Bi-curious

[Littlelady20]

I think I might be bi but I am not sure I have made out with girls and we felt each other up but that's my only girl on girl experience. Also whenever I am watching a movie and they show boobs I can't help but stare at them as weird as that might sound so I am not sure if that means anything. Does that mean I am bi? Or am I just bi-curious? I need opinions

[Brandye]

You need to do a search on "Bicurious" and "am I bi-"

There are many threads on this.

[dancingdoc2]

> How can I tell if I am bi or if I am bi-curious?

How do you tell if you are attracted to a man? The answer is the same.

* If you are only attracted to males of the species then you are straight/heterosexual.

* If you are only attracted to females of the species then you are a lesbian.

* If you find yourself being attracted to both men and women then you are bisexual.

* If you are primarily attracted to men yet curious about having an attraction or relationship with a member a woman then you are bi-curious while you sort out the matter.

Attraction is the key. What personal qualities attract you to another person, male or female?


Male / Female Sexual Behavior--If I like certain things does this mean I'm Gay?

Gender attraction is the key and it has nothing to do with sex. That you are aroused by looking at breasts or other parts of the female body is simply a matter of stimulation.

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[dancingdoc2]

> Also whenever I am watching a movie and they show boobs I can't help but stare at them as weird as that might sound so I am not sure if that means anything. Does that mean I am bi? Or am I just bi-curious?

Also whenever I am watching an adult video and they show a penis, I can't help but stare at it as weird as that might sound so I am not sure if that means anything. Does that mean I am Gay/homosexual, bi-, or am I just bi-curious?

Does this sound familiar? Many young boys will hold jack-off contests among their friends to judge how their performance compares with their friends'. Older teens will try to sneak a peak at classmates' penises in gym class to see how theirs compares in appearance to others. ("Am I normal?" Whatever "NORMAL" is.)

Consider all this as your "healthy curiosity phase" of being a teenager in which these years are full of different phases that come and go as you continue to mature. Your hormones are raging and so as teens we find ourselves curious about a whole lot of things we do not yet know about.

Unless or until you become emotionally attracted to a person of the same gender, I wouldn't worry about your sexuality. Nor would I worry about it until you become attracted to more than one person of the same gender over time. Nor would I worry about it until you exclude men and are only attracted to girls/women. I wouldn't be concerned about you if I saw you staring at or studying a nude statue, male or female!

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

[tiffers]

I have tried stuff with both guys and girls as well. But I consider myself mainly straight. I know I enjoy what I do with girls, and in some ways have done more with girls then guys. But i gues its all about self examination. Knowing yourself and be honest to yourself. Experiance age and wisdom I assume will help to.

[tjmn2012]

hi i am also trying the bicurious thing but have not got as far as you nervous yes we can chat if you life my email is tjmn2012@yahoo.com i am 29 and looking to try

[centillini]

well I am a guy and feel the same way when I see a nice clean hard cock. Yes I am bicurious, and am waiting for right time to try the first expericane. To me you should take the next step and go down on a lady that turns you on. Nothing wrong with being bi.

[Tomakehersmile]

There's a plain and simple answer to all this.. If you look cause you would like to touch or be intimate or have a physical or emotional connection with that gender then yes you are.. If you stare because you have an appreciation for the attractiveness or physique or whatever other aspect of that gender without an actual attraction then you're hetero.. I can stare at a mans appearance or his package or whatever and even think to myself wow that dude is extremely attractive but I don't have a desire of a relationship or sexual thoughts about him beyond maybe imagining him being with a woman.. Many women can have admiration for other females attractiveness and only want dick.. I'm 110% heterosexual with no confusion.. I think other orientations are completely great for anyone that wants it.. So in my mind the lines are clearly drawn