Swallow!!!!

I go with Elton on this.

Also you can try different sensations, cold and hot are always good, try taking him in your mouth after a mouthfull of hot coffee, or a reasonably strong mint. Same with ice, a small piece of ice can do wonders when swirled around the penis with the tongue.

Your imagination is the limit. Enjoy!

I disagree.

To swallow or not to swallow is a woman's perogative. While it can be emotionally satisfying to the man because he views the act as complete and total acceptance, swallowing in and of itself does not blow his mind. If the woman chooses not to swallow, for whatever reason, he has to accept her decision and live with it. Total acceptance (of him and the relatlionship) can be demonstrated in other ways.

> i am not sure what i am doin but he is enjoying it!!!

As the ol' saying goes: "If it ain't broke, don' fix it." You don't necessarily have to know the precise choreography of what you are doing, just keep on doing what's been working. Take your cues from his reactions and vary your technique accordingly.

Ice is good. Another way to use an ice cube is to press it squarely against the perineum!
This is the portion of the crotch extending between the anus and scrotum. Timing is critical. Do it too soon and it will not be effective. Surprising him with it right when his orgasm has been triggered will definitely cause orgasmic shivers.

Here are some ideas to spice things up:
* Learn where his hotspots are located.
The absolute A#1 is the Frenulum {Y-shaped ridge of skin extending from the cleft to the top of the shaft.) One or more secondary spots can be found distributed around the Corona Rim.

Rubbing any will quickly bring about an orgasm when the man is very highly aroused.

* Combine oral stimulation with hand stimulation.
Together, these form what I refer to as the "Dynamic Duo".

* Slightly cup your hand, lubricate the palm, and rub the entire surface of the Glans with a polishing motion, as if polishing a doorknob.

> what else can i do to blow his mind?

* Finger the outside of his anus.
The anus in males and females is richly endowed with nerves that turn on when we are extremely aroused. Finger the anus augments what we are experiencing from other forms of caresses with the other hand. It's not unlike the affect an afterburner has on a jet engine or a turbo on a conventional engine.

The surface can be touched by lightly rubbing or tapping early on with a dry finger; however, when devoting more time and attention, later, you must use a moist finger. If you really want to up the ante' and send him into the ozone, you can press your finger against the opening and move inside along the sphincter muscles.

The procedure is to press, not poke, jab, or shove. The initial action should distribute the lubricant around the passageway. You can then stroke your finger and wiggle it around.

* Perhaps the ultimate form of ancillary pleasure is in giving him a prostate massage.
Rubbing the prostate will significantly boost his level of arousal and will often help trigger an illusive orgasm as well. Note, that in and of itself fingering the anus, sphincters or prostate do not do much for him individually. These must accompany other forms of caresses.

* It has been said that there is a fine line between pain and pleasure. This can be demonstrated by gently squeezing a testicle. When not aroused, doing this can cause an ache that is mildly annoying. When done when he is extremely aroused, the ache is perceived as very pleasurable.

The testicles are more sensitive to impact than pressure, and this is the secret to how this form of caress works. In order to learn just how much to squeeze, practice at a time when the two of you are not going to be romantic. Take a testicle and gently apply increasing pressure until he tells you that he is experiencing an annoying little ache and then stop, noting just how much pressure you are applying. Then, later when in the throws of passion, you can apply this same pressure and the ache will actually become pleasurable. Again, this is something you do in conjunction with some other type of caress in order to intensify the overall feelings he is experiencing.

* If you have only been stroking his penis with dry fingers using a tight grip, moving the skin of the shaft back and forth within your grip, try a different tactic.

Lubricate your fingers and the shaft and using a very light touch, slide your fingers along the shaft without moving the skin using a grazing action. This will give him a completely different feeling and it will often be much more intense. You can also involve the hotspots. When ready to make him climax, rub the Frenulum.

These ideas should get you well on the road to mind blowing sex. Good luck.
Got questions?

From my experience, the best time I ever had was when my partner was TOTALLY caught up in it and she was just crazy excited and going at my member like a wild woman. Take care to keep the teeth out of play when you get crazy, but your enthusiasm and energy are electric and will be returned by your partner. It also helps to have soundproof walls, Ha Ha !!

eye contact is always good, that drives my bf crazy, its great, try it, and see his reaction

[QUOTE]i dont feel comfortable with him watching....ahhhhh... i'm nervous lolz.[/QUOTE]..

Have a look at the post regarding "Some ideas for being tied up/blindfolded"
with you being a little shy and also wanting to make the bj a "mind blowing" experience alot of what is there will help.
Being blindfolded the other senses seem to kick into overdrive and thus his sense of touch and anticipation of what is coming next should help make it a bj to remember (re-live) and you needen't be shy about him watching thus you to will be able to live out your fantasies about what and how to do things without fear of him commenting on anything other then the feeling. You can even use a safe gag to cut out all or any commentry during the session.

[QUOTE=learning]..

Have a look at the post regarding "Some ideas for being tied up/blindfolded"
with you being a little shy and also wanting to make the bj a "mind blowing" experience alot of what is there will help.
Being blindfolded the other senses seem to kick into overdrive and thus his sense of touch and anticipation of what is coming next should help make it a bj to remember (re-live) and you needen't be shy about him watching thus you to will be able to live out your fantasies about what and how to do things without fear of him commenting on anything other then the feeling. You can even use a safe gag to cut out all or any commentry during the session.[/QUOTE]

I COULDN'T AGREE MORE!!! i have been eaten out and given head with a blindfold and i have to say it is truly an out of body experience! all of your other senses are heightened when you can't see so it makes it a bazillion times better. but just make sure he trusts you and is okay with that too.

Psssssh. dancingdoc2 says it ALL again. Perfect.

go down on him and swallow