I am a woman in my mid-twenties. I make sure and shower every day and that also make sure everything down there is clean. I try and take good care of my physical appearance.
My problem is when my boyfriend and I do anal, still some feces comes out and it is very embarrassing. I just am not quite sure how to stop this from happening. Is there a cleaning item or technique anyone could suggest. I would greatly appreciate any help thanks!
Wed, 07/16/2008 - 15:03
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How to do anal with out any mess
There are several threads here on this, but to quickly recap -
You can use an enema, but don't go overboard. You only want to clean the lower bowel and if you introduce too much water you might not be able to get it all out, or you could get things moving further up the track and create more mess. I actually use an ear syringe . . . . it's about the right amount.
But even taking all the precautions there's always a possibility of small amounts remaining. Try different positions as well . . . . on my back (see my avatar! :D) seems to be less prone to this problem than "doggy style" for whatever reason . . . .
hi
My girlsfriend and i just a few weeks ago tried it. We thought it out carefully and i made sure i had allot of condoms and lube. But she went out and bought this hot water bottle and it has the attachment that slid into her anus. You fill the bottle with warm water and then attach the tube and thsi thing and put it inside you. It makes you full inside and then you poop it out. It cleaned her very well and we enjoyed anal sex that day totally.
This is for the guys out their who have been the "intruder" during anal sex. Doesn't the least little bit of fecal matter showing up during sex gross you out?
Just wondering.
[QUOTE=dlb;219171]This is for the guys out their who have been the "intruder" during anal sex. Doesn't the least little bit of fecal matter showing up during sex gross you out?
Just wondering.[/QUOTE]Well, I've been both "intruder" and "receiver", but the answer's the same . . . . you discreetly deal with it. No one (unless it's your kink) wants to think about the orifice's other function. But it goes with the territory. If you do what you can to avoid a mess it's usually not a lot or an issue. Also, condoms are a shield and make easy cleanup.
Sex is a messy business. ;)
If you're scared of swallowing some cum, getting a pube in your mouth, or having a little feces on your c*ck, then you should probably mature a little bit before diving into those sexual areas.
If you're scared of getting water in your eyes, don't get in the pool.
Even the kinkiest people have things that they find unappealing. It's not a question of maturity.
It doesnt bother me, Just have an open window for fresh air and a towl that isnt white.
Life aint pretty and you cant have fun without getting a little dirty from time to time.
If its embarrassing just laugh and give it a cute nickname. It can become an inside joke for each other to giggle about.
well wat i do is try and go to the bathroom before you do anal because it will clean out your rectum so there isnt any feses left. i for one have never had any come out. but thats just me.
why not get a strap on and try it on him see if its a mess with him then try to get him clean of feces then you will know what to do,a little enma is good