i'm not exactly NEW to sex but i have only had sex with one guy and really only learned everything about sex from him. He told me he wants me to be more "freaky" and i've already done talking dirty, swallowing, blowjobs and such.. am i missing something?? what can i do to spice things up?!?!
Wed, 03/04/2009 - 22:46
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how to be freaky?!
Hm.
Well, without further explanation from him... Don't know what to tell you.
Ask him in a nonsexual situation what exactly he means. Communication is the only answer.
he said he wants me to be more sexy and more into it which i thought i was.. ??? i mean i moan while were having sex, we have foreplay, i go down on him, swallow, i go back and forth from sex to going down on him.. all he told me was that he wants me to be more freaky, more into it and be more sexier and naughtier...
He needs a better command of the English language. He is not giving you enough of a hint, enough ideas, enough direct explanations.
My suggestion is to do some role playing. As kids we used to play "nurse" or "doctor", try something like this and make up a script either beforehand or during the play.
Wear a clown suit. A lot of people are afraid of clowns.
:D
God knows it would freak the heck out of me!!!
[QUOTE=wet_suit_one;234840]Wear a clown suit. A lot of people are afraid of clowns.
:D
God knows it would freak the heck out of me!!![/QUOTE]
lol nice I was thinking around the same lines
but a punkrocker style .. some facial piercings a pink mohawk .
now thats freaky lol
or tie him up to a chair whilst you are wearing only a plastic garbage bag
and slap him with a dead fish,,,,,,
oh Dear it is friday again .....sorry my mind wanders on a friday lol
OMG - look the 'freakiest' thing you can do is a "mind-fuck" which requires you knowing your partner through and through - go to www.wickedwomangroup.us to learn HOW. Positions, techniques, lingerie, toys, costumes - PFFFT. Nothing but nothing beats a good 'mind-fuck'.
Bite him, claw him, tell him to slap you on the ass! Pen him down and tell him what you're going to do to him! That would get me going :D But to be honest with you, you need to ask EEK what to do, this is where she excels...
Edit: Never mind, she's already schooled you...