Oral sex is usually the best in my experience. However, it is better to start out slowly with kissing and general foreplay. Then begin oral sex. There is a lot of information on the forum, it may be too much information for a person who doesn't speak English as a first language, good luck.
I'm thinking that English not being the guys first language is causing him some issues. When he said "blow job" I assumed he was referring to oral in general.
[QUOTE=neko;208384]how do i give to a girl an orgasm? do blowjob give them an orgasm? does vaginal penetration is enough to give her an orgasm?:confused:[/QUOTE]
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums, Neko, if I have not already said so. We recommend all new members to our community read the Posting Guidelines and the Index, found at the top of your main screen in the Board Forums section.
Oral stimulation (blowjob) can and often will cause a woman to reach the brink of an orgasm and climax. In fact, very few sexual positions place a woman's vulva and "pieces-parts" in constant ongoing contact sufficient to generate the required friction necessary. What a skilled, knowledgeable, caring, lover will do is to reach around and stimulate his partner by hand while stroking.
Vaginal penetration using a finger or dildo (toy) and rubbing the G-spot or Posterior Fornix area will often bring about an orgasm. So, the answer to your question is: yes, both oral and manual (finger or toy) stimulation will usually bring a woman who his capable of enjoying orgasms to climax. Intercourse can depending upon the position being used.
[quote=cjb1981] Oral sex is usually the best in my experience. However, it is better to start out slowly with kissing and general foreplay. Then begin oral sex. There is a lot of information on the forum, it may be too much information for a person who doesn't speak English as a first language, good luck. [/quote]
Although not often used nowadays, people used to refer to making out as "going around the bases". The "bases" being the stages of making out or fooling around as: "Necking", "Petting", "Heavy Petting", "Foreplay", and "Intercourse". CJB, let's get the terminology and the order of things correct.
Necking pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the shoulders
Petting pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the waste and with clothes on
Heavy Petting pertains to all activities done all over excluding the genitals while progressively undressing one and/or the other person
Foreplay adds genital stimulation to the mix generally in a mix of activities that are progressive and all inclusive. This means we move from A to B to C, revisit A and B add D and so on and on.
I recommend reading Chapter Three in the link Sera provided, above.
Neko, here is some recommended reading for you and others reading this thread:
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;208414]Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums, Neko, if I have not already said so. We recommend all new members to our community read the Posting Guidelines and the Index, found at the top of your main screen in the Board Forums section.
Oral stimulation (blowjob) can and often will cause a woman to reach the brink of an orgasm and climax. In fact, very few sexual positions place a woman's vulva and "pieces-parts" in constant ongoing contact sufficient to generate the required friction necessary. What a skilled, knowledgeable, caring, lover will do is to reach around and stimulate his partner by hand while stroking.
Vaginal penetration using a finger or dildo (toy) and rubbing the G-spot or Posterior Fornix area will often bring about an orgasm. So, the answer to your question is: yes, both oral and manual (finger or toy) stimulation will usually bring a woman who his capable of enjoying orgasms to climax. Intercourse can depending upon the position being used.
Although not often used nowadays, people used to refer to making out as "going around the bases". The "bases" being the stages of making out or fooling around as: "Necking", "Petting", "Heavy Petting", "Foreplay", and "Intercourse". CJB, let's get the terminology and the order of things correct.
Necking pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the shoulders
Petting pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the waste and with clothes on
Heavy Petting pertains to all activities done all over excluding the genitals while progressively undressing one and/or the other person
Foreplay adds genital stimulation to the mix generally in a mix of activities that are progressive and all inclusive. This means we move from A to B to C, revisit A and B add D and so on and on.
I recommend reading Chapter Three in the link Sera provided, above.
Neko, here is some recommended reading for you and others reading this thread:
Some how I think what I said will probably be easier for him to understand. While the terminology my not be exactly corect, it gets the basic point across.
Oral sex is usually the best in my experience. However, it is better to start out slowly with kissing and general foreplay. Then begin oral sex. There is a lot of information on the forum, it may be too much information for a person who doesn't speak English as a first language, good luck.
