I got to thinking about this from another thread that I was reading elsewhere. Ok, my man absolutely LOVES to here me moan and groan and talk dirty to him when we have sex. He will talk dirty to me too no problem but when it comes to his own moaning and groaning, I BARELY HEAR ANY! He is not a shy person in bed by any means so if he loves to hear me, why won't he let me hear him? Guys...let your girl hear you! Trust me, it turns us on just as much as it turns you on!
Fri, 07/13/2007 - 18:27
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How about a little moan here and there?
hm most guys seem to think moaning is admitting to a weakness they seem to think it unmanly but hey if we enjoy it why not
[QUOTE=Newtolove;186468]hm most guys seem to think moaning is admitting to a weakness they seem to think it unmanly but hey if we enjoy it why not[/QUOTE]
agreed. i make noise during sex. why guys think they need to hide how much they're enjoying this most intimate act IN THE MIDDLE OF IT with person they love is just beyond me.
I don't think it's a weakness, and I wouldn't see why anyone would think that... Unless they are plain stupid.. whatever I guess.
There are many posts on this... jsut like w/ anything else.. some people are very verbal or make a lot of noise... some people are very quiet... like myself.
Doesn't mean we are enjoying it any more or less than someone who is moaning like a porn star!
I have no problem moaning while making love, it is after all the best way to let your partner know what you're enjoying and when! And the same in reverse, I love when she gets vocal because it puts me at ease that I'm actually making the right moves :)
I guess in the end, it all comes down to personal circumstances and how comfortable you are with your partner, and how open and honest the two of you are with each other.
If other people are in the house... quiet is good... and since most of my time is spent with other people in the house, I am quiet. Also, I find that making too much noise just isn't comfortable... it's like I have to try to, and when it becomes work, what's the point?
I absolutely agree with you, LovinItSingle! There have been so few men that I've been with who make much noise at all! It is frustrating for me, as I LOVE the sweet sounds of passion coming from his lips...god, even more frustrating when you mention that it is a huge turn on for you, and they say, "oh, you want me to sound like you?" Man, what is THAT supposed to mean? It's funny to me, too, because my current bf hates it when I'm being quieter than normal, but yet, he doesn't seem to understand that when he's always so quiet, it's not anywhere near as pleasurable for me.
Sorry, I'm ranting, but I soooo agree!
i usually try to moan when im having sex, sometimes ill get cought up with something else and not moan
i'm the other way around...i get WAY too loud even when i'm trying to be quiet :( my boyfriend says he really likes it though :)