Alright, I like this girl and she likes me and im not really looking forward to getting head but it would be nice. What i dont get though is how she wants me to go down on her but she doesnt want to go down on me at all.Her answer when i asked why she doesnt, she says she doesnt want to. I tell her that i dont want to go down her but i will do it just becuase shes special to me and all that love crap.I dont want to go down on her yet becuase it seems unfair to me if i go down on her and she doesnt do it to me becuase im afraid of the thought that she is trying to play me and thats her #1 goal.
Some other details on her ive noticed is she is kinda selfish to when it comes towards those things and doesnt think like i did when i said i would go down on her becuase she is special to me but what im also annoyed by is how she is never in the mood when i visit her to do sexual things. I want to know if theres any particular ways to turn a girl on. What are the most known ways you people know of. Thanks a buttload 
thanks everyone i appreciate even the ones who slapped me across the face for havein the screen name.
I second ringo's views on going down on her… keep in mind what you are doing and you should learn to like it
I think you need to wake up to the idea of going down on her - it's a beautiful thing - trust me!
Things often get reciprocated after all (although this isn't necessarily the aim of the game.)
Cheers,
Ringo
Well, since others saw it close to the way I did, at least I know I'm not nuts.
Well, maybe a little.
I do think the way a person posts often reveals much about the person's attitudes and outlooks, particularly towards others. Sometimes I just "calls 'em the way I sees 'em."
In another setting, I often tell people that we need to accept responsibility for how others see us - we are responsible for the conclusions they draw because we send out the signals.
Self-awareness is a wonderful thing.
[QUOTE=Quote (HerPleasure06 @ Aug. 30 2004,02:03)][/quote]
If you truly like her and aren’t just in it for your pleasure you shouldn’t be so hurt by the fact that she doesn’t want to give you head, that’s her preference. [/QUOTE]
I disagree. I would be very hurt if the guy I loved did not want to go down on me. If I am going to be sexual with a man that is a requirement for me. If she is just not ready to take that step with him then that is perfectly fine but if her reason is simply that she doesn't want to because she "doesn't do that ever" then he should find someone else
And the rest of the posters are right about pimpgame's screen name and language being suspicious. I noticed that too. Women sometimes can sense when all that a man wants from them is sex. Why would you think she is trying to "play you" when you said that she doesn't even want to do sexual things? That is contradictory. If anything, she probably fears that you will play her. That is the more likely scenario.
[QUOTE=Quote (Pimpgame101 @ Aug. 28 2004,19:02)]and all that love crap[/QUOTE]
If you truly like her and aren’t just in it for your pleasure you shouldn’t be so hurt by the fact that she doesn’t want to give you head, that’s her preference.
on a different note you say your sn has nothing to do with who you are but I guarantee wally wouldn’t have said that if the way you wrote your msg didn’t conform 2 the same msg that your sn was sending
my username has nothing to do with anything i just used that to write a message. Today i just got everything straighten out on why shes acting the way she is.thanks for answering 1/4 of my question(s)
sorry we didn't say what you wanted us to.
LOL Wally
yeah i agree. how can you be all, yeah i tell her she's special and your SN is pimpgame?!?
maybe she's learned to play tha playa so to speak. good for her.
so she's never in the mood when you visit her to do sexual things??
there's nothing wrong w/ that. girls are like guys in that way.
they need to be turned on somewhat. you can't just show up and be like, lets do sexual stuff.
maybe she feels like thats the only reason you are w/ her or coming to visit her.
if its that big of a deal, find a chick who will gladly suck your dick, they are out there.
Perhaps unintentionally, you answered your own question with the nickname you chose.
When you trade sex for sex it's a mild form of prostitution. That's not, however, most relationships develop.
"Pimping" is fairly straightforward... you have to offer enough of an incentive to get what you want. Telling her that she's special and you'll go down on her is apparently not enough of an incentive for her to go down on you.
Simple math, really.