Confused? Crazy? Or just go for it.

[Whynot101]

I have been straight my entire life. To this day, I get excited over women. I'm married. I'm attracted to women and get extremely turned on by women with hairy vaginas. I am not attracted to men. I don't like seeing men kiss or hug or hold hands. I do not get excited seeing men sucking other men or having anal sex with other men. I do like porno's and my main focus is men receiving oral sex by women and seeing the women receiving cum in their mouth and also having multiple men cum in the womens mouth one after another. Kinda normal so far? Here we go, I really am not interested in receivng oral sex from men but after swallowing my own cum for the first time a few years ago, whenever I watch a porno and see the woman taking a mans cum or watching four or five men one after another cum in the same womans mouth, all I can think of is I wish it were my mouth. I recently watched a gay film and during most of the movie it really did nothing for me but near the end when one of the men laid on a bed with his head near the foot of the bed and four men each jerked off in his mouth, I really became excited and fantasized that I was the guy on the bed. Am I crazy? Should I carry this fantasy out?

[dancingdoc2]

Much of the time fantasies are better off left and enjoyed as fantasies.
+ You can masturbate with imaginary participants, collect and pour your semen into your mouth from as many imaginary lovers as you can have

If you do decide you want to try and put together a cum party, here then is my cautionary list to consider first and foremost.

* Get to know each of the men you want to invite to participate beforehand.
* Insist on having a clean bill of health on each from each doctor.
* Invite each to a social get together and see how they interact with each other before ever having them drop their drawers in front of everybody at some future date.
* Discuss with each what you want to do, what your fantasy is all about, and what part you want each person to have.
+ do you want each person to masturbate one at at time or all together
+ do you want to jack each one off in turn orally &/or manually
+ do you want the participants to do this with each other
+ do you want to have a group make out session beforehand
+ do you want to enjoy multiple orgasms from each
+ other
* Do not swallow any semen singly or in combination especially if you do not have a health certificate on each.
* Are you going to insist that each participant be single and unattached
* Are you going to be the only focus of their attention or do you care if the group pleasure others
* Do you want other types of stimulation like rimming, prostate massage, or ball squeezing to help jump start orgasm(s)
+ Yes or no, what if one or more wants to do this to one or more of the group

So, have a script in place that they all sign off on so that things do not have a chance to get out of hand.

[Whynot101]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Much of the time fantasies are better off left and enjoyed as fantasies.
+ You can masturbate with imaginary participants, collect and pour your semen into your mouth from as many imaginary lovers as you can have

If you do decide you want to try and put together a cum party, here then is my cautionary list to consider first and foremost.

* Get to know each of the men you want to invite to participate beforehand.
* Insist on having a clean bill of health on each from each doctor.
* Invite each to a social get together and see how they interact with each other before ever having them drop their drawers in front of everybody at some future date.
* Discuss with each what you want to do, what your fantasy is all about, and what part you want each person to have.
+ do you want each person to masturbate one at at time or all together
+ do you want to jack each one off in turn orally &/or manually
+ do you want the participants to do this with each other
+ do you want to have a group make out session beforehand
+ do you want to enjoy multiple orgasms from each
+ other
* Do not swallow any semen singly or in combination especially if you do not have a health certificate on each.
* Are you going to insist that each participant be single and unattached
* Are you going to be the only focus of their attention or do you care if the group pleasure others
* Do you want other types of stimulation like rimming, prostate massage, or ball squeezing to help jump start orgasm(s)
+ Yes or no, what if one or more wants to do this to one or more of the group

So, have a script in place that they all sign off on so that things do not have a chance to get out of hand.

First, let me thank you for responding in a very constructive way. I've given this a lot of thought and reading your comments helped me decide what I should do. I think you're right that some things should stay a fantasy. There is too much at stake with multiple people involved. I am concerned about medical issues with other partners and receiving their sperm orally as enticing as it seems. To answer some of your questions, I would have wanted the focus on me where it would be very possible that some of the others may focus more on one of them rather than me. Selfish I guess. To a degree I am. I would like other stimulations such as the anal area with a finger possibly, But no ball squeezing. I prefer them tickled not squeezed. I will focus on my original desires that would involve only one person and only one to make sure is medically desirable. The other disadvantage of more than one partner to engage orally is that I would not have much control over the size of their penis. With one person I can make sure we are compatible in that area also. It would be less fun if they wanted to go all the way in and couldn't due to the size not to mention the stimulation for theirs balls and for me too. I am interested in their pleasure as much as mine. Whoever I get together with needs to know that when I get on that bed and they get ontop of me in the 69 position and put their erection in my mouth, there is no restrictions. I want them to know the more they get excited pumping in there, the more I'm also getting excited. When they get turned on feeling their balls up against me when they pump, it's exciting me too. When they get ready to cum and want to cum I also want them to cum. Also, I can still sort of live out my fantasy of muliple loads, when he cums in my mouth I can masturbate and swallow mine as well. I know most of the readers on here think I'm crazy, but I'm sure there are some that have had similar fantasies and maybe even carried them out. Thanks again for your response. I really do appreciate it.

[dancingdoc2]

> First, let me thank you for responding in a very constructive way.

You're welcome.

> I would have wanted the focus on me where it would be very possible that some of the others may focus more on one of them rather than me. Selfish I guess.

Selfish? Not at all. You are the writer of this play, it is yours to script as you please. The actors are just that and are to follow the script unless you give them some wiggle room to ad lib.

> I would like other stimulations such as the anal area with a finger possibly, But no ball squeezing.

Any or all should be undertaken only when you are extremely aroused.

Please read this:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

> I would not have much control over the size of their penis.

The answer to this concern is in the article.

> I would not have much control over the size of their penis. With one person I can make sure we are compatible in that area also.

Any incompatibility would be the same whether one or more is/are involved.

> when he cums in my mouth I can masturbate and swallow mine as well.

You could masturbate, although, I believe more intensity would be had if your pal did this for you.

Also, guys can enjoy multiple orgasms so just wait out his refractory period and do it again, and, again, until he exhausts himself.

[Whynot101]

Thank you once again for your responses. I'd like to get your input in another area. With all the concerns as you pointed out in dealing with unfamiliar people they do have to be considered. That being said, As I surf the web I see many other men also married also have been straight with very similar desires which made me start thinking. How do I know that someone right in my neighborhood that I'm friends with doesn't have the same desires or has been doing this for some time. If I knew a way to try to feel out someone I know to see where their thoughts are focused, maybe we can open up with eachother and possibly carry out our wishes together. I would really have to see some responses to get a feel that it seems we are both on the same wavelength. If this worked in my favor I can finally start doing this without the fear of any medical concerns. Also, if it's revealed to me that they have been doing this with one or more others already, maybe I can be included too. Then I shouldn't be concerned with his friends being in my mouth or shooting in my mouth either since he knows them. I do realize that they may also want certain things done for themselves but believe if the friend that invited me expressed to them they would each have an opportunity to be on top and focus on their pleasure in my mouth, I don't think they would turn it down. So, the problem is how do I get into a conversation about sex and lean toward the idea about eating cum and try to have them open up and reveal something like, they have done it. This would then make me feel comfortable enough to admit that I'd not only like my mouth pumped and cum inside it but I'd welcome three or four others to do the same one after another.