Advice on quick ejaculation while masturbating

[david2000]

I am 21 years old. I'm new to gay sex. I've sucked cock a handful of times and I really enjoy it. I haven't tried anal sex with a guy before but I have been fucking myself with a dildo in the past few months.

I would put a condom over my dildo and grease it really good with ID Glide lubricant before fucking my ass with it. The dildo is not too big. The lubricant works very well. It took a while to get used to having the dildo up my ass. It hurt a lot in the beginning but now it doesn't hurt anymore. I would also stroke my cock while I'm fucking myself.

I also watch a gay porn video while stroking my cock and fucking my ass. I get really turned on watching two guys having anal sex.

I have a question. I ejaculate in less than a couple of minutes of stroking my cock while fucking my ass with the dildo. Is this normal? When I stroke my cock without fucking my ass with the dildo, it would take a long time for me to ejaculate.

Thank you very much for your thoughts on this matter.

[dancingdoc2]

> It took a while to get used to having the dildo up my ass. It hurt a lot in the beginning but now it doesn't hurt anymore.

Penetrating the anus should not hurt anytime. "Pain" is an indication that something is not right.

Please read the following article listed in the Index found at the top of the main page.
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

> I would also stroke my cock while I'm fucking myself.

As detailed in the article, experiment with massaging the Prostate gland, and also working with the testicles as described. Both of these techniques along with rimming will greatly enhance an orgasm as well as help jump start a difficult one like the second or third in a multiple session. So, stroke away, front and rear.

> I also watch a gay porn video while stroking my cock and fucking my ass.

Why not work on your imagination and cultivate it instead of watching unrealistic porn?

> I ejaculate in less than a couple of minutes of stroking my cock while fucking my ass with the dildo. Is this normal?

Yes, indeedy! That and enjoying more intense orgasms is the crux of the article.

You've discovered one of the best secrets of why rimming and anal play, and prostate massage, and ball play are so enjoyable.

[meatstick]

yes I too ejaculate in less than a couple of minutes of stroking my cock while fucking my ass with toys. i find i precum a lot more and when i ejaculate it is more intense and there is more of it.
try cumming with out stroking your cock. youll have to fuck you dildo a lot more intensly and longer but the feeling is so intense. its hard to do at first but once you do youll be hooked

[chrissandugo]

thats normal in my opinion. thats why during our threesome, i dont want to be in the position on which somebody is sucking my cock and somebody was rimming me or fucking me. i can cum in a matter of minutes (same with my partners).