hi my boyf has been tlking a lot about 69 and to be honest i don't quite understand how it would work...who is on top of who or are both ppl on their sides...?? soz if i sound dumb - it's just something that has a lot of attention drawn to it, but i've never fully understood how it works. it's oral 4 both ppl at the same time isn't it? is it enjoyable or a bit too intense if you're giving and receiving at the same time??
replies would be greatly appreciated!
uncreativename
thnx evry1!
giving pleasure 69ing definitely is a difficult task to concentrate well on.
I talked about it a lot to my gf, and we eventually tried it and honestly neither of us are too keen on doing it again.
We were side by side and have similar heights, but really, we each enjoy it a lot more if we take turns pleasing one another. I think it's because a lot more pleasure can be given when one person is concentrating on it, and you can enjoy it a lot more if you are not preoccupied with making sure the other person is enjoying too.
69 is often more attracting sounding than it sometimes turns out to be. By all means try it a bit. The relative size of the two people can make a big difference in making it work. The advice of being on top is good advice to start out. I do prefer being on the bottom but I raise my arm as my partner straddles me. The gives me a free hand for playing and, perhaps, protecting myself from thrusting too deeply.
I do prefer 69 with other women than with men. But, all in all, I would rather he eat me and then give him a blow job. 69 is great foreplay but I tend to not have an orgasm when I am trying to help my partner have one.
You have the basic concept right: mutual oral play. It takes practice to make it fun.
The great 69 debate... it's one of my personal favorite foreplay positions.
It is oral sex that both people give & recieve at the same time. Obviousley, you'll be head to toe & facing each other... or rather, each other's genitals. Either of you can be on top... or you can both lay on your sides... which ever is most comfortable. If your new to it I'd suggest that you start on your sides or with you on top... that way you control how deep his penis goes.