And she probably does not know either!! It takes some learning by all and orgasms, while automatic for most men, need to be learned. You will both learn through unrushed practice.

Neither does she! You two are hardly experienced and you have to learn sometime.

Part of the learning process includes the woman doing her own homework, so to speak. She must practice on her own and learn to masturbate. Once she learns, she will then know the specific types of stimulation that will cause them to happen and can then instruct you how to mimic her movements. That said, Brandye has stated more than once that not every woman is capable of having orgasms, for whatever reason. Your girlfriend probably won't know unles she tries. Do a search of the Board, there is a lot of information on all of this.

The female orgasm is much less obvious than the male's. Because it is, I think it is a good thing when the woman informs the man that she had an orgasm, or, is having one. How? After the fact she can use some form of body english that the two of you work out like a squeeze of the hand, or, she can let out a "whew" or "wow" in a particularl way that conveys this information. If she will do this for her man, there will be no doubt.