Im confused if Im lesbian/bi/straight

[charlieinpink]

Its my first time being in this site after I've seen the link of this in a facebook acct. And I actually like it because I have a feeling that maybe some of you will understand me.


I am 18 years old, and In a relationship with a highschool bestfriend. We will be hitting 3years now. When I was in highschool, I know its not a serious relationship. But now, it turns out that I am wrong. I admit it to her that one day I will leave her and have a boyfriend and get married and have kids (which obviously she cannot give). Our relationship is getting stronger. Though sometimes I cheat on her, and I date with some guy, but I really dnt hve rel. with this guys because I really love her.


I am straight (Am I stupid for saying that???) I don't get attracted to same sex. I dnt like her, I just love her. I dnt like the feeling of calling her my girlfriend. So I just call her my bestfriend and she gets angry. I love the feeling of being loved by her. I dnt like the fact that I really am a bisexual.



I need some advice. Thank you and god bless!

[hot-texan]

you don't say if you were intimate with the female friend or if you were just very close. your sexual orientation is usually defined as what sex you find yourself attracted to in a physical and sexual way, not just who you want to spend your time with. People love each other all the time in platonic ways and it doesn't change their sexual orientation

[charlieinpink]

were intimate. shes been introducing me to her frnds as her grlfrnd. but i dnt even mention her to my frnds. well i think im bi for now. but i am not seeing myself being with her in the future.

[hot-texan]

ok, so you could very well be bisexual, but just because you date her and are intimate with her doesn't mean you have to spend the rest of your life with her, just as strait people date various people through out their lives you should too. Enjoy your time together and make the most of it for now. However, it seems obvious that sooner or later you're going to hurt her by breaking up, so don't make it any worse by stringing her along if you know now that already

[charlieinpink]

yes i know. but itll hurt me too. thanks hot texan!