I am 17 and my gf is 16. We have been having sex for months but im never sure if she orgasms or not. Sometimes i can feel her tighten when im in her and sum juices come out. But durin this she doznt get any louder or breath any deeper than usual.Is this leading up to an orgasm, or what.. Its kind of awkward 2 ask..'did i make u come?'.
Sun, 05/16/2004 - 20:04
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How can you tell


Hey.
I always know when my gf has come by how sensitive her clit is. You know when you cum and it's all sensitive afterwards (right afterwards), well it's probably the same for her.
When I make my gf cum, if I continue to rub/lick etc... her clit, her body kinda retracts and judders and I know it's coz her clit's so sensitive after coming. Try rubbing the clit or something after you think she's cum and see what the response is. Don't know if this is case for many women, but I suppose it's worth a shot.
Hope that helps in any way.
Andy
When my GF does, she grabs my back tight, burys her head and mouth into my shoulder (depending on position) and tightens up near her umm yeah. Then she lets go for a little bit then it happens again, my record for her is 6 within 2 hours
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I've gone 8 times within an hour my self, everyone I've told that has been like WTF?
i think usually u can tell by the tightening and the arching of the back...plus i hear most girls start to breath deeper...but you should be able to ask her if you are able to have sex with her. i know my man and i can talk about that stuff.
just ask
i mean if you are able to be intimate you should be able to talk about that kind of stuff.
i usually say "oh im cumming" when im about to cum.
but yes all girls are different. the vaginal contractions could be a sign. some girls are loud, some don't say anything.
you two should really talk about it b/c then how do you know if you are doing it right?
It's different for all woman, but i can tell when my girlfriend has an orgasm because i can feel her having like, small contractions after she has her orgasm.
I discovered this by when i was giving her oral, i fingered her at the same time while i was licking her clit, and when she orgasmed (look for her back arching upwards) after it i felt them when my finger was in.
Could be different for everyone though.
Kev.