I have what my doc calls a "blind pimple" right up beside my clit, now I have had these in the past and they have always gone away on there own. Sometimes a couple weeks, sometimes a couple month, what ever it may be, no problems. Well this one just kinda popped up on me in the last weeks. The problem I have is that I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks now and well we were messing around the other night and I really wanted to have sex with him and everything:D , but I stopped it cause this "BUMP" popped in my head:(. I want to tell him so when he goes down on me he wont be all freaked out and be like "WHAT THE **** IS THAT!?!?":eek: I mean it is not an STD or anything, and it is not like I can just NOT say anything to him about it, cause you can see it... it is like RIGHT beside my clit... so I need a way to approch and tell him about this without scaring him and assuring him that it is not an STD or anything that he can get. I didn't have this problem before cause my ex was the one that noticed them in the first place, that is when I went to the doc and everything... but my doc put me on birth control shortly after that and they got fewer and fewer that this is the first one I have had in like 2 years... but I haven't been on bith control for the past year... I wonder if that could have anything to do with it? I just really, REALLY need some advise on how to tell him without freaking him out... any advise would be GREAT... thanks!!
Wed, 01/10/2007 - 07:57
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How do I tell him without freaking him out?
Take the information that doctor gave you, look it up online and print out a couple of things explaining what it is. When sit the guy down, dressed. Tell him that you really like him and that you want to take things further. Tell him that you wanted to tell him something that he might notice when you are naked. Explain to him what he may find and explain that you have seen a doctor about it and what the doctor said and show him what you found online.
You might even want your doctor to scribble a note giving some basic information about the diagnosis.
This is a test. This is only a test.
Tell him you sometimes break out in blind pimples in this area and that you believe you have one now. Then shut up.
His reaction will tell you everything you need to know about him, his character, and how he feels about you.
If he freaks, then he's not the man for you - dump him.
If he doesn't, he's good.
If he laughs and says "no problem, sweetheart" then he's GOLDEN!
Got it?
Hah, note from your doctor indeed!
Not everyone walks around with a medical degree or much knowledge of this stuff. I actually still have no idea what "blind pimple" is, I outta look it up. So having a short note from a doctor explaining what it is, or printouts from webmd or something like that would be helpful. This is health we're talking about, and he has a right to know what he's getting into, even if it is harmless and doens't get passed from person to person.
Not the point. If nothing else he could ask her about it. The word 'pimple' is not totally foreign to most people and treating it as a serious health risk is silly since it isn't one.
The point is she's being responsible so how will he take the news?