Ummm...on first guess...Id say its that your asking us rather than him....Bitter you have asked the same questions about idk 25 or so times...your relationship cant be very good since there is no communication between you guys....

am i doing this right?
what do I do?
How do I know?
Does he like this?

TALK TO HIM WOMAN!!!!!!!

for some people its just not enough...I mean personally...I love her being on top...not to get myself to cum but to just to relax, enjoy the view, and just be inside her without proping myself up to prevent crushing her...

If I want to cum I get on top...

I believe she's asking here because she can remain anonymous as opposed to risk embarrassment by seeming too naive.

Bitter, just relax and don't worry so much, it typically takes longer for a guy to climax when on bottom. It's nothing you're doing wrong, just prolongs the enjoyment. If you want, try using visual aids. Tease your breasts a little or encourage him too. Something to excite his mind further and give you a little extra pleasure.
Unless he's yawning or reading his favorite novel, I'd say you're doing alright.

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Unless he's yawning or reading his favorite novel, I'd say you're doing alright.[/QUOTE]

Indeed.
Maybe you are trying TOO hard instead of just keeping it simple?
Don't need to do fancy twists and turns.
When I ride my b/f I don't even focus on what I think would feel good to him... I just go at an angle and pace that feels good to ME!.

Both are right in that on bottom... the guy can last a lot longer, at least my b/f is also that way.

He just enjoys that I am able to orgasm....and after I'm done... he'll either start going at the depth/pace that feels good to him...or switch to another position.

[quote=Thresher_V;207215]I believe she's asking here because she can remain anonymous as opposed to risk embarrassment by seeming too naive. /quote]

Nothing wrong with being naive but the posts indicate a lack of info. and these questions (the majority of the 27) are addressed through reading some of the opening pages; the stickies, and then asking more specific questions after getting some good info!

The question is not what are you doing wrong; it is what is wrong with him?

By "no reaction," do you mean no physical reaction or no verbal one?

Watch him more closely. My ex was very quiet... I often wondered what I was doing wrong that I was such a failure at pleasing him, since he never seemed to respond. But pay attention to what his body is doing. It may be that's he's just extremely quiet, but you will still be able to feel his muscles tensing as he gets closer.

Does he reach orgasm?

You got your tongue pierced for him??? The problem is you're trying too damn hard to please him!

HE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OWN ORGASM, not you!

Seems you are doing everything except ironing his underwear and jumping through flaming hoops while you do it!

Calm down! Relax Because by being this way, he can take you for granted, even sexually speaking. If there's no "feedback" from him then your pleasure is replaced by anxiety - "am I doing it right?"

What to do?

1. TALK TO HIM openly and honestly (Best choice.)
or
2. Get your orgasm and then hop off and say "See ya!" and take a shower. (It should only take your doing this once.)
or
3. Sneak in a good hard pinch on a tender spot of his during sex "just to make sure he's awake and paying attention". (Do this infrequently but it does work.)

Tell him you'd like more feedback from him. If he doesn't, then come back - I have many ways of making sure a man 'pays attention' and he may not like my version of 'sensitivity training'.