hi.
how do i know when my gf cums?
will things just get wetter down there? when im fingering her she makes lots of good sounds, but i dont know when she actually cums, but she does get wetter, and i was wonderin if that was it. It doesnt seem to be alot though, like the sort a guy would produce when he cums!
Any help?
Kev!
you'll know, i mixture of a bunch of liquids will just pour out. Usually a girl will try to hold it in because to her it'll feel like she's gotta take a piss.
IMO it dosn't matter if she has an orgasm. If she likes what you are doing (and she obviously does considering all the "good sounds") then you have nothing to worry about it. Don't stress it, she knows what she wants.
Remember, sex is meant to be fun, not a goal based task.
Have fun!!
yea, your right!
to be honest, i dont really mind, i just wanted to know how to know if i was doin something good enough to make her come.
Oh well! practise makes perfect.
kev.
When I started fingering my girlfriend, I didn't know either if she was cumming....we're pretty close so I just ended up asking her if I ever made her come, and she said I had multiple times, I asked her to let me know when I do, and she did the next time we messed around. I can read her now and know when shes close to cumming and when to step it up. I can tell now everytime I make her cum....and she kinda knows when she makes me cum heh..
Hmmmm, you can't always know for sure. Best could be ask her to let you know when she does. Her getting wetter could be an indicator, however it could also be her getting more and more turned on. The best would be to ask her to let you know. Cause it's hard to read sometimes then we girls have an orgasm.
Also, a suggestion from my own experience. Don't make a huge deal out of it, don't put her under so much pressure to come, that she will think that if she doesn't you'll be hurt. This could cause her to fake it. BAD BAD thing
Good luck