Hey guys, i'm new to this but...me & my gf mess around with each other. i finger her & she gives me hand jobs, we're both virgins...but everytime i finger her it always hurts her & i don't know why...shes says whenever i come close to her vagina it really hurts her(especially when i enter it) & i was wondering if theres a way to make it hurt less or is there something else to do? i just want her to feel better
Mon, 02/19/2007 - 03:16
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How do i make it not hurt
I dated a virgin and you really have to be patient and carefull.
make sure you have a great verbal comunication trust. make sure you dont take anything personal and that she trust you.
that being established heres what i did for my virgin ex gf back in the day:
focus on stimulating her clit and getting her wet first.
then obviously try to slightly penetrate with your pinky. be aware of her physical reaction to this. go slow and not deep and keep stimulating her clit.
from there on just escalate step by step moment by moment. if shes comfortable with pinky go with your index. exct....
Get her to really enjoy your finger before you start sex. just build alot of sexual comfort and trust with each other.
and the good news is once you get that far, come back to the boards and find the sticky post for "first time" or whatever its called. read up on that and you will be doing your gf a great service of being knowledged up on such an awkward life experience
Thanx, i'll def. try that tomorrow
Has she tried a dildo? ;)
she doesn't believe in masterbation
Follow Madeyes advice...give it a try.