Hey! How do you know if a GUY likes you? Nine times out of ten that was a mystery to me. And, what do you mean by "like"? If a man lets me know he thinks I'm sexually attractive I don't consider that "liking". Liking is about WHO I am NOT about what he thinks of my looks/body. When I was in my teens and 20's I could pick up on the sexual message, but it was extremely difficult to figure out sincere "liking". In my day:rolleyes: men were not comfortable or sincere or forthcoming about who they really LIKED.
I think if a girl likes a guy, she tends to show it - but there's a tiny problem - some girls may seem like they are flirting, when they're just being nice and friendly. If you want to know, ask her - it's much easier than worrying about it whenever you're together. I think of it as, the worst that can happen is she says no. But what's the best that can happen? Yes :)
I dont ask girls unless i no that they like me for a fact, as they tend to spred the word and any girls that do like you dont any more.
no offence girls you to confusing
well tomas I am 23 am as amused and puzzed as you.
well let us address the question at hand. the only time I had a girl showing signs of liking me (that i piked up on as I liked her too hm very much) well they were obvious to me, we just got along fine talked non stop for 2 days she kept showing apreciation for my opinions and veiws and went as far as blushinly telling me I could consider her my friend. well if it werent that I had to come away we would have been making out the next day and a week from then erm... well lets not get into that but the result is I am heading back for good.
Girls are just as shy if not more so than you are. They will probably not approach a person they like right away (or in my case, ever), at least not if they feel that it will cause them embarrassment. They are afraid that you don't like them in return and that...
a. your friendship could be ruined
b. you'll make fun of them or pass it along as a rumour
c. they'll look stupid in front of their close friends, who may not like you (the teen social system for females is absolutely mind boggling)
d. you'll act wierd around them, thus causing them to not get to know you better- which kills relatinship potential. (Amazingly girls like to actually have an understanding of the person their with and share common interest)
by asking you'll make it easier on her, she can give you a direct answer. Don't ask if you aren't interested yourself though, that would just make both of you uncomfortable.
How will a girl know that you like her???? Try to answer the question by your behaviour , language, attitude, style , etc. You will get change in her response or behaviour. You had it. But every girl is different and so are boys. No rule.
um. first of all, your in the poll section, and you dont have a poll
and in my experiances, you can not put into words how you know someone likes you, everyone is different.
Hey! How do you know if a GUY likes you? Nine times out of ten that was a mystery to me. And, what do you mean by "like"? If a man lets me know he thinks I'm sexually attractive I don't consider that "liking". Liking is about WHO I am NOT about what he thinks of my looks/body. When I was in my teens and 20's I could pick up on the sexual message, but it was extremely difficult to figure out sincere "liking". In my day:rolleyes: men were not comfortable or sincere or forthcoming about who they really LIKED.
> it was extremely difficult to figure out sincere "liking". In my day men were not comfortable or sincere or forthcoming about who they really LIKED.
The times, they aren't a changin'.
Guys tend to hover at first over girls they like.
Also, when a guy shows interest he tends to:
* call
* offer to do things for you
* find excuses to be near you and/or to talk to you
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]> The times, they aren't a changin'.[/QUOTE]
HEAVY SIGH!!:(
I'd be interested in this to.... I'm new to the field of sex.
The topic has to do with possibly establishing a friendship and maybe later a relationship. There is nothing in this thread about sex.
I think if a girl likes a guy, she tends to show it - but there's a tiny problem - some girls may seem like they are flirting, when they're just being nice and friendly. If you want to know, ask her - it's much easier than worrying about it whenever you're together. I think of it as, the worst that can happen is she says no. But what's the best that can happen? Yes :)
I dont ask girls unless i no that they like me for a fact, as they tend to spred the word and any girls that do like you dont any more.
no offence girls you to confusing
try ''accidentally'' bumping into her. i did it and then a week later we were going out
Or you could try accidentally bumping into her car.
This is a useful strategy, particularly if you spot her a lane over in heavy traffic.
Just don't go too fast, or somebody could get hurt.
lol what do you expect her to say
"oooo that felt nice lim horny please let have sex in one of our cars" (in other words i dont see how it works)
how old are you?
i am 16
i just dont see how that would work chrashing into some one.
well tomas I am 23 am as amused and puzzed as you.
well let us address the question at hand. the only time I had a girl showing signs of liking me (that i piked up on as I liked her too hm very much) well they were obvious to me, we just got along fine talked non stop for 2 days she kept showing apreciation for my opinions and veiws and went as far as blushinly telling me I could consider her my friend. well if it werent that I had to come away we would have been making out the next day and a week from then erm... well lets not get into that but the result is I am heading back for good.
bump into her...yes she will say oooooooo im so horny lets bang in car.
Girls are just as shy if not more so than you are. They will probably not approach a person they like right away (or in my case, ever), at least not if they feel that it will cause them embarrassment. They are afraid that you don't like them in return and that...
a. your friendship could be ruined
b. you'll make fun of them or pass it along as a rumour
c. they'll look stupid in front of their close friends, who may not like you (the teen social system for females is absolutely mind boggling)
d. you'll act wierd around them, thus causing them to not get to know you better- which kills relatinship potential. (Amazingly girls like to actually have an understanding of the person their with and share common interest)
by asking you'll make it easier on her, she can give you a direct answer. Don't ask if you aren't interested yourself though, that would just make both of you uncomfortable.
How will a girl know that you like her???? Try to answer the question by your behaviour , language, attitude, style , etc. You will get change in her response or behaviour. You had it. But every girl is different and so are boys. No rule.