Has anyone else noticed that first thing in the morning when you have sex, it takes aggees to cum? It can get quite frustrating, I've pumped away for over an hour on occasions and still not even been close.
Mostly this happens in the morning, well every time in the morning, but sometimes also at other times of the day it seems to take ages. Its so bad, I've even had to fake it a few times with my gf, which she doesn't know about, because I've just got tired and she gets really depressed if she can't make me cum.
So any suggestions on tips to make me come quicker? She is completely against oral, so thats out of the question..
well bro, i've gotta tell you, it takes me forever to cum anytime i'm having sex, and the morning usually isn't any worse than any other part of the day. and i understand about the faking it, i've done it plenty of times with my gf. i seem to have less of a problem the next morning though. i think what the deal is, is that I will fake it the night before, and go to bed turned on without having had my release. so i'm that much more ready in the morning.
so maybe after you've done it once at night, get really turned on again somehow, maybe even have sex for a bit again without finishing, and then you'll be ready to go in the morning.
Stop thinking about her at some point and just FEEL - give yourself permission to orgasm, fantasize a bit, have her help by caressing you and saying things in your ear, kissing the side of your neck, etc. Add things to your repitoire and see what works. Experimenting is fun!
Arutha, I have had that happen on occasion over the years and at times like that, I've just got to focus on cumming and nothing else.
In my case, I'll have her bend over and do her doggie style because that position excites me and is very comfortable physically. Watching her ass and grabbing it in that position helps "get me over the top". Also, I'll fantasize about doing my friend's wife or something.
Anything to add a little extra stimulation. Those tricks have worked for me.