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how can you spice up love life without sex?

I was wondering how do I spice my love life with my long time bf?
We are waiting to have sex until marriage

develop a good backhand for badminton?

Take lessons in Thai and Indian cuisine. Those are pretty spicy. Also Szechuan and Hunan.

Have patience,and wear a chasity belt.No i am serious about having patience,the wait will be worth it at the end when you can finally get rid of all that sexual tension and put it to good use.

Dear TBG,
Welcome to the forum! Please share a bit more information with us, so that we could give you advice according to your situation.

-What do you define as "sex"? Most consider this to be vaginal penetration. But this could be different to you. Since we have people on this forum from all cultures over the world, not to mention personal believes. Some may think of it as any sort of genital contact, but allow kissing and caressing before marriage. A few may find that they are not even allowed to see eachother naked. So; what are you waiting for to do?
-The first also implies; could you be more specific on what you don't want to do now?
-And what sexual experience have you two had so far? This could give us a clue on how "spicy" things already are.

PS: I love your location. I'd be futterwacken! ;):):D

[color=green]to keep things interesting, you have to do things you never done before...... i.e. take trips, hiking, skiing, skating, sky diving.......fun things that the 2 of you can do together......make your relationship an adventure[/color]

Candlelight dinners, massage sessions, late night walks, etc. All of these things can add "spice" as it brings you closer to your partner without actually engaging in sex. Massaging works best to stimulation without intercourse... as you can use lotions or scented oils, which leads to very intense make-out sessions.

[color=green]sorry to say, but massaging is an activity that has a high chance of leading to sex......first it's with clothes on....wanna use lotions and oils, well you have to put those on the skin, so take your clothes off......intense making out with clothes off leads to temptation for sex.....bing bang boom, haha

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Well, being naked doesn't mean sex. No sex does not mean no physical activities at all. It all depends on what the OP considers "sex" and does think allowable or not.

Anything else: I totally agree that doing new things together is great in your relationship! Or perhaps not so new, but things that get your dopamines flowing; those natural drug hormones that make you feel good. Riding a rollercoaster, going skiing or skating, dancing (lessons)? Off course activities will depend on both your interests :)

[color=green]being naked just puts sex on the brain....attraction....curiousity.....that's what i'm getting at, but you're right....doesn't necessarily mean sex[/color]

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