and won't) like to give blowjob, that's a fact.
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Dude - the way you've been treating her sexually is all wrong.
If she doesn't want to do it, then she won't.
If she's at a different level of sexual maturity than you, and doesn't seem to be moving on, then take a hike. No sense in pushing her ahead; plus, it won't be as good if she doesn't ease into it.
Or, you could try to get her really aroused so that she just wants to do it.
If she wanted to she would, if she expressed interest she would try. Read the various posts here from men (on this site) who are in long term relationships or married to women who will not. Doubt she will change her mindset in the near future.
[QUOTE=Serious_69;180115]The problem is shes never done it before, and makes it seem like she never will, and got mad last time I said "I cant belive youve never done it, cause everybody has"... And I always give her oral but never get anything back, and I tell her that but she has reply. [/QUOTE]
You undoubtedly mean well, however, your approach on both counts is way way off base, not to mention callous, inconsiderate, and rude. Next, you want to make her feel insecure, and bad, by rubbing her nose in this fact. Is this all about you and getting your rocks off or does she even register on your radar screen? In my never to be so humble opinion, you need to develop some politeness, humbleness, topped off with communication skills. You'll learn although it may take another girlfriend or two.
How do you know "everybody has". This isn't even close to being accurate. "Everybody" you know may have--if you can believe them. People coming up through the ranks haven't. There is a first time for "everybody" and apparently she has yet to reach this point with you or anybody else.
Stop the arrogance, hurt, and annoyance, and develop some compassion. A relationship is a partnership. Explore, discover, and learn together and not make this about making her feel bad.
Her timetable for doing things may be different than yours. Also, much of what she has an interest in doing or a willingness to do is predicated upon how she feels about herself, and what trust she has in you and in the relationship as a whole.
I think I am with a woman who simply won't do it. When I couldn't get hard my first time I suggested she try it since she couldn't get me hard with her hand, but she said something along the lines of "I really doubt that will work." I haven't brought it up since then, and have went down on her a couple times, but have never had the favor returned. Maybe she thinks that since she made me cum once while giving me a handjob that it was good enough to never want a blowjob :(
I suggested to my kindly, I didn't want to force it.
Ugh I hate when people start threads... don't like what they get as responses...and delete their posts.... only way I know what was going on was the Doc quoted that one part.
But if I had wrote what he wrote.. I'd probably not want other people to read it either. That's just being a jerk to tell someone that.
And we wonder why kids are having sex/oral at a young age...b/c of jerks like this guy. I can't remember how old the OP was or his g/f was... high school I'd imagine.
Anyhow, like Doc said... how can you assume "everyone else has"... people talk sh*t when they are in HS...and say they've done everything.
Now this poor girl will probably think she has to blow the entire football team just to have a guy like her...and since every other girl in school already did it.
Hmmph :mad:
My girlfriend who I have dated for 3 years never wanted to and still does not. Appreciate her for who she is not what she can do for you.:rolleyes:
Moderators, considering the user edited the writing and eliminated the posts, I believe this is enough to be banned, yes?
Now let's get back to the original question: HOW TO GET A BLOWJOB?
I find it works best if you find out the PRICE first!...Like uhhhh errrr ummm...how much do you charge for a blow job??...this breaks the ice,and you know exactly where you stand...or if you are making out...you could ask...does that cost extra???:)
Pay the hooker:rolleyes:
[QUOTE=Kriptkid1;180288]Pay the hooker:rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Yeah, or take some flexibility class and do it yourself!