Through cunnilingus, clitoral, G-Spot, anterior fornix and posterior fornix stimulation and if I get really aroused - if a light breeze caresses my skin or if I see one of my men naked in his bathrobe lounging there smoking a cigar afterwards.

I enjoy orgasms so I put no barriers up between me and them.

No, it isn't rare. You have the hardware (the internal hotspots), and the software (brain) but the two are not yet connected or sync'd up.