Please read the threads under new to sex...then re-direct your questions after you have obtained some basics.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/20641-intercourse_orgasms_the_ge...
You do not give anyone, except yourself, an orgasm. You are responsible for yours and she, for hers.
Now, follow sera's advice.
I really hope he doesnt mean if she gives him a blowjob it makes her cum....
I'm thinking that English not being the guys first language is causing him some issues. When he said "blow job" I assumed he was referring to oral in general.
[QUOTE=neko;208384]how do i give to a girl an orgasm? do blowjob give them an orgasm? does vaginal penetration is enough to give her an orgasm?:confused:[/QUOTE]
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums, Neko, if I have not already said so. We recommend all new members to our community read the Posting Guidelines and the Index, found at the top of your main screen in the Board Forums section.
Oral stimulation (blowjob) can and often will cause a woman to reach the brink of an orgasm and climax. In fact, very few sexual positions place a woman's vulva and "pieces-parts" in constant ongoing contact sufficient to generate the required friction necessary. What a skilled, knowledgeable, caring, lover will do is to reach around and stimulate his partner by hand while stroking.
Vaginal penetration using a finger or dildo (toy) and rubbing the G-spot or Posterior Fornix area will often bring about an orgasm. So, the answer to your question is: yes, both oral and manual (finger or toy) stimulation will usually bring a woman who his capable of enjoying orgasms to climax. Intercourse can depending upon the position being used.
[quote=cjb1981] Oral sex is usually the best in my experience. However, it is better to start out slowly with kissing and general foreplay. Then begin oral sex. There is a lot of information on the forum, it may be too much information for a person who doesn't speak English as a first language, good luck. [/quote]
Although not often used nowadays, people used to refer to making out as "going around the bases". The "bases" being the stages of making out or fooling around as: "Necking", "Petting", "Heavy Petting", "Foreplay", and "Intercourse". CJB, let's get the terminology and the order of things correct.
Necking pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the shoulders
Petting pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the waste and with clothes on
Heavy Petting pertains to all activities done all over excluding the genitals while progressively undressing one and/or the other person
Foreplay adds genital stimulation to the mix generally in a mix of activities that are progressive and all inclusive. This means we move from A to B to C, revisit A and B add D and so on and on.
I recommend reading Chapter Three in the link Sera provided, above.
Neko, here is some recommended reading for you and others reading this thread:
KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION
For Men and Women Only- Breasts and Play
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
The Program
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;208414]Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums, Neko, if I have not already said so. We recommend all new members to our community read the Posting Guidelines and the Index, found at the top of your main screen in the Board Forums section.
Oral stimulation (blowjob) can and often will cause a woman to reach the brink of an orgasm and climax. In fact, very few sexual positions place a woman's vulva and "pieces-parts" in constant ongoing contact sufficient to generate the required friction necessary. What a skilled, knowledgeable, caring, lover will do is to reach around and stimulate his partner by hand while stroking.
Vaginal penetration using a finger or dildo (toy) and rubbing the G-spot or Posterior Fornix area will often bring about an orgasm. So, the answer to your question is: yes, both oral and manual (finger or toy) stimulation will usually bring a woman who his capable of enjoying orgasms to climax. Intercourse can depending upon the position being used.
Although not often used nowadays, people used to refer to making out as "going around the bases". The "bases" being the stages of making out or fooling around as: "Necking", "Petting", "Heavy Petting", "Foreplay", and "Intercourse". CJB, let's get the terminology and the order of things correct.
Necking pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the shoulders
Petting pertains to all kissing and caressing done above the waste and with clothes on
Heavy Petting pertains to all activities done all over excluding the genitals while progressively undressing one and/or the other person
Foreplay adds genital stimulation to the mix generally in a mix of activities that are progressive and all inclusive. This means we move from A to B to C, revisit A and B add D and so on and on.
I recommend reading Chapter Three in the link Sera provided, above.
Neko, here is some recommended reading for you and others reading this thread:
KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION
For Men and Women Only- Breasts and Play
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
The Program[/QUOTE]
Some how I think what I said will probably be easier for him to understand. While the terminology my not be exactly corect, it gets the basic point across.