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> so my partner asked me : did u come ?? i didnt know what to answer if i come that means if i had an orgasm ...
To "come"/cum means having a climax or orgasm. The term is used in the vernacular.
The answer would be either "yes" or "no" based upon what you did or did not experience, then and in the future. If you are female, here is some information behind the question. If you are male, please keep reading.
This is a common question that men are very often concerned about and ask. I have commented upon this in one of the many helpful articles listed in the Index that you will find a link to at the top of the Main screen. Here is a partial quote:
"Because the female orgasm is much more internalized than a man's I believe it is good etiquette and a necessary part of feedback to let him know in no uncertain terms when you have climaxed. Doing so keeps him from asking the age old question of "did you cum (yet)"? Feedback can be given verbally or non-verbally. Verbal feedback can be a word or a phrase or some other utterance the two of you work out to convey a specific meaning. The same goes for non-verbal communication that can be a squeeze of the hand or some other form of body language."**
If you are a guy and your girlfriend asked the question, my guess is that she was unable to feel the pulsations inherent in an ejaculation. This might happen because the inside of the vagina does not have nerves. Now, having said that, she should be able to determine whether or not you did climax from other cues. These might be from what she feels from the surrounding areas as well as your emotional reactions.
**Whichever is the case, please understand that none of us are mind readers. I hope this answers your concerns. If not, please clarify and one or more of us will try, again.
so ok im a female so its kinda wierdo cuz i dont know what to tell my bf . no or yes or well im getting an orgasm of course i had to cum rite? but for the past two time i had sex w him i had the need to pee really ......so well i need anwers so what do u feel when u cum do u feel sumthin? besides an orgasm?
Hello! Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy your participation.
I'm not sure what the purpose of your post is. Will you elaborate?
> so my partner asked me : did u come ?? i didnt know what to answer if i come that means if i had an orgasm ...
To "come"/cum means having a climax or orgasm. The term is used in the vernacular.
The answer would be either "yes" or "no" based upon what you did or did not experience, then and in the future. If you are female, here is some information behind the question. If you are male, please keep reading.
This is a common question that men are very often concerned about and ask. I have commented upon this in one of the many helpful articles listed in the Index that you will find a link to at the top of the Main screen. Here is a partial quote:
"Because the female orgasm is much more internalized than a man's I believe it is good etiquette and a necessary part of feedback to let him know in no uncertain terms when you have climaxed. Doing so keeps him from asking the age old question of "did you cum (yet)"? Feedback can be given verbally or non-verbally. Verbal feedback can be a word or a phrase or some other utterance the two of you work out to convey a specific meaning. The same goes for non-verbal communication that can be a squeeze of the hand or some other form of body language."**
If you are a guy and your girlfriend asked the question, my guess is that she was unable to feel the pulsations inherent in an ejaculation. This might happen because the inside of the vagina does not have nerves. Now, having said that, she should be able to determine whether or not you did climax from other cues. These might be from what she feels from the surrounding areas as well as your emotional reactions.
**Whichever is the case, please understand that none of us are mind readers. I hope this answers your concerns. If not, please clarify and one or more of us will try, again.
If you start with your gender, we may get a bit of insight. Boys and girls are different and sexual response is different for each.
If you have to ask, you likely did not. Sounds like each of you needs a basic sex education. Hope there was proper protection for everyone.
so ok im a female so its kinda wierdo cuz i dont know what to tell my bf . no or yes or well im getting an orgasm of course i had to cum rite? but for the past two time i had sex w him i had the need to pee really ......so well i need anwers so what do u feel when u cum do u feel sumthin? besides an orgasm?
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Orgasm=coming
When he says.. did you come? means.. did you orgasm??
There is the whole debate of female ejaculation..blah blah.. but down to the basics... if you had an orgasm.. you came.