Dude, she's your girlfriend. SPEAK with her. You'll never be more intimate with someone else. Of all the people you should feel okay to speak freely with, you girlfriend is on top of that list.
It's important to put your trust in her. If you don't, something is seriously wrong.
ok well i know she talk about sex a lot but i dont know if she is joking anymore cuz at first she was but she talks about it so much now i am not sure if she is jokeing anymore
You have to ask her and talk about it before you can do it. You need to make plans and have protection. You need to make sure you are both ready and wanting to go further.
I feel it is a big mistake to just get lost in the moment and just do it. Make is special, especially if its going to be your first time together.
2 questions come to mind... what step are you at currently and have you considered that if you cant talk with her open enough to discuss taking your relationship farther then maybe your not ready to take it farther? There is no tell tale sign nothing anyone could say would apply 100% of the time… the only sure way to know is to talk to her about it
Dude, she's your girlfriend. SPEAK with her. You'll never be more intimate with someone else. Of all the people you should feel okay to speak freely with, you girlfriend is on top of that list.
It's important to put your trust in her. If you don't, something is seriously wrong.
Slowly get bolder & more aggressive & see if she welcomes your advances.
Might also help to read the:
'COMMUNICATION it really does work' post in the new relationships part of the forum.
ok well i know she talk about sex a lot but i dont know if she is joking anymore cuz at first she was but she talks about it so much now i am not sure if she is jokeing anymore
You have to ask her and talk about it before you can do it. You need to make plans and have protection. You need to make sure you are both ready and wanting to go further.
I feel it is a big mistake to just get lost in the moment and just do it. Make is special, especially if its going to be your first time together.
2 questions come to mind... what step are you at currently and have you considered that if you cant talk with her open enough to discuss taking your relationship farther then maybe your not ready to take it farther? There is no tell tale sign nothing anyone could say would apply 100% of the time… the only sure way to know is to talk to her about it